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To be, or not to be... 4.5.2019
I got a question. Tis it nobler or more appropriate to tell
someone their is no interest, perhaps with explanation
or to end in perpetual silence?
1 Kommentare, 39 Angesehen,
28 Stimmen
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CUT AND PASTE FOR SCAMMERS 22.3.2018
EVERY DAY on ALT.COM several million scammers are seeking
YOU out.! <br><br>
Does YOUR profile make you seem NEEDY ? <br><br>
<br><br>
As a PRO DOM who YES. makes a financial living from this lifestyle.
let me explain what I mean .. <br><br>
LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE , And I mean REALLY LOOK at it .. ...
1 Kommentare, 27 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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Gay/Bi Men 24.9.2017
At what point to you get rude with the pushy gay men? i usually
just give a simple No Thanks.. But some just can't take
NO... I'm sure the women deal with this all the time.
Thanks
2 Kommentare, 60 Angesehen,
18 Stimmen
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Polite rejection 11.3.2017
Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being
rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver
it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type,
I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective
to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering
if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound
like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...
4 Kommentare, 58 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
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seems easy but... 14.12.2015
Wish I had the chance to say no to some of the ladies here,
but more often is men looking for another man that do not
take NO very easily. Why don't some read profiles?
2 Kommentare, 38 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
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Not Interested 16.4.2015
What do you think is the best way to tell someone you're
not interested? Especially if it's someone that you
probably will see somewhere and don't want an awkward
situation?
15 Kommentare, 127 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
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Nothing wrong 8.6.2014
To me there is nothing wrong with saying no thanks. I have
been in this lifestyle for many years 30 and counting. I
have seen, heard and done a lot and trust me not everything
is for everyone. Just find someone who fits you wants and
desires and then push the envelope a little but don't
go out of the comfort zone. This lifestyle only works well
with trust, openness, honesty and desire.
3 Kommentare, 41 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Saying no is better than bullshitting 26.8.2012
I have been approached by many women who have initially
provided me with bullshit photos so what do you say to them?
No thanks
2 Kommentare, 109 Angesehen,
10 Stimmen
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be open and up front 24.7.2012
be open and up front and talk about what you both want and
be willing to try new things
1 Kommentare, 28 Angesehen,
6 Stimmen
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I wish people would say no thanks!!! 7.3.2012
People don't just ignore e-mails!!!! Write back and
so no thanks!!! Way to many e-mails go unanswered!!!! It
is the polite thing to do!!!!
8 Kommentare, 115 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
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why? 28.1.2009
If i told somebody no thanks already and keep asking me for
sex? what can i do? that peson dont leave me alone. and im
sick of it.i dont like to use violence or be rude with people
but at this point i feel like if im gonna exploid.
2 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you 28.11.2008
I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me
potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations,
a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars,
lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend,
shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.
His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive,
they caught my attention and ...
11 Kommentare, 452 Angesehen,
29 Stimmen
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Already had a problem 4.5.2008
I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've
been extremely polite to each and every response I've
recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first
email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM
ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've
had problems on another site in the past. He immediately
emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...
11 Kommentare, 371 Angesehen,
34 Stimmen
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No Thank You 8.1.2008
I was checking on the love list and this couple came up
that look to be interesting so i set them a wink and put them
on my hot list. I was wink back and put on their hot list. I e-mail the back to let them know that i was interested in
them Even if they wear on the heavy side, I did not have a
problem with that. The Female was Dom and her husband was a Sub, I sent her a couple of e-mails as to ...
0 Kommentare, 230 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Thank You, I am not interested. 11.8.2007
When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest
me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments.
Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality,
sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and
more?
Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back
for a moment and think that this person has ...
3 Kommentare, 119 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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winks and flirting 20.7.2007
Having someone view your profile might suggest they liked
you picture or your one-line come on but it doesn't
necessarily mean they're interested. After reading
about you, there might not be a match. Still it shows up on
your "interested" list.
But winks should be a better indicator right? I say *should*
because I am the proud recipient of a "no thanks"
quick reply indicating she ...
2 Kommentare, 142 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
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Master's Offer 21.5.2007
I consider myself submissive. I received an offer from
a potential master about a week ago.
Here is my problem, the way he approached the subject made
me want to defy. I have never had that happen to me on a first
meeting. He chose to tell me that he is very prominate in
this community and that his wife knows nothing of his desires.
Those two facts right there made my stomach turn. It ...
