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Control, and essay from a Dom's point of view 24/1/2004
CONTROL
What does it mean, and how is it properly applied from a Dom's
perspective?
*An essay by : Cuff_Master
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Websters Dictionary defines Contol as:
control Pronunciation (k n-tr l )
tr.v. controlled, controlling, controls
To exercise authoritative or dominating influence over;direct.
To adjust to a ...
0 Commentaires, 58 Consultations,
76 Votes
,9.02 Score
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Power exchange level one: conditional compliance 22/1/2004
This is an agreement to play casually (do a scene, or a set
of scenes druing a weekend), the SM equivalent of a one night
stand. The playmates are agreeing in a spirit of mutual
respect to perform limited physical activities or role
play together to the satisfaction of their own needs. Neither
person is expected to perform any activity that does not
give him/her pleasure or that does not ...
0 Commentaires, 51 Consultations,
47 Votes
,8.02 Score
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Thanks to a pet... 8/1/2004
I lit the candles in my room, vanilla scented – and came back
to my system to await a warm flooding scent of vanilla – to
entice Me back to My room…I am alone, lil’ pet, the wet floods
My thighs – my saturated vagina, nudging Me back to the room.
. .
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I will be back shortly lil’ one. I do miss you – your taste
has lingered in My being since having tasted that ...
0 Commentaires, 61 Consultations,
58 Votes
,7.29 Score
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What to get for Christmas 18/12/2003
A little over a year ago my aged 13 died of a brain
tumour. Apart from the obvious crippling grief, there
has been a significant change in the way I look at life. Loosing
someone so young and precious made me think of my own mortality.
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After a lot of soul searching, counselling and long discussion
with my wife, I have come to the conclusion that life
is too short for bad ...
0 Commentaires, 44 Consultations,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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with honor siriceman 30/11/2003
He was a man of honor , who fought hard till the end.Many
of us where where blessed to know him. I was in IM with him
the night he went into the lobby to tell his friend good bye.
and I was in IM with him the day we said good bye. He made a promise
to me and with the help of a friend he keep it. So it is with
a sad heart that I have to tell his friends that he passed
away on Friday Jan 28. ...
0 Commentaires, 67 Consultations,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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RE: TRUST HONESTY? 29/11/2003
The issue of honesty is soooo important. You first have
to be honest with yourself before you can become honest
in everything you do and say. If you are not honest with yourself,
you are lieing to yourself. When you lie to yourself you
can't see who you truly are, and what you truly want.
Therefore, you cannot be honest with those around you,
because you just don't know. Not knowing is ...
0 Commentaires, 126 Consultations,
25 Votes
,6.78 Score
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Honorable Behavior 26/11/2003
Like many mistresses, I have my own routines and my own set
of questions to be answered by those submissives/slaves
who approach me either for training, and/or those interested
in serving me.
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With at least two dozen answered questionnaires on file,
it was not until this past month that one submissive man
answered one of my questions differently then all the ...
0 Commentaires, 181 Consultations,
47 Votes
,9.15 Score
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TRUST HONESTY ? 25/11/2003
howdy
building a new relationship is hard, how can you install
trust to someone, some on here lie to get what ever it is thier
looking for. I , myself perfer the truth, hey it's so
much eaiser, never have to remember what you have said!
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You try to build trust, but, people who have been played
are always on alert, I guess it is up to time!!!
<br>
any advice
0 Commentaires, 51 Consultations,
29 Votes
,6.95 Score
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When The Dominant Becomes Gravely Ill 17/11/2003
I have been enjoying the total power exchange for 20 plus
years with girlfriends, renters, other slaves and wives.
I had prepared for the day by not totally destroying the
slave’s own fire as some desire but to control her. Besides
I like the ones with “fire” not the ones who are so totally
submissive that you have to tell them everything. I did
that when younger and found out it ...
2 Commentaires, 784 Consultations,
95 Votes
,8.42 Score
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yvonne - diary entry 3 12/11/2003
Saturday 11th October 2003
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Wow… yvonne came round this afternoon… i love her visits
now, though i still get nervous… i can’t believe she wants
to do those things with me… but i’m not complaining… and
Master says its okay so no worries… i have to get permission
off Him though and that means He speaks to Yvonne too before
the meetings and lets her know what ...
