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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution 16.12.2004
Hello,
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We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently
wrote. Any comments are welcome!
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Happy holidays!
Sir Eric
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The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution*
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"You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You
own the responsibility of your property - whether it is
real estate, slaves or your ...
4 Kommentare, 410 Angesehen,
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Co-dependancy and slave owning 15.12.2004
Many dream of the perfect slave/owner relationship...one
of devotion,
disciple, function and feeling owned body mind and soul...
This is a beautiful fantasy, but the reality can easily
become
unhealthy co-dependancy. In a safe, sane, and consensual
ideal this
isn't exactly sane.
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Where is this line? Can one have a relationship that fulfills
the
fantasy and definition of ...
3 Kommentare, 363 Angesehen,
34 Stimmen
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Exploring a bi relationship 14.12.2004
How does one who has been straight all of their life, initiate
a bi relationship? It seems like all of the stuff that you
learn with guys goes out the window with woman. Perhaps
i am too nieve, it is so new, and almost scary to me. Does anyone
have any hints on how a woman can connect with another woman?
5 Kommentare, 264 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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What is the role of symbolism? 12.12.2004
Talk about leashes, collars and other BDSM "accessories"
has got me thinking...
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The very first time I was exposed to this concept was late
into the relationship with my first dom. I started with
an off hand comment that wearing shirt collars or necklaces
always makes me very aware of my neck. He very much liked
what he called my adventurous spirit and fiestiness. He ...
1 Kommentare, 188 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
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"Power Corrupts" but what about the Power Exchange? 11.12.2004
The idea that power corrupts, does it apply in D/s?
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The first thing that comes to my mind is that it shouldn't
be applicable in a D/s environment. While the quote (i believe)
refers to general power, it's usually applied in political
fields. So i was tempted to just deny it out of hand.
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But that doesn't really make sense. After all, power
is power, in ...
2 Kommentare, 129 Angesehen,
18 Stimmen
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Begining...need advice 11.12.2004
I have been living with a man for almost 2 months now and care
for him very much. I am quite submissive by nature and I am
starting to see that he is a natural Dom type. We have great
sex, stimulating conversation, and generally get along
well with each other. My problem is that i do not know how
to start a discussion about the Dominant and submissive
rolls we are each already playing ...
9 Kommentare, 268 Angesehen,
30 Stimmen
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Introducing the "Lifestyle" 7.12.2004
How does one go and introduce the "lifestyle"
to a new partner? W/o scaring them off. Or does "planting
a seed work within reason.?
5 Kommentare, 268 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
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Question 5.12.2004
Ok, I met these girls who were working at a bondage booth
at this local sex toy convention thing, and I asked one out.
She said she'd like to go for drinks after the convention,
and even said "sure we'll go for drinks"
after I asked her later on that night "so you were jokin'
about the drinks right?". Problem is, we had to go
(the guys) towards the end of the show and she disappeared,
so ...
6 Kommentare, 150 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
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how to tell one your a tg 4.12.2004
Hi Im a transvestite and live as one ! I have recently met
someone and things are going well thing is this person knows
nothing about my sexuality and i dont know how to approach
this subject without hurting this person or making them
think there is something wrong with them or with me ! i am
at a loss as how to approach this anyhelp would be appreciated
!
5 Kommentare, 153 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me? 28.11.2004
He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we
had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding.
Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That
is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and
wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his
convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which
I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...
0 Kommentare, 258 Angesehen,
44 Stimmen
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Novice Dom 24.11.2004
So you're a novice Dom? Congratulations and welcome
aboard! It is always nice to greet a fellow Dom. But before
you get out them whips and start addressing every sub by
"On your knees slut!" there are a few things
I'd like to say. You may be nervous or scared. I know
it took me a couple of years before I gathered up my courage
and joined the local scene. I'd had fantasies of tying
up and ...
2 Kommentare, 1061 Angesehen,
113 Stimmen
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HI 19.11.2004
I just create a new group at egypt area and i invite you all
to join it.
0 Kommentare, 34 Angesehen,
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wen love play 19.11.2004
and want to hear from thers who didg this
1 Kommentare, 138 Angesehen,
22 Stimmen
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"a soulmate" 18.11.2004
a soul-mate is someone who has the unique ability to bring
out the best in us....with a heart full of love, you will
express your highest potential, while also fulfilling
your soul's deepest purpose:to love n be loved !!
2 Kommentare, 76 Angesehen,
20 Stimmen
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***a woman needs*** 18.11.2004
someone who cares about her well-being...n understand
what she's going through...recognise n value her
feelings....
someone to love freely n trust..that she will be loved in
return...
someone to notice her...love her n adore her...
someone she can confide in..trustworthy n will not turn
on her n break her confidence....
1 Kommentare, 70 Angesehen,
29 Stimmen
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"a man needs" 18.11.2004
a woman to accept him just the way he is....trust him n be
his friend....admire him for what he has done or tried to
do....give him the opportunity to fulfil your needs.....surprise
him n keep him on the boiling point when it comes to sex...share
the fantasies...most of all nag him NOT....coz he will
run n scare him not...coz men r also very sensitive n fragile....
