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[B]December 2013:[/B]
Writing this has to be one of the hardest things I have ever had to write, because I find it difficult to put myself into one 'box'.
Everyone knows me as a Dominant, and it is this I see myself mostly. I believe in the fact everyone has a certain element of submissive in them and a certain element of Dominant.
I class myself as 90% Dominant, 10% a mental masochist, but totally and utterly a raging pervert!
I am much more than all of those, as we all are. Some like me, some hate me with a passion, but all in all I am exactly who I am and I make no excuses for it.
[B]As a Man:[/B]
I am strong, loyal, honest, blunt, motivated, light hearted but also serious and simple. I am not interested in the 'lovey' bullshit and expect people to be upfront and genuine.
I think I am very discreet and ultimately wanting a drama free life. Pretty difficult to have that in this lifestyle and often being opinionated and strong minded doesn't allow the 'drama monster' to walk on by, but I am true to who I am and I quite like that :-)
I have strong opinions, I know what I want and am not ashamed for that. I am direct, open minded and like to be challenged though would want the opportunity to challenge back.
I am here to be me, nothing but me and am not interested in your approval. Yes, I am social and am a good friend, but likewise I like respect back in return.
I will not in anyway tolerate lying or anything similar. I give my all, I am honest and I do what I think is right. I will honour and respect you, so I demand the same in return and going forward, will accept nothing less.
[B]As a Lifestyler:[/B]
I have been fortunate to have been in the lifestyle since 1996 (17 years or so) and have found myself go from dungeon to dungeon, whether owning or helping furnish, or visiting friends. I am very comfortable in that surrounding as I am with full on kinksters. Yes, I am fortunate to live in a very furnished house, but mostly that is because having been a kinkster for so long, I have gathered so much stuff. I love that fact, but it doesn't define who I am as a man. In the 'vanilla' world I am a tee-total Accountant and I love the balance. For me, I can fit easily around the kink but also love chilling on the sofa and watching a DVD.
You can read more about me and my views in my group:
https://fetlife.com/groups/22735
[B]As a Dominant:[/B]
I am what some consider a 'nurturing' Dominant, though I can be a hard ass when need. I like to tease, deny and yes female chastity is my main thing, but deep degradation and humiliation are too, as is etiquette training and pet play. But humiliating a hot girl, well... that makes me purr:
https://fetlife.com/groups/22735/group_posts/174434…
For me, it depends on the person I am playing with and I will tailor it for them, but the thing to remember is, I AM IN CONTROL. That is what it is for me, CONTROL. I am a Control Freak, that might mean bed times, what to wear or eat, and even when to stand in the corner on cam with me watching when I want. It's my way, not yours. I like to see you squirm, I like to see the battle between slut & woman and I will always encourage 'nasty slut' to win.
I love 'CUNT BUSTING' from slapping, spanking, clit biting, clit teasing with a feather for extensive periods, deep heat play, stinging nettles play through to kicking a girl in the cunt as she looks me in the yet knowing it is coming:
https://fetlife.com/groups/22735/group_posts/977736…
Everything I do though, is about the mind. The physical for me is not about pain, it is about having her mind in turmoil and I just LOVE THAT!!!
You want an example, well... go read this:
https://fetlife.com/groups/22735/group_posts/977702…
I will admit now, I love CP. I love tying a girl on to one of my benches and giving her CP (my favourite being a paddling) though I will always stick to her limits. That's important to me.....
I have had live in subs, slave-girls and I am happy to have the same again if the dynamic is right.
As for more about me as a Dominant, well, you will see if you dig more...
[B]As a masochist:[/B]
I have recently discovered I have a small side of me that loves certain things. For a beautiful woman to humiliate me in private (when in that head space) can be very hot, ranging from forced poppers intox, humiliation etc...
This is new, I am not ashamed of it and had little of it so far... It's more fun and play than anything heavy and no, I could never sub. I call it my 'kink release' side.
I will say though, the idea of cuckoldry in a stable relationship is very very hot and something I will experience at some stage, as I will with chastity and orgasm denial on me. I mean, is there anything hotter? I can't think of much...
All in all, I am just a massive pervert. I am very willing to try most things and love talking about it. I love my sexual mind and if you get to know me, you'll love that too as well as my ability to be a good loyal friend.
I will finish with this. I am recently single, and through that and some experiences with so called friends I have learnt a lot about myself. I am always trying to grow and continue to do so. I have been very opinionated in the past, still am now but am much more level headed and chilled. I do expect honesty and will give it fully in return. Simply, we are here to have fun and to be open. I am single and if the right girl came along, I'd snap her up tomorrow, but that's not my aim. Well, not ultimately :-)
Please don't think if we play, or I Dom you that means I want a relationship. Too many have felt rejected in the past from this and I do make this clear. If I like you and there is a connection, I'll tell you. But for now, I want to be me and have fun.
I want fun, friends and people to enjoy company with. Whatever happens happens...
[B]CMUK[/B]
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