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Getting your wife to lead 17/4/2009
Many times my wife and I have tried and failed to initiate
a D/s relationship. I always knew she was capable of being
a female dominant, based on the early years of our relationship,
but only now do I realized where I made errors.
I should never have written contracts with so many rules
and details. It's like starting at 60 mph. Even though
we both signed each time we tried, the ...
1 Comentarios, 174 Vistas,
4 Votos
,3.63 Puntuación
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Married & D/s 1/3/2009
Reading many clips on
lifestyle relationships during my journey, it never came
across O/our thoughts that it would have a negative impact
on the relationship. Majority of the posting based marriage
& D/s together as negative. In that it would have a negative
affect or effect on the relationship. Feelings of such
would hinder O/ones role and performance.
...
5 Comentarios, 126 Vistas,
4 Votos
,4.02 Puntuación
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How I view Serious M/s Relationships 20/10/2008
You will also find this on my profile as it would help a perspective
slave gain an understanding of my views of the M/s relationship.
I have had a couple FTPE (full time power exchange) relationships
that were really more my thing although I enjoy a "bedroom
only" M/s relationship too, I like the structure
it provides... What turns me on about it is: the total power
over someone else, ...
0 Comentarios, 149 Vistas,
14 Votos
,5.06 Puntuación
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Twisted banter.. 30/9/2008
We A/all know communication is the key to any type of relationship.
So here's an example of how it works within a humiliation
one, for those of you who don't already know..
Communicating with worthless pigs. As we all know, stupid
slut females love to talk but are often very poor listeners.
Teaching the cunts effective and respectful communication
techniques should be the cornerstone of ...
7 Comentarios, 284 Vistas,
7 Votos
,4.31 Puntuación
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A day in the life of a 24/7 slave 7/8/2008
It is rarely the big events that make a relationship, it
is a million small touches, a million small submissions,
a constantly evovling gift between two people that for
me looks like this.
i am often asked by friends, both lifestyle and vanilla,
what being a slave means, or what it looks like in the day
to day. So here it is.
5:45 am...yes way before the sun comes up my day ...
9 Comentarios, 576 Vistas,
24 Votos
,5.86 Puntuación
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Is it me? 21/6/2008
Every where I read are success stories but when I try to contact
some one I do not get a response ? How do you get someone to
notice you...How ever I was not interested in , i send out
a one liner polite answer. Is it not the write thing to be
honest or what ???
5 Comentarios, 147 Vistas,
10 Votos
,1.79 Puntuación
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Building a Relationship through Humiliation 15/6/2008
Humiliation has many purposes in the training of a slave.
One of the major reasons for using humiliation is to force
the slave to push the "choice decision" she
has made to obey her Master/Mistress and be subject to his/her
will. It forces her to realize how deeply this decision
is and how obedience is not always easy. This provides positive
reinforcement.
Humiliation can have a positive ...
1 Comentarios, 375 Vistas,
8 Votos
,4.41 Puntuación
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Slavery and Servitude 3/6/2008
Can a slave say no, it's a question to which I believe
there is no definitive answer, but to Me the answer is simply
no. Grins at this point the submissives go running to the door
screaming red light and calling 911. Simply put slavery is putting the life in the hands of their
Master and after that the slave should have two choices
obey or leave, but rationally at times a third exists beg,
and ...
2 Comentarios, 169 Vistas,
4 Votos
,5.57 Puntuación
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3 Simple Things that Men Wished All Women Knew 9/4/2008
1. Men are more sensitive than many people realize.
What most people don’t believe is that men are indeed more
sensitive; they have harder time coping with break-ups
than women do. Men are not biologically designed to have
the full capacity of processing feelings like their female
counterpart. Being this is the case, men tend to have a hard
shell around their heart that keeps them from ...
0 Comentarios, 133 Vistas,
10 Votos
,4.78 Puntuación
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new to this 31/3/2008
hi i am francesca i am 25 yrs old my fella is 21 , hes very intrested
in a 3sum or 4sum altho no full swap being a nice gf and intrested
in this anyway i said sure lets join up here and see how it
goes so here is my 1st article and i will post more as it progresses
salisburycpl2...