0 Commentaires, 123 Consultations,
21 Votes
,7.58 Score
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Sweetsubbies' New Friends 9/11/2003
I was sent an email almost two months ago. Initially, I refused
because I did not wish to partake with a Master/slave couple.
But the slave encouraged the Master to send another email.
That is where it began. We developed a friendship by emails
and then by phone and last weekend, I drove three hours to
meet her and to be a surprise for her Master.
It was one of the best weekends I have ...
0 Commentaires, 168 Consultations,
20 Votes
,7.21 Score
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RE: Lying Women On Alt. 4/11/2003
I believe it's fair to say, most have had at least one
bad experience here on Alt...
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Unusual to read that these "black mailing"
women you speak of are labeling themselves as submissives--Clearly
not the case. Yet as a Dominant, you should be in tuned to
the markings of a true submissive, you should be in tuned
to all the red flags that wannabes just can't hide,
and you ...
0 Commentaires, 81 Consultations,
43 Votes
,8.75 Score
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yvonne - the return visit 30/10/2003
Where do i begin? Goodness… the last time i saw yvonne was
the time when we, well, explored each other… i’ve been too
embarrassed since then to pick up the phone and call her,
and even put her on block on msn… its been over a week now…
but then she phoned me last night to invite me round today.
i had no excuse to not go, and to be honest i wanted to see her
again, just to see if ...
0 Commentaires, 145 Consultations,
36 Votes
,7.81 Score
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A Mistress Speaks To Her Submissive: Regarding Chastity Devices 24/10/2003
Topically, my feelings are for the advantage of both of
us when chastity devices are employed. They include your
desire to turn over the ownership and control of your gender’s
core--your sexuality. As well as my desire to possess and
control your sexuality. (Admittedly so, this adds a flare
of excitement and sexual arousal to our relationship,
and that’s as it should be, but this too ...
2 Commentaires, 833 Consultations,
71 Votes
,6.43 Score
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I fell in Love with my slave! 20/10/2003
It's strange for me to have to admit that I, a Mistress,
fell in love with my slave. But it's true.When we met
here on alt, I was envolved with somebody else and was just
needing a friend.I met my one when I was at the point of ending
my relationship with my b/f and just needed a friend to listen,
tell me i was right or wrong without judging me.We became
very close friends over the next few ...
1 Commentaires, 117 Consultations,
34 Votes
,6.48 Score
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The Reality of Vuilding Relationships on the Net 15/10/2003
Ok, let's be honest here... Looking through a screen
(I like to call it an idiot box) is not really the most honest
way to meet someone, especially in an area as sensitive
as alternative lifestyles.
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But you know what? It can work. I have been at alt for almost
2 years now. I have been collared to my wonderful Owner for
14 months. We met in the Southern Room here at alt. ...
1 Commentaires, 91 Consultations,
44 Votes
,8.95 Score
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an offering to the internet gods 14/10/2003
One day in a moment of great emotion with my Master i uttered
the words, “i wish i could give up an offering to the
internet gods to thank them!’ my Master thought
about this and then told me that i could do just that by writing
an account of “the story so far” and posting
it as an article on alt.com for all to see. This is that account.
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my story begins ...
1 Commentaires, 111 Consultations,
27 Votes
,7.76 Score
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Girlfriend plus submissive 8/10/2003
Why can't you have a girlfreind and sub and same time?
I'm not talking hard core here! Just someone who listens,
respects you, does her duties, etc.
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Not looking for someone to physically abuse, just someone
to obey me unconditionally. Is this to much!!!!
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I've had girfriends who said they were sub, but then
they start making demands, That doesn, t work!
...
0 Commentaires, 66 Consultations,
29 Votes
,0.63 Score
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Sweet Submission 22/7/2003
Flickering candle glow highlights the swirls of cigar
smoke dancing in the warm air above the bed. Sweet sighs
and moans melody the night. Her moist, soft sex exsposed
at his firm command, "spread them Baby"....a
dark and velvet hand encourages her to obey as his grip tightens
around her ivory neck. Her eyes wait for breath as she trusts
in his timely mercy. All her desires are ...
