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missbehavinbadly 61 F
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Embarrassing or painful ways to make a male slave masturbate - 9/3/2003

Hi can anyone please help me as i have new to this lifestyle and have only been a Mistress for a short time and i need some ideals form Master/Mistress or even slaves on how to embarrass or make it painful when my slave want to masterbate i would be very greatful for any ideal

4 response(s), 1 vote
karenq 61 F
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Any spanking or BDSM clubs in Toronto, Ontario? - 7/3/2003

I don't have a lot of experience as a submissive but what I have done, I enjoyed immensely. Now, I am looking to get into the scene more. Does anyone know of spanking or BDSM clubs in Toronto? Are they hard to get into? I heard a lot of clubs are very particular as to who they accept as a member.

0 response(s), 0 votes
READYFORUSE418 69 H
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Who comes first? - 5/3/2003

I am married but the sex has gone cold. My wife would be horrified at the thought of any of the subjects dscussed on this site. I have met a lady who I think is amazingly beautiful and who finds our sex together more satisfyinng than anything she knew possible - because she's discovered the joys of being dom. She loves using the cane for long periods and without safe words, she finds my ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
silentsoo 44 F
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frustrated literary lesbian sub seeks inspiration - 3/3/2003

having noticed a distinct lack of any decent F/f BDSM fiction, both o/l and published, i've taken to writing my own. However, i have run out of inspiration. i have exhausted the erotic stories section on Alt already, so does A/anyone know of another site, or a couple of books even, that i could have a look at to reignite my creativity? And i mean the proper stuff, written with women in ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
PenisMan1 42 H
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Fingers up my ass? - 3/3/2003

is there any woman out there that would be willing to shuv two lubricated fingers up my ass and massage my prostate too orgasm? And call me sissy names while they do it it and make me feel like shit for cumming?

0 response(s), 0 votes
wildwillie777 70 H
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Women hung up on age.... - 2/3/2003

Why is it that only in America are women hung up on age? Not all men in there fifty's and fourty's are bald and fat. Sure we may no longer be Mr. America, but does'nt expierence count for any thing? I don't understand why younger women would not be interested in older men after talking to so many who have told me that there young boy friends just don't know how to perform right. I can ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
MiamiBBW 57 F
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Really, Seriously, Can someone please explain CUPPING? - 27/2/2003

It sounds wonderful, and I would like to know all about it. Are there special tools to use? Please explain the details of Cupping. Thanks!

1 response(s), 0 votes
lookinggirl11 60 F
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I am married and can't get satifaction.Husband can't get up. Should I try to get something else? - 27/2/2003

My husband got medical problem which prohibite him to get it up. He said I could get someone to satifly myself, but I believe in my married vows. Been married for 50 years. I would like a real dick in me instead of a dido. I haven"t a a real dick for years, What should I do? I feel like I am going against my wedding vows.

1 response(s), 0 votes
silentsoo 44 F
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Why isn't she interested? - 26/2/2003

i've been in a vanilla lesbian relationship for 2 years. i have a wonderful girlfriend, and we're very much in love, but we haven't had sex in the last 6 months. i was abused in a previous relationship, so was naturally timid at first, but with time and care from my gf, i've developed a HUGE sex drive. This means i'm now very frustrated. We've spoken about it and she says we just "don't ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
LittleLeather 48 F
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latex panties with built-in butt plug - 13/2/2003

Where do I but latex panties with built-in butt plug?

0 response(s), 0 votes
cdwannabesub 59 H
2 questions
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any bdsm clubs around tampabay? - 8/2/2003

was wondering if anyone knew of any bdsm clubs around the tampabay area.. sub in search of master.

0 response(s), 0 votes
mistressvirginia 66 F
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help for the one i love - 20/1/2003

i need help i have love my bestfriend bill for five years and we are close but he said i'm not his type i'm alarge girl and he love twigg type girls but i love him so much i started loseing weight..he a slave and i have been with him to pro mistress but he never let me watch how can i get this man instered in me as a women who love all the thing he dose

1 response(s), 0 votes
barprincess 50 F
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is there any bondage clubs in orange county and la to go watch - 15/1/2003

me and another person i met through alt are new to this so we are interested in finding a club to watch and learn

0 response(s), 0 votes
2newtoit 57 H
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how to deep throat - 3/1/2003

I need some hints on giving a good blow job.ive been practicing with a dildo but its not like the real thing.reason im asking is, im about to give someone my first blowjob and i want it to be great for us both, any tips or suggestions?

