Interesting: I am the last person on earth I would consider as slave or sub material and yet the constant flow of invites and flirts from 'bad ass' doms is amusing but annoying.
I am at best a switch and frankly I switch rarely and ONLY with those I trust implicitly. Guess what - chances are pretty good YOU aren't on that list!
The best description for who I am is as a Sensual Sadist. My sexual appetite does include the odd school girl outfit and I dearly love the feel of a cane or strap across my tingling cheeks but I believe turn about is fair play and I also enjoy the feel of sliding my hand along a pair of trembling ass cheeks - right before I strap/cane/flog or bare handed spank them. And then of course there is a plethora of insertable toys I enjoy employing.
I've had the dubious pleasure of meeting a couple of so-called doms lately whose only real claim to fame was their ability to sucker some poor deluded female into thinking that an inadequacy on his part was somehow their fault. Seriously guys - work out your issues with a therapist before you come sniffing around me. What I'll offer isn't considered conventional therapy.
I like a partner who is creative, can actually kiss without me wanting to get a mop or a breath mint, who is capable of self-control (quick-draw boys need read no further), and one who can engage in intelligent conversation about interests other than his dick/her tits or latest hairdo.
I haven't found a boundary I'm not willing to cross yet, I definitely enjoy the BDSM lifestyle - and switch as the mood strikes me. Gender preference - none. Both men and women have qualities that I find attractive.
I like the smell of a good cigar, the taste of a good scotch and a better bourbon. I like a man in a suit, I enjoy the feel of a man's dress shirt when I am otherwise naked (or in heels and stockings). Of course, I think anyone looks sexy when they are naked in an oversized men's dress-shirt - men or women of all sizes.
FYI - If you and I have not chatted there is no way I will accept a friend request. Talk to me - show some level of intelligence and creativity in your profile (and seriously - dick pics on their own are NOT creative) and drop me an email - let me know who you are before you invite me to be your friend.
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My Ideal Person:
High energy level / open minded; bi/bi-curious; a great sense of humour and an appreciation for a strong work ethic.
When it comes to age, I like men and women in my own age range. Frankly, 'youngins' need not apply. You aren't as interesting as you think you are. Really!
I PREFER men older than myself who are comfortable with their age, their aging and not afraid of celebrating the changes and challenges that come with age. Someone foolish enough to describe themselves as XXyrs young is merely a sad case and a waste of time to me. I am gleefully turning 50 this year and I wouldn't change a minute of how I got here!
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