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woodboy1981 43 男性
1 文章
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why?   2009-01-28

If i told somebody no thanks already and keep asking me for sex? what can i do? that peson dont leave me alone. and im sick of it.i dont like to use violence or be rude with people but at this point i feel like if im gonna exploid.


2 評論, 93 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,3.01 分數
soulstrands 66 女性
3 文章
分數 0.0
The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you   2008-11-28

I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations, a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars, lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend, shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.

His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive, they caught my attention and ...


11 評論, 452 瀏覽次數, 29 票 ,6.15 分數
blueeyedgirl70 53 女性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Already had a problem   2008-05-04

I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've been extremely polite to each and every response I've recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've had problems on another site in the past. He immediately emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...


11 評論, 371 瀏覽次數, 34 票 ,6.92 分數
biwildwilly 67 跨性別
1 文章
分數 0.0
No Thank You   2008-01-08

I was checking on the love list and this couple came up that look to be interesting so i set them a wink and put them on my hot list. I was wink back and put on their hot list. I e-mail the back to let them know that i was interested in them Even if they wear on the heavy side, I did not have a problem with that. The Female was Dom and her husband was a Sub, I sent her a couple of e-mails as to ...


0 評論, 230 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,1.07 分數
WildThang1275 69 女性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Thank You, I am not interested.   2007-08-11

When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments. Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality, sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and more?

Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back for a moment and think that this person has ...


3 評論, 119 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,5.14 分數
Bolt7 47 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
winks and flirting   2007-07-20

Having someone view your profile might suggest they liked you picture or your one-line come on but it doesn't necessarily mean they're interested. After reading about you, there might not be a match. Still it shows up on your "interested" list.

But winks should be a better indicator right? I say *should* because I am the proud recipient of a "no thanks" quick reply indicating she ...


2 評論, 142 瀏覽次數, 11 票 ,5.04 分數
Daimon72 51 女性
7 文章
分數 0.0
Master's Offer   2007-05-21

I consider myself submissive. I received an offer from a potential master about a week ago.

Here is my problem, the way he approached the subject made me want to defy. I have never had that happen to me on a first meeting. He chose to tell me that he is very prominate in this community and that his wife knows nothing of his desires. Those two facts right there made my stomach turn. It ...


7 評論, 383 瀏覽次數, 21 票 ,5.97 分數
tazdawg46 54 男性
41 文章
分數 0.1
no thanks   2007-03-09

I think it's just being rude not to reply to someone that's taken the time to respond to your profile. ON the other hand there is too many random hits and fake, (maybe people paid by this site) emails that it starts to piss you off. If it's a genuine email I reply each time. There are many ways to say no thanks but the best is thanks for your interest but no thankyou.


4 評論, 72 瀏覽次數, 5 票 ,4.12 分數
norann 52 男性
6 文章
分數 0.0
random hits to your profile   2007-02-13

Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.


5 評論, 176 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,3.01 分數
pinkie_blonde 64 女性
8 文章
分數 0.0
Cock Shots   2006-12-26

i generally turn down requests for contact from Men who send me nude pictures, especially cock shots. But i got to thinking, why would a Man send one of an unattrative cock. Don't get me wrong; most cocks are more than average in size, but that alone doesn't make them attractive. So i thought i'd hand out my POV on the matter.
1) If Your cock is a ...



15 評論, 534 瀏覽次數, 39 票 ,5.76 分數
oshit01 40 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
how do u say no   2006-12-18

when u set up a meeting with a girl and she smells like fish how do u tell her no


1 評論, 127 瀏覽次數, 2 票 ,1.04 分數
sexie1 53 女性
2 文章
分數 0.0
leave it alone   2006-11-21

Why can't people take no for an answer. If a married person contacts me I politely reply and tell them I am not interested in married men. Please leave it at that. I don't want to hear about your miserable marriage or that your wife is not into it. I am not into it with a married man!


