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Original Article

How to Use Your Mouth (to Talk About Sex)
by Tristan Taormino

Tristan Taormino is the author of several sensationally sexy and informative books including Down and Dirty Sex Secrets, Pucker Up: A Hands-on Guide to Ecstatic Sex, and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. Tristan tours the country touting the wonders of anal sex and the overall goodness of sex in all its frisky forms. News flash: This month, Tristan celebrates the release of Tristan Taormino's House of Ass, with a DVD party in New York City featuring the DVD's punk-wild star child Joanna Angel (check out Joanna's site, too www.burningangel.com). For details, visit Tri

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Comments

Spango 49 T
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Great article Tristan :) Maybe you could do a workshop on
this subjest at DO, since I wager that, even in that group,
it's still an issue.


Spango

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I loved the article. It was great. Do you do private couple
work?

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This is very true, I used this same technique with my wife,
she was very reticent at first, but after some rimming and
lots of lube, talking about it, and time, she has gotten
to the point where she loves it.

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That was great! You just put into words what I've been
trying to explain to someone about communication and assumption
for months.

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As always, the Queen of Anal tells it like it is. Great article!
:)

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Excellent article. Sometimes its so hard to express oneself
to another so that they will understand you.

SPhawk69 30 M
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well done...keep it up

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well written....it is difficult to find a person experienced
in the proper introduction

drroxx 52 C
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Thanks. You could be very pleasantly surprised.

MrMan2k5 37 M
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very good article. got ur point across

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Thanks a very relavant article, I had a wife that was absolutely
reluctant, as her past hubby had been brutal. We never did
get to a point where she would accept it unfortunately

MJanus61 61 M
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A very good article Tristan. I think that it would do well
to remember that verbal communication only acounts for
10% of how we communicate as a species. Body language and
paralanguage, such as voice inflection, are equally important,
even moreso when it comes to judging the accuracy of what
is being said and how it is being received.

besay 55 M
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good story and to the point

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I found a good arousal by licking first then touching the
anus gently and putting a bit of pressure on without trying
to enter works well. It leaves them wondering, "what
if" for next time. Next time is just as slow and careful!

abbynrmyl 41 F
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excellent article. so true about communication barriers
that we impose....

69dptoy 41 F
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Communication is a beautiful thing. We all need to try to
do more of it.
Me and my little cutie toy were friends for a couple years
in real life. Then we started chatting online with someone
who shared our similar interests. We chatted for 6 months
before meeting. When we meet for drinks the first time,
well life has been great from there. Lesson to us was not
to hide who you are or desire.

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Thank you for a great article. Communications is more than
just for undersdtanding of anal sex but for all parts of
a relationship, ok - especially for those in more than vanilla
sex.

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I am agree with this article and the comments also.
Robrt.

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sometimes this girl has a hard time speaking of what she
desires of my Master. however W/we share similar desires
and this does make it easier on girl. would love to read more.

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that was a very infomrative well written article

lordnlady403 104 C
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Another great article as always

neva2l8 57 M
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Very interesting and good advice L-)