In search of an experienced Dom who’s willing to teach, guide and be patient with an inexperienced but eager to learn sub.
I’d like to meet that special person who’ll take me places I've never been or have been too afraid to go. I need to give up my independence, stubbornness and self-control and release all those feelings and emotions I've held and guarded for so long. I want to discover why I have these "non-traditional" feelings and desires and explore ways to feel more fulfilled.
I believe my submission is a gift and earned over time so if you expect to meet and jump into bed you're wasting your time. I need to experience the mental and physical connection that comes with BDSM (and any relationship) and that doesn’t happen over night or after one date. In past relationships I’ve experienced either the mental or physical but what I’d desperately love to find is a combination of both, if that’s possible?
Areas of interest include anal sex, BDSM, spankings, bondage, rough sex, role-playing, and oral sex (giving). You can also read my profile for other activities and possible interests. I’m very open-minded so please share your thoughts and desires.
On the flipside of BDSM I enjoy...cooking and baking...making love (yes, vanilla sex...a good movie and a fine glass of wine...reading...visiting my family (we are very close...working in my yard/garden...hot coffee and the newspaper first thing in the morning..a scolding hot bath every night before bed...shopping for clothes and shoes I don’t need...and spending time with animals.
"It's not about pain. It's about being open and completely vulnerable to another person. If you can learn to be that deeply trusting, it changes you."
*****Please don't mistake my submission as weakness or promiscuity******
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal man would be tall, educated, a professional, successful, Dominant (but not cocky), kind-hearted, an animal lover, honest, smart, strong character, confident, sincere, loyal, passionate, sexy, considerate, open-minded, patient, non-judgmental, a good sense of humor, mature and respectful. I haven't mentioned any traits that do not apply to me.
Please understand that I’m looking to meet a "real" Dom. From past experience I believe being Dominant is who you are and not something you can learn, achieve during role-play or pretend to be. You’re either a Dom or you’re not. You know who you are!
To save time I want to be clear about certain things that don't interest me. I'm not remotely interested in being part of a group of any kind or a number on a long list of other women. I want a monogamous relationship, only. I'm not a switch or bisexual and I'm not looking for those traits in a Dom. I have no desire to have my sexual escapades recorded and shared with the world. I'm not looking for a 24/7 or to be a slave. If you’re married, attached, a control freak, game player or have baggage you should look elsewhere. Since I’m looking for a relationship it’s best to stay within my age range of 48-62
I am disease/drug free and practice safe sex and I expect the same in return. I won't respond to smokers.
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