2 Kommentare, 171 Angesehen,
51 Stimmen
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"practice make perfect" 17.11.2004
the art of communication is the key to a healthy relationship...n
for most women, being in a healthy, intimate relationship
is the foundation to great SEX....
2 Kommentare, 116 Angesehen,
26 Stimmen
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us 16.11.2004
ok i first met the other half in alt 14 months ago a mate of
mine said why not try it out so i did ta alt for bringing foxxy
to me the worst part of our relationship is she lives 2000
k away from me so it makes lif hard at the moment but on the
27 of dec that will all change as we are finaly moving intogether
ok most know who i am by now and i would like to take this opertunity
to say ...
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8 Stimmen
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From first chat to collaring 15.11.2004
Dear men,
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Dominant or submissive, Master or slave, I believe there
are a few things you need to know if you haven't figured
them out all ready.
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Level 1: If you are trying to start a relationship on Alt.com
or any other BDSM site, firstly knock it off with the cock
shots! Do you seriously think this is what is going to turn
a Woman on (I'm sorry, but I ...
9 Kommentare, 443 Angesehen,
182 Stimmen
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Collaring 12.11.2004
I have a question for doms or masters regarding collaring.
What is the average amount of time it takes including training
and consideration that is used for a master or dom to collar
a sub?
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Are there any specific levels of collaring? I am just curious.
4 Kommentare, 241 Angesehen,
26 Stimmen
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being schooled in submission...(truth from a.s.s. re: CMM) 11.11.2004
i am personally, by 'el naturale' extremely Dominant.
Streets and my 'history' has formed this dominant
aura around me, keeping me safe yet bound to a Dominant existance.
Until CMM came along, that is.
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The hardest thing in the world for me to really do, is to be
submissive, yet in meeting CMM - it has been the most exciting
and educational experience to date...and this is ...
0 Kommentare, 86 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
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Older Women and Younger Men 8.11.2004
I see that Alt are running a Poll and the question is directed
at men. Perhaps it would interst people to know that a large
majority of Fem Domme/submissive relationships are where
the woman is older and the submissive is younger.
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I am currently in such a relationship and the submissive
is 13 years my junior. I originally had a lot of misgivings
about just such a ...
2 Kommentare, 172 Angesehen,
43 Stimmen
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To Be Or Not To Be 30.10.2004
While I am fairly new to this lifestyle and to this site,
I have been approached by numerous Doms who write they can
"train me in one night."
I find this hard to believe, but then there may be some supermen
out there just waiting to train this submissive to be all
she can be.
I have a tendency to believe (and want) a more stable relationship,
starting off with a friendship, chatting, ...
3 Kommentare, 95 Angesehen,
32 Stimmen
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How can I get my husband to be turned on by being dominant? 22.10.2004
I'm looking for advice on how to turn a vanilla into
a dominant. Any ideas? He will do a light hand spanking,
go from behind and make me go down on him and talk a little
dirty. However, it is rare and takes a little prodding from
me. I've tried watching porn with him and movies and
telling him what I like. I guess I feel like it sort of ruins
the scene when the submissive is trying to ...
4 Kommentare, 112 Angesehen,
22 Stimmen
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new to this lifestyle 17.10.2004
I was wondering if anyone did training on the web first with
their dom. How did it work out this dom I am working with seems
a nice guy, and says we will meet in about a month. We talk
on the phone and we talk by web too. It is hard for me to be totally
submissive to him without challenging him because know
there are no consequences yet for it. Do really want to do
this, have discovered ...
1 Kommentare, 96 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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new to this 9.10.2004
Does anyone know where I can find out information or help
on being a good Domme?
3 Kommentare, 65 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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love letter to my girlfriend 9.10.2004
Copy love letter to bambi Baby ive missed you so much ! its
been so long since ive held you in my arms, I m looking forward
to hold to you again, ,I remember our first kiss so soft
and sensous and after I kissed your mouth was still opan
ready for more so I kissed you again and you made sweet sound, so
I tongue kissed you but you weren’t ready for that , just
sweet sensous kiss, ,, mm it ...
1 Kommentare, 82 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Any ideas? 7.10.2004
I recently met a vanilla girl but I soon realised that she
was naturally very submissive. I have introduced the idea
of BDSM & D/s to her & shes quite into it. My question
is; does anyone have any ideas for how I should take things
further?
1 Kommentare, 62 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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New to this lifestyle need help in becoming a good slave. 6.10.2004
I have been with my Master for 6 months now, I love him to death. I am not yet the person slave I now i could be to him. I am looking to be his best and closes slave that he has, But i have a problem I can't yet give my whole self over to My master, I guess you would say that i am hardhead in some ways but i am in need of some advices from you. How should I correct the problem?
Worried ...
1 Kommentare, 50 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
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What a lucky guy I was 5.10.2004
I have been in a long term relationship and regretfully my partner died on June 2nd 2002. I met him when I was 15 and he was 40 and we had the most wonderful life together in a totally monogamous relationship for 40 years. When I was 20 I came to live with him and we had lived together in true harmony and love for those 35 years. We did not have much to do with the gay scene and we hated gay bars ...
1 Kommentare, 81 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
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