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Lying submissives 23.6.2006
Submissive men sometimes lie to Mistress. This happens
when they want to present themselves as more submissive
than they are. Should a Mistress dismiss a liar? I think,
she could give him a chance to prove himself prior to dismissal.
Set him a difficult task, do not forgive a liar easily.
1 Kommentare, 138 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
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Being a Mistress 23.6.2006
A Mistress should understand that the submissive will
try to "test" her, like a would do to a master.
Be firm, and use the "hot stove" principle:
every time the hot stove is touched, it burns the hand that
touched it (ie every time a submissive is out of line, Mistress
punishes him). Of course, the punishments should match
the crime
0 Kommentare, 128 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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Too much information too soon? 16.6.2006
Is it possible to reveal too much about one's self too
soon in a relationship?
I'm the kind of guy that will answer you truthfully
about anything you ask with little to no forethought about
the repercussions my answer may cause. Despite my usual
quietness, I'm not afraid to tell you what I think.
But, there are times when I feel that I have said a little
too much when it comes to ...
4 Kommentare, 238 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
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How can you be sure about the other? 22.5.2006
I am wondering who else has been in this situation? You are
with a dom/sub they are already in a full relationship that
is not dealing with bdsm/alt, their other half does not
know anything about what they are into. So here is my question;
If they are not being true to the other half and telling them
nothing or lieing to them, how can you completely trust
what they are saying to you as ...
1 Kommentare, 192 Angesehen,
0 Stimmen
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How does a Dom decide when it is time to collar a sub? 22.5.2006
I am new more to the Dom side I have been chatting and getting
to know a sub very well....I want to approach and collar
her. My question is how do you know when the time is right?
How do I know she is ready to be collared by me and that is what
she is looking for?
0 Kommentare, 149 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
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please help... any counsellors (a women's reply would help me more) 19.5.2006
I've got a very strange problem with my girlfriend...
what do i do... please help...
i have a girl friend and she's really sweet and we both
are in love for about a year now... we both get along very
well and we understand each other perfectly... And most
of all we both respect each other very much...
But my girlfriend is having some health problems... VERY
COMPLICATED ...
4 Kommentare, 164 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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T-Girls 5.5.2006
Hello to all...
Im in search of sexy T-Girls that looking to be with one guy.
My past experiences with them have be so -so. I guess because
they get so much attention...it's hard for them to
be with one guy. But, you know what? I'm not going to
sterotype all of them...so this is my message to the world.
If there is a sexy T-Girl out there who wants a ...
0 Kommentare, 148 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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Collars and Getting Over 5.5.2006
As I cruise thru this li'l playpen
that is My life, every now and then, I find myself reevaluating,
and sometimes even second guessing, my views about the
most fundamental of my beliefs. Examining what my feelings
were, are, and what, in fact, is still changing..
I had the opportunity of chatting with a lovely submissive
the other night, and thought that the overall ...
0 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
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Master Takes Me to Santuary 29.4.2006
My Master has taken me to Sanctuary in Dallas and I enjoyed
my self emensely.But boo hoo I was only there to observe
others and didn't get a chance to receive my proper
spankings or get tied up.Well he did make up for it when he
brought me home and showed me how wicked and good he could
be.The ideas I got from visiting Sanctuary were numerous, Someone
took a lot of spankings and Yes the ...
0 Kommentare, 116 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
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Hard to find someone serious.... 28.4.2006
Me and Mt pet has been looking for a possable live in. We have
joined many of the groups for our location, have tried talking
with many possabilities. We keep running into the same
problem, someone says they are involved and or looking
to learn. Then we start talking and thats all it is is talk,
We havent found to many people actually aactive or serious
in the kind of commitment We are ...
3 Kommentare, 97 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
,2.49 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Help needed... 30.3.2006
Hi everyone, I'm a newbie sub who is trying to set out
on the BDSM journey. So far its going ok, but I now think I've
meet that 'dom guy' the one your warned about.
So I'm looking for some advice and any suggestions
from both subs and dom's.
Firstly we had chatted briefly, he knew I was a newbie and
looking for a dom guy to train me, it was one conversation
and with that came the ...
7 Kommentare, 797 Angesehen,
29 Stimmen
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COMPATIBILITY 29.3.2006
The Ultimate Union cannot be achieved without two compatible
souls - one dominant by his nature and his desire and one
submissive by his nature and his desire. These two people
will have a powerful motivator that sends them, from different
directions, toward the same goal. That goal is to find a
person who will love them more than any other could or would.
Love? Yeah, love! It is the cement ...
0 Kommentare, 128 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
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alternative lifestyle relationship 29.3.2006
Stable alternative relationship starts with understanding
the needs/desires of each other, and no… this is never easy…
There are several aspects that need to be discussed, you
have to allow for the real world and others who are in that
world who are not giving their consent… for example if you
are going to the supermarket most do not want to see Master
and slave, they want to ...
