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2005-02-02
SANTA[DEADLINE]VIDEO.VOYEURISM: "SANTA, What.is.the.most.recentcase
of "nonconsensual photograpy" with a video
camera?" "That would have to be when Bunny Brunt
was shopping at the Norolk Mall, in.Richmond, Va.for.prom.access-ories
with her 18-year-old daughter Raquel when she noticed
a man waving a.shopping.bag under Raquel's skirt.
obviously, if wishing he could see up her skirt, if she were
wearing panties, or maybe not, a blind shot of the teen-agers
pusse^." "When Mrs.Brunt confronted him, he
bolted. After she and another, custom er chased hin down
in the Mall. Security found a secret, hidden, video camera
vid.cam.in the shopping bag he had used to peer up Raquel's
skirt. Arrested, it was found that he had also been up-skirting.several
other-teens." "But, because of a loop-hole
in Virginia's law, prosecuters were.only able to
convict, Jeffrey Swisher of nonconsensual photography,
disorderly
conduct, to serve 10 DAYS IN JAIL!" inuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
"It's immoral, it's certainly wrong, but
under the code, it's just not a writtn offence, "said
Delegate John Cosgrove, who is sponsering a bill tyt would
close the loophole in Virgina's law. We're trying
to tight the code soo some pervert isn't able to up-skirt
or down-blouse any one else." Similar effforts have
played out across the coountry, as states struggle to to
rewoord laws written before the advancement of camers
technologyi led to a boom in digital voyeurism. The internet
has fueled the erotic explosionof"up-skirt"or"down-blouse"
into a search engine, and up to a million of Web sites have
popped up. [SANTA is going for a coffee break, if any more
of you readers are interested in what one critic of SANTA's
Articles called-"SLUDGE"-req est "up-skirts
#2]excuse any typos:
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Pay attention... 1.2.2005
I can't & won't speak for others. I can only
voice my own opinion, for whatever it's worth. Frankly,
if you answer a profile/message that the poster feels you
don't meet their requirements? Don't be surprised
if you get a reply that may singe your eyeballs!
<br>
People; male, female, top, bottom, dom/me, sub, slave,
whatever, get tired of sifting thru the needy, greedy,
fulfill ...
3 Kommentare, 365 Angesehen,
32 Stimmen
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there was a time 18.1.2005
There was a time I use to answer a polite "no thanks"
to all the mails I received (here or elswhere) beeing a woman
and a Dominant one generate a lot of asking mails.
Use to think I needed a special subcretary to answer all
of them but never found the one *S*
<br>
This took me a enormous amount of time, maybe because I was
more than polite and gave a little answer to every mail ...
7 Kommentare, 393 Angesehen,
24 Stimmen
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A kinder way to reject a prospect 11.1.2005
My experience with the Alt IM and Chatrooms has left me with
a somewhat bitter taste for the manner in which disinterest
is shown.
<br>
I would suggest that Alt managment devise a more subte and
less semantic manner in which to indicate a lack of interest
in either an IM or private chat arrangement.
<br>
Could we not utilize, "Sorry, but [this person] is
not presently ...
3 Kommentare, 245 Angesehen,
25 Stimmen
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[Another Santa ARRESTED]Touched.sex.11yr.oldElf: 10.1.2005
[DATELINE]ForestCity;ASantaAressted: AP: A-nother.Santa.was.charged.with
.taking taking indecent liberties with one of his girl
elfs. Davie.Cty sheriff's.said.that.the11yr.old.girl
volunteer.elf.was.touched.inappropr- iately as soon
as they left Forest City on the way to his house for a childrens
xmas party, after gaining parents permission to travel
with Santa. ...
0 Kommentare, 92 Angesehen,
11 Stimmen
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ID feel much better 10.1.2005
yes thats right if a person feels the message they recieved
was not for them then a simple no thanks would do the trick.
By saying no in a responceyou let the other member know that
the site is not full of people who just want to show photos
of them selves so to all those who respond NO THANKS THANK
YOU FLASH51167
0 Kommentare, 72 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Revealing 2.1.2005
A friendly and polite response to a profile should merit
a "No thanks" if the person doesn't match
one's preferences. If not it would not only be a lack
of "kinderstube": it is surprising how many
people don't realize ho much they are revealing about
themselves by not extending this basic courtesy. Not getting
any reply at all after some time is an answer in itself - and
I for one accept ...
