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HOW DO I BREAK IT OFF 14-04-2004
I've had an off and on relationship for the past couple
years and now she wants to take it to the next step and get
engauged. i do love her and i told her that i wanted to also,
even though i decided later that i didn't I'm just
not ready for that big of a step. i want to get out in the world
and explore more before i settle down later in life. i really
have no idea how to go about letting ...
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A Lack Of Closure 13-04-2004
While I am very much aware that life is a classroom, some
lessons aren't pleasant and are in fact painful. Knew
there were risks when I got involved with my first real time
D/s relationship. Thought I had covered the bases but didn't
bank on being outright lied to about his marital status.
I am processing what happened but am having some difficulty
in that I am challenged in gaining any ...
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love of my life ran off ! 11-04-2004
all of my life i wanted someone like brandy.now she ran off
with my and we rarely speak.some days it's
hard breath without her as my fresh air of life.baby if you
ever see this i love you so much!!!nobody can ever replace
you in my heart.i miss you, and our .love always, me...
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Don't come over with out warning 30-03-2004
Just a small tip. If you are reently broken up do not show
up at their place randomly. I dont care what excuse you have,
whether its that you are looking for a missing tooth brush
or that your drunk. At best your ex thinks you are even more
pathetic, at worst they call the police.
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I have an ex who continues to show up at my place drunk, even
though we broke up about 3 months ...
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Re: How to say Goodbye 03-03-2004
You're kidding right? Love...that word is tossed
around far too carelessly. If that person "Loved"
you there would be no need to say goodbye as a result of lying
cheating using etc. Sweetheart face it they did not love
you. So saying goodbye is the easiest thing to say if you
truly were lied to etc. You cannot possably tell me that
you love someone that you cannot trust because the two ...
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Response to "It Just Doesn't Get Any Easier" 01-03-2004
I have to wonder if it is the passion you love the most about
your relationship, and if that is the reason why you are
still wanting her even after all of the hard times. Huge
arguements are just as passionate as hot sex, and for some
people, passion of any type is a need. If you could find passion
with someone, without the fighting, perhaps you could
be even happier than you were with ...
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re: how not to break up 09-02-2004
your 'article' is a veiled excuse to tell a really
crap joke, right?
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re : to good to be true 09-02-2004
sorry, this isn't really anything to do with breaking
up..
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..however, this might have been better under the category
of 'dating' or 'building a relationship'
- where it would actually be relevant !
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re : cheating in the bdsm relationship 09-02-2004
sorry to hear your troubles..
..it's plain that the experience has affected you
<br>
it just goes to show that a bdsm relationship has the same
rules as a vanilla relationship - honesty and communication.
<br>
trouble meeting bdsm partners ??
it's actually easier, with sites like alt.com - people
put up a sign saying this is what i want and all you have to
do is ...
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re : what i miss most 09-02-2004
great article !!
<br>
i am keeping this to explain to others why people enjoy a
bdsm life.
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it's evocative of the depths that the master/sub explore
and how it really allows people to share and express their
desires - without being sordid.
<br>
thank you
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re : Leave the person with dignity, grace and respect 09-02-2004
thank you for the great article..
<br>
i think it's not a thought just for ending a relationship,
but a guide throughout.
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re : Don't give Doms a bad name re : Don't give Doms a bad name 09-02-2004
sorry to hear what happened to you, but if he's that
immature, then you're best away from him.
<br>
your article shows that a d/s relationship is like a vanilla
relationship and is based on the same rules - honesty and
communication.
<br>
unfortunately, people in a d/s relationship are only human
and carry their frailties with them ["wherever you
go, there you are"] ...
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re : giving her away 09-02-2004
great article.
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i think you did the right thing, namely not trying to 'force'
the relationship and having it end badly for both of you.
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bravo, monsieur !!
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re : Help me understand this! Why does he need more? 09-02-2004
well, it sounds very fishy to me..
..a d/s relationship is like a vanilla relationship - based
on honesty and communication.
<br>
considering the ratio of doms:subs, this won't be
the 1st sub to contact him or the last.
<br>
if he won't/can't explain to you what "needs
this for various reasons that he does not have to explain"
refers to, then he's not being honest ...
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This may seem rude but... 04-02-2004
I cannot believe what I am reading! Ladies! What the hell
is wrong with you? You meet some guy online, and decide that
H/he is the be all and end all of your world? This goes out
to those people that got "dumped" and didnt
really get together RT much. Please...Where the hell are
your brians? Did Y/you check them at the door when Y/you
came home from work or something? the world ...
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need help please. 03-02-2004
I am a submissive, searching for a Dom to meet in r/t. I recently
met a Dom for coffee and a brief get to know each other meeting.
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My delimma is; how do i tell him he is not what i am looking
for. I know that this was only the first meeting, and that
things might improve, but i do not honestly feel that he
and i would make a proper match.
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Help, how do i ...
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Re:Breaking Up Without Hurting 02-02-2004
Becoming a couple is a process that occurs over time. Uncoupling
is also a process. Disengagement from one another after
sharing your hopes goals and dreams can be as upsetting
as losing someone to death, if not more so as it involves
a sense of deliberate abandonment.
