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how to tell one your a tg 04-12-2004
Hi Im a transvestite and live as one ! I have recently met
someone and things are going well thing is this person knows
nothing about my sexuality and i dont know how to approach
this subject without hurting this person or making them
think there is something wrong with them or with me ! i am
at a loss as how to approach this anyhelp would be appreciated
!
5 Reacties, 153 Bezichtigingen,
15 Stemmen
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me? 28-11-2004
He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we
had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding.
Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That
is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and
wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his
convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which
I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...
0 Reacties, 258 Bezichtigingen,
44 Stemmen
,8.06 Score
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Novice Dom 24-11-2004
So you're a novice Dom? Congratulations and welcome
aboard! It is always nice to greet a fellow Dom. But before
you get out them whips and start addressing every sub by
"On your knees slut!" there are a few things
I'd like to say. You may be nervous or scared. I know
it took me a couple of years before I gathered up my courage
and joined the local scene. I'd had fantasies of tying
up and ...
2 Reacties, 1061 Bezichtigingen,
113 Stemmen
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HI 19-11-2004
I just create a new group at egypt area and i invite you all
to join it.
0 Reacties, 34 Bezichtigingen,
7 Stemmen
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wen love play 19-11-2004
and want to hear from thers who didg this
1 Reacties, 138 Bezichtigingen,
22 Stemmen
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"a soulmate" 18-11-2004
a soul-mate is someone who has the unique ability to bring
out the best in us....with a heart full of love, you will
express your highest potential, while also fulfilling
your soul's deepest purpose:to love n be loved !!
2 Reacties, 76 Bezichtigingen,
20 Stemmen
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***a woman needs*** 18-11-2004
someone who cares about her well-being...n understand
what she's going through...recognise n value her
feelings....
someone to love freely n trust..that she will be loved in
return...
someone to notice her...love her n adore her...
someone she can confide in..trustworthy n will not turn
on her n break her confidence....
1 Reacties, 70 Bezichtigingen,
29 Stemmen
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"a man needs" 18-11-2004
a woman to accept him just the way he is....trust him n be
his friend....admire him for what he has done or tried to
do....give him the opportunity to fulfil your needs.....surprise
him n keep him on the boiling point when it comes to sex...share
the fantasies...most of all nag him NOT....coz he will
run n scare him not...coz men r also very sensitive n fragile....
2 Reacties, 171 Bezichtigingen,
51 Stemmen
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"practice make perfect" 17-11-2004
the art of communication is the key to a healthy relationship...n
for most women, being in a healthy, intimate relationship
is the foundation to great SEX....
2 Reacties, 116 Bezichtigingen,
26 Stemmen
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us 16-11-2004
ok i first met the other half in alt 14 months ago a mate of
mine said why not try it out so i did ta alt for bringing foxxy
to me the worst part of our relationship is she lives 2000
k away from me so it makes lif hard at the moment but on the
27 of dec that will all change as we are finaly moving intogether
ok most know who i am by now and i would like to take this opertunity
to say ...
0 Reacties, 42 Bezichtigingen,
8 Stemmen
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From first chat to collaring 15-11-2004
Dear men,
<br>
Dominant or submissive, Master or slave, I believe there
are a few things you need to know if you haven't figured
them out all ready.
<br>
Level 1: If you are trying to start a relationship on Alt.com
or any other BDSM site, firstly knock it off with the cock
shots! Do you seriously think this is what is going to turn
a Woman on (I'm sorry, but I ...
9 Reacties, 443 Bezichtigingen,
182 Stemmen
,7.92 Score
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Collaring 12-11-2004
I have a question for doms or masters regarding collaring.
What is the average amount of time it takes including training
and consideration that is used for a master or dom to collar
a sub?
<br>
Are there any specific levels of collaring? I am just curious.
4 Reacties, 241 Bezichtigingen,
26 Stemmen
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being schooled in submission...(truth from a.s.s. re: CMM) 11-11-2004
i am personally, by 'el naturale' extremely Dominant.
Streets and my 'history' has formed this dominant
aura around me, keeping me safe yet bound to a Dominant existance.
Until CMM came along, that is.
<br>
The hardest thing in the world for me to really do, is to be
submissive, yet in meeting CMM - it has been the most exciting
and educational experience to date...and this is ...
0 Reacties, 86 Bezichtigingen,
14 Stemmen
,6.18 Score
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Older Women and Younger Men 08-11-2004
I see that Alt are running a Poll and the question is directed
at men. Perhaps it would interst people to know that a large
majority of Fem Domme/submissive relationships are where
the woman is older and the submissive is younger.
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I am currently in such a relationship and the submissive
is 13 years my junior. I originally had a lot of misgivings
about just such a ...
2 Reacties, 172 Bezichtigingen,
43 Stemmen
,7.70 Score
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To Be Or Not To Be 30-10-2004
While I am fairly new to this lifestyle and to this site,
I have been approached by numerous Doms who write they can
"train me in one night."
I find this hard to believe, but then there may be some supermen
out there just waiting to train this submissive to be all
she can be.
I have a tendency to believe (and want) a more stable relationship,
starting off with a friendship, chatting, ...
3 Reacties, 95 Bezichtigingen,
32 Stemmen
,8.21 Score
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How can I get my husband to be turned on by being dominant? 22-10-2004
I'm looking for advice on how to turn a vanilla into
a dominant. Any ideas? He will do a light hand spanking,
go from behind and make me go down on him and talk a little
dirty. However, it is rare and takes a little prodding from
me. I've tried watching porn with him and movies and
telling him what I like. I guess I feel like it sort of ruins
the scene when the submissive is trying to ...