2 Kommentare, 125 Angesehen,
15 Stimmen
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Tell Me no, it's ok 22.12.2004
I would rather be told no thanks than hear nothing back.
I follow up with a reply thanking the person for taking the
time to turn me down 
If you get a nasty response, look on the bright side, you
don't have to worry if you made the wrong choice turning
that person down. Then bask in the glow of knowing how bad
they really wanted you.
<br>
Anybody seen my slave?
0 Kommentare, 90 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
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Say no thanks and then...... 22.12.2004
Say no thanks and then block the user. That way you don't
have to listen to the whiners.
<br>
Still looking for my slave.
0 Kommentare, 117 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
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In defence 18.12.2004
When I first joined Alt and every other site, I made a point
of replying to each response I got even though at times it
felt as if I needed a secretary.
<br>
I try to be clear on my wants/needs and not to lead anyone
up the garden path...
<br>
I thought that 'thanks for your interest but you are
not for me' would be appreciated instead I received
responses asking ...
4 Kommentare, 571 Angesehen,
37 Stimmen
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how to get out without being rude. 15.12.2004
i recentley met this guy online and before we met he seemed
really cool. he looked attractive to me and he was well hung
and said he was a total top wich i really like. but when i got
to his place he was totally not what he said he was then i was
really dissapointed, but i didnt really know what to say.
i ended up leaving without doing anything with him but he
said that i was a tease and ...
2 Kommentare, 410 Angesehen,
18 Stimmen
,4.49 Gesamtpunktzahl
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saying not interested 8.12.2004
even if you email someone or they email you, it would be polite
in just saying no thanks or not my type, I have found that
people have a tendency to get really rude if you don't
respond either way. so I make it a point to reply whether
to say no thanks or not my type, just my viewpoint
4 Kommentare, 93 Angesehen,
20 Stimmen
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WHy do people "phish" 7.12.2004
Why is it that people will send a "email" with
a different addy to respond back to. And then have links
to "paid" sites in order to reply. At other sites.?
To me it gets old. Am I the Lone Ranger or what?
1 Kommentare, 102 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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Cougars 5.12.2004
I don't know about you, but I have trouble with Cougars.
They are constantly prowling around me, its not that I'm
overly against fooling around with older women, its when
they say "you know I have a your age" that
doesn't do it for me.
<br>
Why is it the Cougars are far more forward then the rest?
6 Kommentare, 226 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
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One of the obstacles I've run into with my own bi-curiosity... 2.12.2004
I used to get whipped every now and then by a master (who will
remain nameless here), he knew I was bi-curious, but he
also knew that the mutual agreement between US was he was
master and he whipped me. Before we did anything, we discussed
a bit about what was acceptable between us. I already have
a mistress and I'm HER slave, and every now and then
she liked to send me to him for a proper ...
1 Kommentare, 171 Angesehen,
14 Stimmen
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Time to be polite. 16.11.2004
I believe that any well mannered person has the time to be
polite. Of course standard members are restricted to the
number of emails they can answer. I understand that. Anyone
who writes me gets a reply even if it is no thank you. I appreciate
that people here are reaching out to people they feel may
be kindred spirits. Take heart my fellow rejectees. Somebody's
looking for somebody like ...
2 Kommentare, 94 Angesehen,
30 Stimmen
,6.18 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Sometimes it's just not worth it! 15.11.2004
I used to take the time to say no politely and it usualy ends
up in the other person getting hostile over being rejected.
If someone is across the country or IN another country I
don't see the point of answering. It's silly to
me and I don't have the time to be honest. Don't
take it personally! Just my 2 cents..
1 Kommentare, 145 Angesehen,
32 Stimmen
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how could you? 9.11.2004
this one would like to take a moment or two to speak her feelings
on the word No and what it means girl was always taught that
no matter your relation no matter your situation one always
has the right to say No or has a safe word then when used is
supposed to stop the present activity from happening but
it seems to this girl that sometimes ...
1 Kommentare, 97 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
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How lovely we are not meant for each other 31.10.2004
WEll well well,
of late i have had some pleasant experiences with saying
no thanks. In a couple of letters i responded with...'i
think You got the wrong idea about what i am looking for,
but thanks for writing' or ' i am afraid that that
is really not something i am interested in' or even
'now i know all about You, You have not even said why
You wrote me, i do not think there is any hope ...