7 Kommentare, 383 Angesehen,
21 Stimmen
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no thanks 9.3.2007
I think it's just being rude not to reply to someone
that's taken the time to respond to your profile. ON the other hand there is too many random hits and fake, (maybe
people paid by this site) emails that it starts to piss you
off. If it's a genuine email I reply each time. There are
many ways to say no thanks but the best is thanks for your
interest but no thankyou.
4 Kommentare, 72 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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random hits to your profile 13.2.2007
Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome
visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious
as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.
5 Kommentare, 176 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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Cock Shots 26.12.2006
i generally turn down requests
for contact from Men who send me nude pictures, especially
cock shots. But i got to thinking, why would a Man send one
of an unattrative cock. Don't get me wrong; most cocks
are more than average in size, but that alone doesn't
make them attractive. So i thought i'd hand out my POV
on the matter.
1) If Your cock is a ...
15 Kommentare, 534 Angesehen,
39 Stimmen
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how do u say no 18.12.2006
when u set up a meeting with a girl and she smells like fish
how do u tell her no
1 Kommentare, 127 Angesehen,
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leave it alone 21.11.2006
Why can't people take no for an answer. If a married
person contacts me I politely reply and tell them I am not
interested in married men. Please leave it at that. I don't
want to hear about your miserable marriage or that your
wife is not into it. I am not into it with a married man!
2 Kommentare, 287 Angesehen,
13 Stimmen
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Why people donth bother to reply 12.11.2006
I have often been thinking why people are so lazy when it
comes to be polite on the net.
Very often when i send someone an email, i dont even get a
reply.
How hard is it to simply say "no thanks, i am not interested"
I know that some get a lots of emails. And of course the women
in here maybe get tons of mails, but thats not an excuse to
not reply, i mean if they get too many mails than ...
6 Kommentare, 251 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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Should I...? 9.11.2006
My "boyfriend", Paul, is very persuasive.
Only recently have I finally given into him and had sex,
but before that I had to resort to all sorts of excuses to
say no. Did I have a good reason? No, not at all. I didn't
want to have sex, but then, I was young and didn't know
much. Every time Paul suggested it, I would feel embarassed
and wonder what to say. My first thought was always, "Should ...
3 Kommentare, 387 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Why do some trolls cant take a rejection 21.10.2006
Ive noticed that most trolls can not take rejection. It
makes me question..?
Im always polite when someone approaches me but I can get
really angry when they keep going on and on... so if this
is you.. dont show women that you are desperate it is so unattractive...
thank you
2 Kommentare, 235 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
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How to say no to a woman 6.10.2006
I meet this lovely and beautiful woman here on Alt.com.
I am ready for sex, in all kind and ways, so was she.., but
she was also ready for more; moving togheter in the same
apartment etc. She want listening to me, I doesn't
want a relationship. How to say "No"..!?
3 Kommentare, 379 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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Male Obligations 23.9.2006
It seems the more and more I get into the lifestyle the more
and more i notice that we (of the lifestyle) have a respect
for one another. Top, bottom, male, female, doesn't
matter limits are limits. Which is great but since i live
in a small area i'm stuck looking for vanallia people
to be aroung and date around with, and i think I've noticed
that there is a great lack of resect it seems in ...
1 Kommentare, 162 Angesehen,
5 Stimmen
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never thought it would happen 16.7.2006
never thought it would happen to me. I'm not one of those
pretty boys. In the last 3 months I have found 3 occasions
in which I needed to say "No thanks." For one
it was just there was no attraction what so ever. She kept
saying it was the best I could ever get - but I have learned
to have standards. The other was a lady who was in a sad state
mentally. I could not bring myself to ...
1 Kommentare, 225 Angesehen,
8 Stimmen
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When there IS no reply... 9.7.2006
I'd think it's safe to say that if you send someone
a reply and you don't get one back, does this not mean
they're not interested?? I've had many people
get so snotty about this and show their true colrs/manners.
So.. What I DONT get is that WHY do the men get so upset over
not getting a reply when their profile CLEARLY states/wreaks
that they're out for a*s?? Personally, if they cant ...
4 Kommentare, 421 Angesehen,
23 Stimmen
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How to explain to a submissive that he is not suitable 23.6.2006
A submissive usually would not take no for an answer. He
will ask and cajole and plead and say that he loves you(this
is often just a trick to get you to keep him). You get annoyed
bu his whining.
To test whether the guy is genuine, tell him to do something
difficult for you, that would require a lot of effort from
him and observe what he does.
He either does what you asked ...
2 Kommentare, 124 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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