4 Reacties, 112 Bezichtigingen,
22 Stemmen
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new to this lifestyle 17-10-2004
I was wondering if anyone did training on the web first with
their dom. How did it work out this dom I am working with seems
a nice guy, and says we will meet in about a month. We talk
on the phone and we talk by web too. It is hard for me to be totally
submissive to him without challenging him because know
there are no consequences yet for it. Do really want to do
this, have discovered ...
1 Reacties, 96 Bezichtigingen,
6 Stemmen
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new to this 09-10-2004
Does anyone know where I can find out information or help
on being a good Domme?
3 Reacties, 65 Bezichtigingen,
6 Stemmen
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love letter to my girlfriend 09-10-2004
Copy love letter to bambi Baby ive missed you so much ! its
been so long since ive held you in my arms, I m looking forward
to hold to you again, ,I remember our first kiss so soft
and sensous and after I kissed your mouth was still opan
ready for more so I kissed you again and you made sweet sound, so
I tongue kissed you but you weren’t ready for that , just
sweet sensous kiss, ,, mm it ...
1 Reacties, 82 Bezichtigingen,
9 Stemmen
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Any ideas? 07-10-2004
I recently met a vanilla girl but I soon realised that she
was naturally very submissive. I have introduced the idea
of BDSM & D/s to her & shes quite into it. My question
is; does anyone have any ideas for how I should take things
further?
1 Reacties, 62 Bezichtigingen,
8 Stemmen
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New to this lifestyle need help in becoming a good slave. 06-10-2004
I have been with my Master for 6 months now, I love him to death. I am not yet the person slave I now i could be to him. I am looking to be his best and closes slave that he has, But i have a problem I can't yet give my whole self over to My master, I guess you would say that i am hardhead in some ways but i am in need of some advices from you. How should I correct the problem?
Worried ...
1 Reacties, 50 Bezichtigingen,
2 Stemmen
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What a lucky guy I was 05-10-2004
I have been in a long term relationship and regretfully my partner died on June 2nd 2002. I met him when I was 15 and he was 40 and we had the most wonderful life together in a totally monogamous relationship for 40 years. When I was 20 I came to live with him and we had lived together in true harmony and love for those 35 years. We did not have much to do with the gay scene and we hated gay bars ...
1 Reacties, 81 Bezichtigingen,
7 Stemmen
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Fasination also a basic of a relationship 03-10-2004
As I said in a privious articial that connection is the basis for a relationship, I also believe that there has to be an element of fasination,as well. When you think about your perfect master, me I know this, that unless there is something that truly leads you to this special one then they will not fulfill those basic needs that must be met, in order for you to, feel that fasination, with me, I ...
0 Reacties, 91 Bezichtigingen,
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Oh, Just Spank me Already! 03-10-2004
I'm a frustrated subby just getting involved in the lifestyle and find, like many of us, when I'm really stressed or upset, I NEED a good spanking! So Why is so hard to get my partner (a stated dom) to understand this? I explained, it's a great stress reducer for BOTH of us, he won't harm me if he stays focused on the sit spot and uses his hand or "gentle" implements, it allows me to release my ...
3 Reacties, 107 Bezichtigingen,
13 Stemmen
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What ever sub wants 03-10-2004
He led her By the collar, he led her by her hair.
And she responded …love you dear,
And he responded ….bitch I’m here.
And late at nigh, after passion was done
Home he went, for he was a solitary one
But, she laid there, deep within the night,
Alone and confused, which was her right.
For she served him with no thought of herself.
And gloried in her pain,
But with the first ...
0 Reacties, 86 Bezichtigingen,
16 Stemmen
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How do I learn to trust again? 30-09-2004
I am a lifetime submissive. I currently am in a 24/7 with my Master. My problem is trust. Because of past issues with Doms not being honest and faithful, I am having a hard time trusting my Master.
We met a yr ago and I knew he had other slaves. He knew I was not poly and gave up his slaves and his life in CA to come live with me in a small town. However he keeps his slaves online and keeps in ...
6 Reacties, 82 Bezichtigingen,
2 Stemmen
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Bisexual wifes how many husbands have no problem with it. 29-09-2004
I have no problem with my wife being bi-sexual but I have noticed at swingers parties and even in some couples me and the wife I have met. So husbands and boyfriends have a real problem couping with the fact there wife is indeed bi-sexual. I have no problem with the fact as I knew from the day we started dateing she was bi-sexual and it was part of her I accepted.
2 Reacties, 91 Bezichtigingen,
2 Stemmen
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Keep Looking... 23-09-2004
Maybe there really is not perfection to attain out there in the vast smallness we like to call our planet. But don't just give up deeply felt core things about who you are deep inside in order to accomodate someone who says they love you. Love you? Can you truly love someone and ignore the things they feel and need in their life? I don't think so but that is just me. There are things far worse ...
0 Reacties, 56 Bezichtigingen,
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Connection the basis for a great relationship 18-09-2004
Some call it connection others call it chemistry, but what
ever you call it it is the foundation for and great relationship,
without it the relationship just will not work, and that
holds true no matter what kind of relationship you are in,
it could be D/s a gay, or a straight relationship.
With me now when you make that connection, its like you can
feel, as if there is and energy ...
0 Reacties, 171 Bezichtigingen,
18 Stemmen
,5.99 Score
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Idaho Summer- She cuffed and spanked me 18-09-2004
I was at a party at a friend’s house when I met the most perfect
girl ever. It was a dry point in life and I was really looking
for something different. The way she casually talked about
S&M was inviting. It all started so innocently, with me
being in total control of the relationship. When she would
give me head, I would face fuck her hard. It was awesome,
but the relationship slowly ...
0 Reacties, 106 Bezichtigingen,
13 Stemmen
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