0 Kommentare, 132 Angesehen,
17 Stimmen
,5.11 Gesamtpunktzahl
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how to say no. 30.10.2004
How do you say no to a person you dont even know? Well the truth
is you might be missing on a great guy or girl and most people
say no pretty quickly if the person standing infront of
them is not a gq or perfect ten model. Oh well get over it,
we are all sometime or another plastic, no matter what we
look like or are like we are only human. If you dont like the
person and dont have the ...
0 Kommentare, 37 Angesehen,
12 Stimmen
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Please Read Profile Before Sending An Email 26.10.2004
I have recieved emails from individuals who have in all
likelihood not taken the time to read my profile. If they
had they wouldn't have put forth the effort to send
me an email as my location and what I am seeking here differs
from their own. I typically don't respond to these
emails, not out of a lack of common courtesy but because
it's clear that they either didn't read my profile,
or ...
5 Kommentare, 96 Angesehen,
37 Stimmen
,5.95 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Responding to e-mails 24.10.2004
I have seen frequent postings on alt about people who don't
answer e-mail. I myself have a system. In my profile I clearly
state that I won't relocate, want nothing to do with
attached partners and am not into sadists. Despite this
I get e-mail from these individuals which I typically don't
answer. Nor should I be expected to, if the individual sending
it has read my profile then they know ...
1 Kommentare, 91 Angesehen,
20 Stimmen
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You'd have to be crazy. 12.10.2004
How many times has a hot woman in a tight red dress approached
you, brushed her blond bangs out of her blue eyes, curled
her pouty lips up and asked you: do you come here often? Do
you want to?
<br>
Now if this were to happen... would you turn her down? We
all know that if you are a man, and you know that this blonde
is not a man.... the answer is Huh NOOOO>
<br>
...
0 Kommentare, 73 Angesehen,
9 Stimmen
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 23.9.2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Kommentare, 94 Angesehen,
7 Stimmen
,5.59 Gesamtpunktzahl
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UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR & THIS APPROACH IS COMPLETELY WRONG, WRONG, WRONG… 23.9.2004
Most of the time a man is attracted to a woman's face,
her figure and then maybe her personality after. He then
wonders how her body would look without her clothes. That
is when his imagination starts to take over him completely.
He can not stop wondering what sex would be like with her.
Then he starts to create fantasies about having a sexual
encounter with her and he would do just about ...
1 Kommentare, 135 Angesehen,
20 Stimmen
,6.44 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Why can't they just say it???? 23.9.2004
with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they
just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This
not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do
to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think
that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather
you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on,
if a friendship happens out of ...
0 Kommentare, 31 Angesehen,
2 Stimmen
,3.81 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Why can't they just say it???? 23.9.2004
with a few girls that i have been with later i found out they
just wanted to be friends. But they started it???? This
not makes me feel bad but it also makes me wonder what i do
to make them think that is the only way to be my friend? I think
that is why i like it here. Don't have to worry weather
you want to be my frined or not, just if you want to get it on,
if a friendship happens out of ...
0 Kommentare, 60 Angesehen,
4 Stimmen
,2.86 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Submission brings a great deal of problems with being assertive 8.9.2004
I am a new submissive femme and getting more than my fair
share of responses. the trouble is that i am happy to messege
the Doms and i am not wasting time, i really do want to meet
up with some of them, but some of them try to really pressurise
me into a meeting the first time we talk and i find it very
difficult to say no. Sometimes they want things that i am
not ready for and sometimes ...
1 Kommentare, 83 Angesehen,
16 Stimmen
,6.21 Gesamtpunktzahl
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Reply to Hurting Feelings 31.8.2004
I too have seen much of this. When sent an e-mail no matter
if I am interested or not, I write back cordially thanking
them but respectfully declining. Why is it then these socalled
"Dominants" come back with acidy remarks and
hissing insults? One word: Immaturity. They've never
truly grown up. Either within the lifestyle or outside
of it. Same can be said for women however.
...
1 Kommentare, 84 Angesehen,
36 Stimmen
,8.07 Gesamtpunktzahl
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RE: Why do people find they have to lie ?? 30.8.2004
I had this happen to me just recently. A female submissive
was gung ho about being my sub. She was into kinky stuff that
I was into to. But she couldn’t express these feelings with
her husband (red flag #1). When it came down to meeting,
she didn’t want to give her number (red flag # 2) because
she says her husband is a snoop. To make a long story short,
she was a no-show and when ...
0 Kommentare, 61 Angesehen,
19 Stimmen
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