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Chat and IM Preferences


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Instant Messenger Popup Settings
You have the ability to disable the Instant Messenger auto-popup window. You can still click to open the Instant Messenger by using the "Launch Instant Messenger" link on the member main page.

 Enable my Instant Messenger IMC auto-popup
 Disable my Instant Messenger IMC auto-popup

Manage Your Ignore List
Type in a username you want to add to your Chat "Ignore List".

Chat Text Size and Style
Choose what font size and style text in the chat rooms will appear to you.

Text size
Font face

Chat Message Color
Color the messages you send in the Chatrooms.

Preset Colors:
Custom Colors:

Refresh Rate
Select how often you would like the chat room to refresh.

You may enable or disable graphical smilies in Chat. (Note: This global setting affects graphical smilies in Email, as well.)

 Yes, I want to see graphical smilies.
 No, I do not want to see graphical smilies.