0 Kommentare, 157 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
,5.18 Gesamtpunktzahl
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First Kinky Experience with some one new 19.3.2006
The best thing for this is to both get drunk and say listen
i like .... and not be shy...
0 Kommentare, 129 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
,1.09 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Finally Getting A Spanking 17.3.2006
Dear Diary,
Today was the day I met my dom. I had been wondering a long
time what it would be like, and here I am going to find out.
I am Chris Columbus on his way to a new world.
He seems kind of stern. I was told how to dress, and especially
on my underwear. Nothing grown up, you spoiled, willful
brat, he said. So here I am in a knit shirt that barely goes
below my navel, ...
0 Kommentare, 203 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,2.47 Gesamtpunktzahl
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How to make your gf into a Dominatrix :) 5.3.2006
Hi
What was the best way to gradually transform your gf from
a normal girl to a fun domme? Any ideas on the matter, please
share.
1 Kommentare, 149 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
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North Coast CA Masters & slaves 3.2.2006
People living the Master/slave lifestyle benefit greatly
by communication with others in the same lifestyle. The
needs and concerns are quite different than those in the
D/s or M/s lifestyle, although there is definitely some
overlap.
<br>
There is a National Organization called MAST--Masters
And slaves Together--that seeks to facilitate this communication.
There is a chapter in ...
0 Kommentare, 57 Angesehen,
3 Stimmen
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Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male 31.1.2006
Guide to Establishing Dominance Over a Male
1/29/06
<br>
This is intended to provide a guide in establishing and
maintaining dominance over a male which can lead to development
of a modern day slave. It is a process that can be used to develop
dominance over a natural submissive applying to be a slave
or an unaware, vanilla, non-submissive. How long it may
take and ...
3 Kommentare, 910 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
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A girl told me 29.1.2006
Sucking her finger as told she just pulled from her asshole
means, so your into me we will continue on.
0 Kommentare, 227 Angesehen,
1 Stimmen
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Relationships 27.1.2006
99% of relationships are based on lies
0 Kommentare, 157 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
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Training and developing subs tips 20.1.2006
Most people consider others in a cookie cutter fashion,
however in a Dom/Sub relationship there are a lot of areas
that need to be identified.
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1. Does your Sub want to be obedient all the time, in the bedroom
or just from time to time.
<br>
Example. I have had subs who want to be in it all the time at
first, then only when we are together, then finally only
in the ...
0 Kommentare, 458 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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nice and slow 10.1.2006
Was wondering if anyone else has experienced this. My first
marraige was kind of one of those love at first site things.
Now divorced I find myself extremely picky. That typical
anyone?
0 Kommentare, 132 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
,1.16 Gesamtpunktzahl
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DOMCOUPLE 8.1.2006
YOU SCREEN MY PLEASURE  )!
0 Kommentare, 198 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
,3.14 Gesamtpunktzahl
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nice 8.1.2006
Nice nad beauty!
1 Kommentare, 157 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
,1.29 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Butt Play? What's That? 4.1.2006
I met my husband five years ago. The first time I laid eyes
on him, I knew I wanted him. The night I first went to his house,
my intention (and I'm pretty sure his) was merely a
one-night stand. Or maybe friends with benefits.
<br>
The first night was filled with fireworks. The moment he
touched me, I felt electricity run through my veins. It
was the best sex I had ever had.
...
0 Kommentare, 483 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
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The first step is completey up front and clear on your wish. 30.12.2005
A femdom private life relationship is what most seek.and
at extreme femdom level top dollar, at firt but regulars
should get discont.On line or in person if she is very willing
to take you as descibed, start a new relatioship.
0 Kommentare, 186 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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New Group - Naughty Schoolgirl Memories 2.12.2005
come by and visit
1 Kommentare, 132 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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A healthy relationship= change 7.11.2005
A relationship is two people eliciting responses from
each other. If you want a change in response, then you must
change your own actions.
0 Kommentare, 95 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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My first meeting with Master 23.10.2005
My first meeting with Master was a meeting I will never forget.
I was excited that he would meet with me and nervous as to
what to excpect. I am very new to this and wasn't quite
sure what I wanted. I did know that I couldn't wait to
meet him. We met at a public place and talked for what seemed
like hours. I felt comfortable but yet knew I was being inspected
to see if I was worthy of his ...
0 Kommentare, 543 Angesehen,
24 Stimmen
,2.79 Gesamtpunktzahl
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False Starts 28.9.2005
I am wondering if many people on Alt experience frustration.
I sent a message to a couple that lives close by and explained
it was always my dream to interact with a male/female couple.
That very same day I recevied a message back from them. It
was very inviting. They wanted to establish friendship
first, which I always like to do before plunging into more
physical events. In my first ...
1 Kommentare, 300 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
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