*took year or 2 off from site, just logged back in late July '22.*
Intelligent, passionate, complex. I'm emotionally high maintenance, but pretty self-aware. Life has taught me... A lot. I'm still learning, sometimes the hard way.
Anywho, I'm not necessarily looking for a 24/7 sub lifestyle. But I enjoy submitting to someone I can really trust. I find skilled, confident, nuanced Doms to be incredibly sexy. I've seen many things. I've survived many things. I want to nurture and develop a relationship where we both feel comfortable dropping walls, suspending judgement, being vulnerable, and exploring our kinks and fantasies together. I'm hoping that I can be comfort, playmate, and confidant. I experience kink as a cerebral experience as much -- maybe more than -- a physical one.
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== Results from bdsm test==
100% Rope bunny
98% Submissive
98% Degradee
97% Exhibitionist
95% Masochist
94% Boy/Girl
80% Ageplayer
78% Voyeur
76% Experimentalist
70% Primal (Prey)
69% Brat
57% Non-monogamist
51% Pet
40% Slave
11% Vanilla
9% Sadist
4% Primal (Hunter)
3% Degrader
3% Rigger
2% Daddy/Mommy
1% Master/Mistress
0% Owner
0% Dominant
0% Switch
0% Brat tamer
The 10 Kink Commandments:
1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.
2. One must always be respectful of your partner’s safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open-mind.
4. Always be polite and ask questions.
5. Do not touch anyone else’s equipment without permission.
6. We always must be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.
7. We will always be mindful of aftercare.
8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.
9. We always protect one another’s anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.
10. And Most importantly, don’t forget to have a good time. If you agree with these statements, re-post them in your profile.
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理想の相手:
Has time and desire to invite me in.
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