0 Commentaires, 92 Consultations,
60 Votes
,7.28 Score
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Strange and unlikely Professor-student thing... 21/4/2003
Dear, dear me.. I just found him floating around on this
site. I was so amazed to find that he was everything that
I'd been looking for that I read his profile three times
when I found it... just to be sure I'd read it properly...
The compatibility was surreal.
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We're planning to meet, my Doctor dearest and I, emailing
each other at least three or four times a day, calling as ...
0 Commentaires, 79 Consultations,
40 Votes
,4.83 Score
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2-16-03 16/2/2003
here i am before you naked in your eyes hoping with each kiss
you would never see through my disguise i had been made to
believe that no one colud love me for me the good and the bad
first to the last no matter the cost no matter the past your
eyes only see what they wanna see your heart makes the truth
that you wanna believe passion just fade to xtacy you cant
walk away from love...loving ...
0 Commentaires, 82 Consultations,
31 Votes
,5.16 Score
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hope you find this one 22/1/2003
I'm sure if you this for you will know its meant for you.
What is this we have done to eachother, I know im one misrebalble
being without you in my life, can't help it miss what we had.
Yes, ive made many mistakes and yes they have been corrected.
I nstand tall and proud, just need you at my side, "my better
half, my stronger half".
I need my cubs to share our accomplishments. Everything ...
0 Commentaires, 80 Consultations,
30 Votes
,0.30 Score
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My Awakening as her slave.... 19/1/2003
I am a slave ....a born slave. She knew that the minute she
laid eyes on me, for she was a Domme. The mere sight of this
creature made my head just bow, for the first time I felt
the need to serve.
She introduced me to this lifestyle, she hinted...let
me find my way. She is my Queen. I wasn't fit emotionally
to serve such a superior being. I needed to earn her approval.
My unstability at ...
0 Commentaires, 138 Consultations,
54 Votes
,2.97 Score
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My Public Apology 16/1/2003
Need to apologize, for alot. See ive made terrible mistakes,
for fear...fear of myself. Ive done alot of growing...thanks
to you and thanks to who have shown me I am. Maybe it was a dream.
It was an honest dream. I knew id make it up to you and if you
let me ill show you. Yes I snap, but, you like it that way...you
pull the right string and stad the same wound. I will always
be yours, for ...
0 Commentaires, 216 Consultations,
45 Votes
,2.50 Score
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I have loved!!! 15/1/2003
Yes, I have loved you, do I understand you?....some
Do I love you? Yes, theres not a doubt in my mind.
To love one is to give them time to grow, yes, I have grown.
I told you I was proud of you, some yes, alot no!
I thought you were different, perhaps, so was I.
I wish you happiness, a waterfront property!
For me its my family, you and my cubs.
I guess we screwed up and ofcourse were ...
0 Commentaires, 73 Consultations,
18 Votes
,2.03 Score
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I Have Loved 14/1/2003
Yes I have loved you, do I understand you?.....some
Do I love you? Yes!! theres not a doubt in mind!
To love one is to give them time to grow,
thats what I have done.
Darling, how I've grown. I told you I was proud of you,
Some yes, allot no.
I thought you were different, perhaps, so was I
I wish you happiness, a waterfront property,
Mine is my family, you and my cubs.
I guess ...
0 Commentaires, 90 Consultations,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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You Should Not Give Away That Which You Value! 31/10/2002
I am very curious as to the reasoning for a Dom who insists
on sharing his sub with his friends or/and animals. Why?
When a submissive gives their all to a Dom/Master it is one
very big deal! To trust another with your heart is giving
a lot but to trust another with your physical safety, to
let them have the power to advise you, to punish you and to
use you at their will is an incredible ...
1 Commentaires, 184 Consultations,
166 Votes
,9.14 Score
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What is a submissive? 17/4/2002
Are you really submissive? the person submitting the profile
says he/she is dominant. You reply saying you are submissive.
You exchange a few emails and the dominant learns that when
you say you are submissive, you mean, you like sexual intercourse
from the standpoint of being the bottom. The person writing
you disappears. You wonder why. The answer is that being
bottom does not make ...
5 Commentaires, 2204 Consultations,
314 Votes
,5.92 Score
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