6 Comentarios, 117 Vistas,
9 Votos
,1.72 Puntuación
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On relationships... 19/3/2008
Its been said that the biggest mistake men make going into
a relationship is to believe that the gal will stay the same,
and that the biggest mistake women make going into a relationship
is to believe that the guy will change (in the way they want
him to). Both are wrong, indeed somewhat happily so. To
remain the same would be to become stagnant, and to change
completely means that at some inner ...
1 Comentarios, 133 Vistas,
11 Votos
,6.16 Puntuación
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Why dominants need welts, too! 19/3/2008
I recently read about a dominant
who switches being tut-tutted by submissives who insist
that they are not a "Real Dominant."
*shudder*
I also have heard dominants assert that they refuse
to bottom.
Should someone who is not self-identified as a top or dominant
ever switch?
In a ...
2 Comentarios, 127 Vistas,
10 Votos
,3.39 Puntuación
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Finding "The One" 16/3/2008
I'd like to discuss a long time frustration of mine-
women only interested in finding "The One".
Seems like a whole lot of women, submiisve or otherwise,
won't have even a conversation with a guy if he can't
be deemed immediately "The One".
Now I realize that nobody wants to be used or have their little
heart broken, but really ladies, you need to lighten up.
Finding ...
3 Comentarios, 149 Vistas,
8 Votos
,2.55 Puntuación
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getting back with an ex 11/2/2008
i was wondering wat are some ways to show or prove to ya ex
that u fucked up and want to get back together. the fact is
my ex says that i will always be in her heart damn i fucked
up when i told her it might not work cause she moved so far.
i need help. any suggestions
1 Comentarios, 66 Vistas,
0 Votos
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The corner stones. 9/2/2008
I know that W/we A/all want to put the most wanted things
out there to make U/us more wanted.But the first corner
stone is to be honest.If that does not seem to be the best
light to be seen in, readjust your focus.If you find the
O/one you want and T/they find you, then T/they find it
is a lie, Y/you will loose T/them!Another corner stone
is dedication.To get what Y/you want may be easy, but ...
0 Comentarios, 21 Vistas,
5 Votos
,4.45 Puntuación
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Tall Ships, Shinning Stars, Brass Rings and Water Meter Covers 29/1/2008
Tall Ships, Brass Rings, Shinning Stars and Water Meter
Covers.....
We all think that we know just what we want; just what we’d
wish for if given a chance, but in actuality, how many of
us get the opportunity to reach for that star shinning so
brightly in the night sky or the magical carousel’s brass
ring? How many get to board that tall ship and sail into our
destiny?
...
3 Comentarios, 86 Vistas,
8 Votos
,5.10 Puntuación
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Out With Old In With New??? 28/1/2008
I have recently started dating a guy who I like very much.
He likes me too but we seem to have a situation that is causing
us problems. He has a woman he's known awhile and she
has an 18 year old , they (the mom & him) were
bed buddies before we hooked up, I found out he has been texting
& calling both mom & & not telling
me so I didn't get upset, I am uncomfortable with this,
but is it right ...
2 Comentarios, 118 Vistas,
2 Votos
,3.81 Puntuación
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First Contact Advice to a submissive man 23/10/2007
I just answered an alt message/email from someone who was
attracted to me. Perhaps some of what I said will be helpful
to other submissive men who are facing the enormous hurdle
of getting a dominant lady to notice them.
Of course, a big MUST, is to read the Lady's profile
carefully , and Her blogs or posts in the "Groups"
on alt so that you know how to write something that might
be ...
4 Comentarios, 523 Vistas,
20 Votos
,5.04 Puntuación
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Lay down Ground Rules 17/10/2007
You have met Mr/Ms Right or Sub/Slave perfect...Now the
work begins for both sides. If you are master/mistress...lay
down the ground rules for the relationship....be it short
term...long term...causal...24/7 etc. Don't assume
someone knows something ...but it in black and white and
you have no problems...You choose the path that needs to
be taken for the situation but never leave out some form ...
6 Comentarios, 324 Vistas,
11 Votos
,5.04 Puntuación
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Online Relationships 13/10/2007
Do online relationship really progress to reality?
In all the years I have been online seeking a partner in BDSM
and D.s play I have yet to have longivity from being online.
Of course, I have to say that I have met many good men and women,
but no man has captured my time and attention enough for
me to even remotely want to take it to the next level.
Do you think its because once ...
4 Comentarios, 218 Vistas,
8 Votos
,3.48 Puntuación
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Understanding 6/7/2007
While building up a relationship it's
very important to take two features into consideration.
