Hi, I'm a kinky Bay Area nerd with an excess of hobbies, seeking the like-minded to spend some daytime hours with.
While I am married, there isn't any need for discretion. I'll happily talk at length about kinks (mine, yours, my husband's...) when we converse, but it suffices to say that he likes the idea of me dating other people. If we connect and you want to meet him in person to make sure everything's on the up and up, that can totally be arranged.
I'm more in the market for casual, FWB type of relationships -- putting more stress on the "F." If we wouldn't connect platonically, it's highly unlikely that I'd take things to the bedroom. The ideal would be to meet someone who's just as interested in my boardgame collection as they are in my queening stool, basically.
On the geeky side of things, I'm a Trekkie who loves horror movies, and decorates her bedroom with mounted butterflies. I can enthuse fanatically about many comics, tv shows, and video games... as well as the aforementioned boardgames. ^_~ I also play a lot of pinball. If any of that sounds fun or interesting to you, we'd probably at least get along!
As far as the kinky stuff goes, I primarily describe myself as a humiliation domme. It's not a dealbreaker if you aren't into being humiliated, but be aware that I like to tease and that I get off on a lot of the awkward, embarrassing stuff many people would prefer to forget. You need to be very clear about your hard boundaries with me, because I like to push those.
I'm as capable of being as awkward as the next person, but I'm not submissive at all, and one of my biggest turn-offs is dominant posturing fueled by machismo. Please don't tell me how much you'd like to fuck my brains out. If you want my attention, come at me respectfully, and be real. Bonus points if you happen to blush prettily when we meet, but start with the virtual contact and see where it goes from there.
Trust that I am genuinely interested in getting to know my partners as who they are, and not what role they're used to playing. Do me the same courtesy, and I think we could have a lot of fun together.
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