2 評論, 287 瀏覽次數, 13 票 ,3.14 分數
29m4perversegal 49 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
Why people donth bother to reply   2006-11-12

I have often been thinking why people are so lazy when it comes to be polite on the net. Very often when i send someone an email, i dont even get a reply. How hard is it to simply say "no thanks, i am not interested" I know that some get a lots of emails. And of course the women in here maybe get tons of mails, but thats not an excuse to not reply, i mean if they get too many mails than ...


6 評論, 251 瀏覽次數, 15 票 ,5.58 分數
BritishHawk 38 女性
5 文章
分數 0.0
Should I...?   2006-11-09

My "boyfriend", Paul, is very persuasive. Only recently have I finally given into him and had sex, but before that I had to resort to all sorts of excuses to say no. Did I have a good reason? No, not at all. I didn't want to have sex, but then, I was young and didn't know much. Every time Paul suggested it, I would feel embarassed and wonder what to say. My first thought was always, "Should ...


3 評論, 387 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,3.21 分數
colette77 46 女性
10 文章
分數 0.0
Why do some trolls cant take a rejection   2006-10-21

Ive noticed that most trolls can not take rejection. It makes me question..? Im always polite when someone approaches me but I can get really angry when they keep going on and on... so if this is you.. dont show women that you are desperate it is so unattractive... thank you


2 評論, 235 瀏覽次數, 14 票 ,3.46 分數
Samegutt 50 男性
2 文章
分數 0.0
How to say no to a woman   2006-10-06

I meet this lovely and beautiful woman here on Alt.com. I am ready for sex, in all kind and ways, so was she.., but she was also ready for more; moving togheter in the same apartment etc. She want listening to me, I doesn't want a relationship. How to say "No"..!?


3 評論, 379 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,3.01 分數
Kaysler 40 男性
5 文章
分數 0.0
Male Obligations   2006-09-23

It seems the more and more I get into the lifestyle the more and more i notice that we (of the lifestyle) have a respect for one another. Top, bottom, male, female, doesn't matter limits are limits. Which is great but since i live in a small area i'm stuck looking for vanallia people to be aroung and date around with, and i think I've noticed that there is a great lack of resect it seems in ...


1 評論, 162 瀏覽次數, 5 票 ,3.80 分數
johnson2252000 64 男性
6 文章
分數 0.0
never thought it would happen   2006-07-16

never thought it would happen to me. I'm not one of those pretty boys. In the last 3 months I have found 3 occasions in which I needed to say "No thanks." For one it was just there was no attraction what so ever. She kept saying it was the best I could ever get - but I have learned to have standards. The other was a lady who was in a sad state mentally. I could not bring myself to ...


1 評論, 225 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,2.32 分數
Pan_and_Ramsey 49 伴侶(男人和女人)
1 文章
分數 0.0
When there IS no reply...   2006-07-09

I'd think it's safe to say that if you send someone a reply and you don't get one back, does this not mean they're not interested?? I've had many people get so snotty about this and show their true colrs/manners. So.. What I DONT get is that WHY do the men get so upset over not getting a reply when their profile CLEARLY states/wreaks that they're out for a*s?? Personally, if they cant ...


4 評論, 421 瀏覽次數, 23 票 ,4.65 分數
MistressDior 55 女性
7 文章
分數 0.0
How to explain to a submissive that he is not suitable   2006-06-23

A submissive usually would not take no for an answer. He will ask and cajole and plead and say that he loves you(this is often just a trick to get you to keep him). You get annoyed bu his whining.
To test whether the guy is genuine, tell him to do something difficult for you, that would require a lot of effort from him and observe what he does.
He either does what you asked ...


2 評論, 124 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,5.56 分數
GoddessKell 55 女性
3 文章
分數 0.0
Dont Take it personal....   2006-06-10

Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry" just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99% of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they are physically attractive. The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT SETTLE for anything less. When I am meeting someone whom I ...