1. Priorities are no the same, for man and woman, hence interest
tend to vary, besides most man are not multitasking. While
a woman can watch a movie and talk with a friend, if a woman
approaches a man who is looking into a football game, he
tends to either ignore the woman, or ...
0 Comentarios, 98 Vistas,
6 Votos
,3.65 Puntuación
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Belated Birthday Surprise 29/6/2007
Where is She? Where can She be? I just keep wondering. It
has been almost 45 minutes now since She called saying She
was leaving and headed my way. I have had time to check into
the Ramington Inn, get maintenance to come get the door
open for me when the key wouldn’t work, get undressed, put
the chain leashes on the bed in case She wants to spreadeagle
me on it and now it seems I have been ...
1 Comentarios, 103 Vistas,
4 Votos
,4.02 Puntuación
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Aftercare...Why is it so important? 27/6/2007
zennflowerAftercare
is the time taken after the scene that brings the sub back
to the top out of sub space. It's where bonding between
the Dominant and sub takes place or perhaps a better way
of putting it is the re-enforcing of the bond between the
two. Aftercare lets both know that for the two of them it's
more than just play, more than just scening that the ...
14 Comentarios, 800 Vistas,
64 Votos
,8.01 Puntuación
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On Trust & Faith 14/6/2007
As those of you who have been checking in know, I have been
giving this quite some thought and have come to quite the
unexpected conclusion. You can also read this on my blog
On Trust Faith. Read on!
I have written in the past on Trust and have penned highly
raved essays that sounded great with all the right words
and phrases. We all hear that trust is one of cornerstones
of this ...
1 Comentarios, 67 Vistas,
11 Votos
,4.66 Puntuación
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How Well Do You Listen To You? 14/6/2007
How well do you listen to yourself? How closely do you pay
attention to your "gut instincts"? How well
do you take action based on this information?
These gut instincts were originally named as the information
comes from our "gut" or power center. The seat
of our life force, what in the East is called Chi.
We'd like to believe that what someone tells about
themselves to be true. ...
1 Comentarios, 52 Vistas,
7 Votos
,4.82 Puntuación
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Knowing more about BDSM than your partner 14/4/2007
I have trained women who are experienced in BDSM, and on'e
who are just learning about it, and what they want to gain
from the experience. I tend to take it slower with newbies so as not to make it too
intense to start. I like to feel out whether they are just
looking to be tied up and f*cked, or if they are truly looking
to give up control at a greater level...more of a Master/slave
situation. ...
2 Comentarios, 172 Vistas,
7 Votos
,3.04 Puntuación
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FUN AND FUCK 28/3/2007
HAAI..I AM A 29 YEARS GIRL ..ONE DAY ONE OF MY FRIEND CAME
TO MY HOME WITH HER HUSBOND..ACTULLY THE MISSED THIER BUS
AND CAME TO OUR HOME FOR NIGHT STAY..WE TOOK THE DINNER TOGHETER
AND THEY INCIST ME TO JOIN THEM FOR FUN I WAS THINKING BUT
SLOWELY HE STARTED TO TOUCH MY BODY..FIRST HE STARTED TO
RUB MY SHOULDER AND OPINCH MY BOOBS WHEN HE IS PLAYING WITH
MY BODY MY FRIEND STARTED TO LIFT MY ...
4 Comentarios, 493 Vistas,
26 Votos
,1.41 Puntuación
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what do you think about...? 1/3/2007
When you are on this website, do you think it is a good way
to know people and exchange with, anything you want to exchange?
Do you think it's the same way in all countries, or do
you think there is some differences according with cultures
and way of life in specific countries? Finally do you succeed to have good relationships, virtual
or real, even shorts but good, or would you say about it ...
0 Comentarios, 28 Vistas,
2 Votos
,1.73 Puntuación
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my take on building a relationship 16/2/2007
be 100 percent you want to start it before you begin it as
the are full time work at the start so you dont have time to
think about if there the perfect one because you need all
the time you can get making it the perfect one
1 Comentarios, 92 Vistas,
5 Votos
,3.80 Puntuación
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I don't understand... 1/2/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to
learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much
and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and
we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted
him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through
an extremely ...
2 Comentarios, 459 Vistas,
7 Votos
,3.30 Puntuación
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