2 response(s), 3 votes
angelwhore 60 F
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How do i tell my master it's too hard too soon? - 30/12/2002

... He's talented, the roleplay is great (e.g., the psychological aspest) clean, nice home, and the scenes are great. The problem is, he comes out swinging, and i need some ramping to take the "big guns". i can go there, but i need to be taken there. How do i tell him? We always start in role. Do i email? phone? after a scene? i don't want to blindside him... HELP!

3 response(s), 4 votes
FRANK001 61 H
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DO MISTRESS REALLY LIKE WHEN GUYS SUCK DICK - 28/12/2002

DO MISTRESSES REALLY LIKE WHEN A MALE SLAVE SUCKS THEIR STRAP-ON AND WHY ?

0 response(s), 0 votes
chally 63 F
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What is a tens unit? - 28/12/2002

My boyfriend says he has got one for Xmas and is going to try it out on me.He says it is better than all my other toys but will not tell me how it works, he says it will be a big surprise, Can anyone enlighten me and tell me how it works or how it is used?

2 response(s), 0 votes
mmm..mmm..good 59 H
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Can a particular food or diet make cum taste better??? - 20/12/2002

I was wondering if it is a Wives-tale or if there is some truth to it. Is there a way to make cum taste different. <br> Does diet make a difference. Can you make it taste Saltier or Sweeter. Maybe even change the flavor a bit. As if you can maybe make it a bit garlicy or Fruity. <br> Is there any proof or is the jury still out?? <br> Also if it is ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
SugarDaddy476 77 H
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Eating cum from her pussy - 20/12/2002

Do women really like having men eat cum from their pussy. Does it make a defference if the cum is from someone else besides her husband or boyfriend?

0 response(s), 1 vote
SugarDaddy476 77 H
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My wife likes to be eaten after she gets fucked - 20/12/2002

For several months now I have been sucking my wife pussy after I fuck her. It was her idea and she really get off to it. A week ago we went to a party and I lost track of her for about an hour. When I found her she was drunk and she dragged me into a bathroom where she shoved me down on the floor. She then raised her skirt and presented me with a bare bottom. She kneeled above and began ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
slaveboy8469 39 H
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should a slave be bi? - 11/12/2002

Do a lot of women that are a top like their male slaves to be bi? please respond to this if you have an answer and why do you like your slaves to be bi?

10 response(s), 2 votes
crybabyken 64 H
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What Does - 10/12/2002

I guess it's a simple question, but I'd like to know what a SAM is>

4 response(s), 0 votes
THURSDAYWENSDAY 52 F
2 questions
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how do you have phone sex? - 10/12/2002

just want to try it but i haven't a clue.

2 response(s), 0 votes
_Tomcat_ 68 H
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Where are all these acronyms defined ? - 9/12/2002

I'm still trying to figure out what the various acroynms and abreviations stand for. Is there a handy glossary or can you proivde a link to a good one. <br> I thought I was doing OK when I could read the adds in the Berkeley Barb (Ok, that was 1969), but things like ISO and BBR have me miffed. <br>

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matelot46 76 H
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What is fisting? - 4/12/2002

I imagine it means a fist in the anus or vagina, both of which sound painful. Who does it, how do they do it, and why is it fun?

1 response(s), 0 votes
mmm..mmm..good 59 H
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What is snowballing??? - 29/11/2002

What is 'Snowballing'? In sexual terms is what I mean. Thank You.... Dom

1 response(s), 0 votes
TheDom4U 57 H
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Fetish Restaurants in NYC???????????? - 27/11/2002

We're going to New York City this weekend and we're looking for a fetish restaurant for dinner saturday night. La Maison de Sade is no longer open for business. Does anyone have any suggestions????????

0 response(s), 0 votes
readyforya 60 F
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how to warm up those toys? - 25/11/2002

What various ways do you use to warm up silicone or latex toys (dildoes, plugs etc)? Sorry, but I'm just not into the cold penetration scene.

1 response(s), 0 votes
whiteonestoday 63 F
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Being caned - 18/11/2002

<br> My man wishes to cane me for disobedience, but I am married is there any way I can be given my punishment without being marked.

4 response(s), 1 vote
1stone2 59 H
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How do you eliminate perineum and rectum hair? - 17/11/2002

How can someone get ride of the hair in this area? I've tried to by shaving, but it really can cause other problems. Are there any products which are safe and effective for men? I have Epilstop but I'm not sure if I should use it.

0 response(s), 0 votes