2 評論, 143 瀏覽次數, 9 票 ,4.07 分數
ANTHONYBIGT 42 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
everyones expecting   2006-05-30

people are always sending the most crazy emails and most expect a responce. This isn't porn shop just a place to hook up. if people would lightn up and just be honest with self you'd be getting some right now.


1 評論, 102 瀏覽次數, 2 票 ,3.81 分數
SubKrystinka 45 女性
10 文章
分數 0.0
will you be the slave for the rest of my life?NO THANKS   2006-04-29

Why people just dont understand when u refuse them and they are so angry about it.I just dont get it, or maybe i am a little bit stupid hehe


2 評論, 227 瀏覽次數, 7 票 ,3.04 分數
teachme409 36 女性
2 文章
分數 0.0
when you've found someone else....   2006-03-30

Why is it that whenever I've said "Thank-you, but I've found what I'm looking for right now" men seem to think its an invite to ask one of, or the entire series of questions... "Why does he have I don't" "What makes you think he's better than me" "Why did you lead me on" "Will you keep in touch with me in case it doesn't work out" "Will you just call me anyways"
Its pathetic. ...


1 評論, 170 瀏覽次數, 10 票 ,3.39 分數
clitlicker5013 69 男性
5 文章
分數 0.0
How to say you are not interested   2006-03-25

I believe that people need to be more honest when they either respond to an individual, or show any interest. They need to be upfront from the beginning. If the person does not appeal to you, then let them know. Don't lead them on and then back out. If you put a pic in your profile, make sure it is you.


0 評論, 93 瀏覽次數, 5 票 ,5.43 分數
mooodyman 55 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
dont get tied down.   2006-02-01

She looked so nuetral. And as i talked to her she showed no sign of what was to come . I went to her house and we drank some then she got a little goofy and asked me if she could tie my hands behind my back. i Playfiully said yes she looked so sweet and beautiful. nice and almost naive.I let her kindinly . She removed my pants and as i was naked she rubbed me off before tying it off with ...


0 評論, 549 瀏覽次數, 21 票 ,0.28 分數
Kelli_sJenn 44 女性
4 文章
分數 0.0
Is It Illiteracy or Just Ignorance?   2006-01-10

The thing is a lot of times, saying "No thanks" doesn't work. Men are particularly clueless. They troll. They stalk. They whine, wheedle, and lie their asses off just for the incomprehensible "flirtation" of showing you a picture of their penis as if that's all the allure someone wants in a relationship. Get some clues, boys! <br> When someone takes the time and makes the ...


2 評論, 588 瀏覽次數, 53 票 ,6.80 分數
UnCutRebel 52 男性
3 文章
分數 0.0
Kinda hard to say NO   2005-12-17

Kinda ODD but I feel we all have had this moment in our "dateing" lives.......hence ya like certain peeps but not sexually....But they want you...Odd cause when you crave this you get it but not from the ones you want....lol...Ironic cums to mind...lol...So do you engage in sex just cause the other wants too, or you say no and become the bad guy? I rather say NO and be ohnest.....Sum say ...


1 評論, 145 瀏覽次數, 8 票 ,2.09 分數
SuperMandingo 39 男性
10 文章
分數 0.0
How to say no   2005-11-07

To say "no" and make it stick, try this three-step technique. Ask yourself each of these questions, and then look your friend straight in the eye, and confidently state your position: <br> <br> 1. What's the problem? Be very specific about what is wrong. Give it a name. Say "that's stealing, " or "that's dangerous, " or "that's mean." <br> 2. What could ...


0 評論, 168 瀏覽次數, 11 票 ,2.42 分數
mastrwil365 77 男性
1 文章
分數 0.0
how to say no   2005-10-23

Be honest in your evaluation of the other person and if you still feel a negativity of interest be firm and say/write NO (nothing else equates with these two letters so far as communication is concerned - it is a universal acceptance of negativity).


0 評論, 205 瀏覽次數, 15 票 ,2.67 分數