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Another update because people seem to struggle with the concept...
ANGEL AND I HAVE SPLIT UP... I AM NOW A SINGLE MAN
So why should I hang on to this profile now I am single again??? Simply because I am a Yorkshireman and I will not waste money on the fees to change from couple back to single!!!
I shall remove the references to being a couple and replace them with details of my former single guy's profile, which some of you may recognize anyway!
I am predominantly "dom" but can switch where appropriate for the right person/people, tho I should point out that switching is NOT a deal-breaker, so should be seen as more of an optional extra, rather than "fitted as standard!"
Similarly, even tho I identify as a Daddy Dom (ie the carrot, rather than the stick!) I know that the overtones of do creep out some people... as above this should be regarded as an optional extra rather than "fitted as standard" (again!!!)
But in keeping with my "walking bundle of contradictions" theme I feel honour-bound to point out that I DO have a dark side to contrast with the Daddy side.
Within those constraints I love to be as adventurous/perverted/creative as possible. Trying to characterize myself for potential playmates/fuckbuddies/lovers/partners is extremely difficult for a multi-faceted enigma such as I. (And if you know where that reference comes from, we should really be talking!)
For the most part I am dominant... but much of this dominance is based on supporting and nurturing a sub. So in this way I identify with a "daddy." However for those of you who are a little off-put by the tones of family fun, you might want to think of me as a "teacher."
So this is my dilemma... I like to be dominant 95% of the time, but does my love of oral mean that I am in fact a switch...??? or a slutty dom...??? or am I topping from the bottom, or subbing from the top or what...???
Confused...??? All will be revealed in this next episode of Soap...
Furthermore, I would tend to identify as a bit of a geek or a nerd, or maybe just as "quirky." But not in a Sheldon Cooper socially inept kind of way... It just means I tend to like some of the things one would associate with that kind of person... yes a smattering of sci-fi and fantasy (but no, not Star Trek {altho I do like the new films}) So you see how hard this is for me when I am quite clearly a walking bundle of contradictions!
Maybe I should have chosen the name Confused.... or Geeky Daddy.... or Hedonist, or some such... all can apply at one time or another!
One thing I [I]CAN[/I] say with certainty tho; I am not (and have an intense dislike of,) the kind of guy who uses violence and misogyny masquerading as dominance to get his jollies... merely using the cloak of BDSM as an excuse for abuse, and abusive behaviour...
Connection connection CONNECTION, to paraphrase someone some time ago.
Whatever or whoever you seek in this lifestyle, (Dom, sub, Daddy, lil, Master or Mistress... whatever,) you will only find it when you make that connection with someone.
[COLOR orange][B]"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone....
.... we find it with another."[/B][/COLOR]
Thomas Merton
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Mijn Ideale Persoon:
So what kind of person am I seeking??? A subbie??? a lil??? A slut??? A switch???
Well could be any or all of the above at one time or another... That's the trouble with labels, they are so restrictive. And sometimes they can be taken as derogatory when no offence is meant... In fact sometimes the exact opposite is meant!
But I would welcome contact from anyone who wishes to explore her deepest, darkest feelings about pervery and kink!
As a guide, anyone who strikes any kind of chord with any of the following random likes, dislikes and the ensuing quotes should get in touch....
Likes: Laughing til you cry, Anything by Joss Whedon, Fizzy drinks (not the diet versions, hence the slight spreading arouind the middle!) Classic Rock, Candles, Castles, Secluded Cottages, Secret Rooms, Mountains, (Love visiting my friends in Scotland...)Forests, Lakes, the Ocean, (water in general in fact!) Beaches (not the film, the sandy bits near the ocean,) Dolphins, Indian/Chinese/Mexican food, seafood, fresh fruit, picnics, the paranormal, "other-worldly" phenomena, alternative therapies etc, and above all else... those "connections..."
Dislikes: Dishonesty, Sprouts, Ignorance, Turnip, Bigotry, Fat on meat, People who lack the most basic bodily hygiene
And now, some random (and maybe not-so random) quotes which I hope will give some indication of my nature, and just how difficult it has been to sum myself up in so few words...(yes really!!!)
"When a woman submits to a man, it's the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honour that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It's his sworn duty to protect, honour and cherish his submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put his own needs above his woman's is no man."
Maya Banks
"We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness...and call it true love."
Robert Fulghum.
"I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts & I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me & my name will soon be forgotten, but I've loved another with all my heart and soul, & to me, this has always been enough"
Nicholas Sparks.
"A friend is someone who knows all about you... and still loves you."
Elbert Hubbard.
"Every man dies.
Not every man really lives."
William Wallace.
Life is far too important to be taken seriously.
Tomorrow, I'm giving up procrastination!
Making one person smile can change the world – maybe not the whole world, but their world.
It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do.
Isaac Asimov
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