Typically the break up is initiated by one party leaving
the other feeling rejected. A good way to proceed is to put ...
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Do it with respect and face up to what you've done.... 25-01-2004
my Master just broke up with me this weekend and i'm
heart broken about it. It's not just the fact that He
left, its how and why He did it. A past ex slave/girlfriend
of His came back to town and He immediately dumped me to be
with her. This is from the Man who only a few days earlier
was telling me that i would belong to Him forever, that i
was perfect for Him, that He could see me ...
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Reply to Read the Fine Print 23-01-2004
I now where You are coming from - but reading profiles is
not a strong point of M/most on alt. Yes, they A/all like
to glance through them, but what they are looking at/for
is beyond Me. I have had a couple of subs on alt, and each time
they have changed their profiles to indicate that they
are with Me, and have no desire to meet or cyber with any Other.
Does that stop the wannabee Doms ...
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The sooner the better saves hearts 06-01-2004
Always remember when you break up with somebody that you
can drag it out or wait, becasue it wont go away. You always
need to be honest and true to yourself and you partner. Thats
how I remain friends with all my ex's. But treating
them with respect and caring and being a friend even after
we've broken up.
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If you've beenbroken up wiht, value their honesty
and their ...
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Breaking up without hurting 02-01-2004
I have realized that my boyfriend and I are not right for
each other. We are different people with different beliefs,
neither of us is a bad person. I just see no future in "us",
but I so don't want to hurt him. He really has done nothing
wrong, and I know he loves me deeply, and I do love him, but
I am feeling so stifled, so trapped. I feel I need my freedom
back, that a serious ...
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re: Help me understand this. Why does he need more? 02-01-2004
My heart goes out to you, finding out that your Dominant
"needs more." I thought about this situation
earlier today, and no one can answer for anyone else. I believe
that my Dominant has been unfaithful to me. He doesn't
want to say, but I forgive him because I cannot imagine life
without him and no, more than that. He is who he is and may
have needs I can't comprehend. Your Dominant ...
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How not to break up. 25-12-2003
One night, I was considering leaving my girlfriend of 11
months, and she came over unannounced. So we decided that
the tv was rubbish and we should have some fun, so after some
foreplay we started to have sex, after less than a minute
I shouted out, "Kirsty!", one of our friends,
I couldn't believe it but my other half didnt seem to
notice. So I put my head deep in the pillow and bit down ...
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RE: Help me understand this... 25-12-2003
I can offer assistance by tossing out questions to help
you sort through this, but first let me say, I can only answer
one of your posted questions. (The others only you and he
can answer.)--NO, you are not stupid for feeling hurt.
Stupid does not come into play where any of our human emotions
are concerned...
<br>
Questions: Was there a mutual agreement made for exclusivity?
...
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Dear S., I shall try to keep this brief... 07-12-2003
It is extraordinarily difficult to even break off a ‘temporary’
connection with someone and some pitiful snivelling part
of me feels that it must be even harder when that connection
has been a bdsm one …
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Dear S…,
<br>
To use similar words to ones you wrote to me not so long ago,
‘I shall try to keep this brief and write as words
flow ...
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be respectful but honest! 01-12-2003
the reason i'm writing this is because i had been chatting
with a slave who agreed to moved here from another country.
he lied to me, led me on by saying he rally wanted to be with
me and wanted to start a new life with me. i had told him from
the start that i wasn't into cyber that i was looking
4 a R/T slave. instead of him telling me the truth that he
was just a "player" instead he told ...
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Your widest fantasy remains just that... 12-11-2003
I had hoped you would be my mirror, but it's apparent
that it won't be you. The only room you seem to have in
your reality, is room for fantasy. And that's not what
I'm looking for. There's too much at stake to continue
comprising. We're coming down the backside of the
mountain, and time is short. And the last relationship
that I have in my life, will not only be the very best, but
it ...
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never complete breakup 03-11-2003
They'v got you by the balls for life.She, s got pic, s
of you on your knees eating ass, your face in a toilet, chuging
down lots of piss.I ran into woman i had worshiped a few times
at gas station, she took the $45 I had went to her car saying
get busy fuce face.I ate her asshole for 30min see her in
2 more yrs.
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RE:Submissive vs girlfriend 27-09-2003
I am 48 never married no and my last D/s relationship
was my relationship. She was my love, girlfriend, friend
and playmate. And yes, underlining it all she was my submissive,
slut, and anything it pleased me to make of my property.
So I understand why you would want more. And it is so nice
to adore your vanilla partnership and know that your private
partnership is ruled by him.
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Soon Baby, We'll have to Say Good-bye. 18-09-2003
You are all that I could ever want in a man, a Dom and a life
partner. I trust you as much as I have trusted the one family
member that was so very special and so important to my life
delvelopment. As you have been. And I know that I have been
somewhat important to you, as well. And that means the absolute
world to me. And the more that I opened up to you, the better
it became. You are ...
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