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Very well stated, basically adheres to the basic rules
of life, if it isn't yours, leave it alone, if your
not invited, stay out, etc...common sense, and just
basic proper day to day etiquette goes a long way in a dungeon, house
play party, or any fetish scening...Nothing messes up
a scene like the newbie, or inexperienced walking up to
a scene, and starting to unzip his pants, or reaching
out to touch anothers... Firm...
Having been to several play parties, I think that this list
is an excellent compilation of simple rules to follow for
attendance at a party. All too often, new attendies break
one or moreof these rules. I have found that having a Party
Rules hand out or email prior to the party has helped limit
the indiscretions that cause others discomfort. It also
helps everyone know what is acceptable behavior.
Very nice basic introduction to how to behave at a party.
I just wish that more people (even the veterans who should
know better) would adhere to these basic protocols and
basic civil encounters. Some folks feel that they are in
a free for all just because there is a sexually charged energies
going on and just think they have the right to chat right
next to your scene, interrupt you after your scene is over
etc. Not everyone, but more than not, I have see it happen
at public play spaces.
I'm so glad to see this posted! Too many people don't
know the rules, and don't know where to go to learn them.
Yes, they should ask, but as we all know, the first time in
a dungeon can be intimidating, to say the least. I don't
think I broke any of the rules my first time out, but I do wish
I'd seen this many years ago.
Good coverage of the basics; now if only more newcomers
to the scene would actually pay attention to them...
It would also be a good idea to ask if the host/ess or playparty
organizer if they have any rules that are *specific* to
their particular event. (For example, if it is a small private
event in a home, then no sitting nude on the furniture without
a towel underneath you...) Each event often has their own
rules and guidelines which might cover more specific situations.
~ Mistress Jade Dragon HeadMistress, FemDomme Society of Canada
Honest and to the point!
I am hoping to attend my first "party" (well,
I think it's one) coming soon but it says, fetish wear
only!
As I am new and just exploring, I'm tempted to just go
in my brassiere and jacket. I am teasing a little but that
infamous "oh, what do I wear?!" flits in my brain
from time to time.
Thank you again for the article.
S
Wonderfully stated as to proper etiquette of one attending
a play party or dungeon. If everyone followed these rules
in their outside lives, I believe the world would be a nicer
place. Great job! All the best