我的理想對象:
In the long term, I need to be in control, preferably in a lot of control
I would prefer to negotiate a poly situation together with my sub/slave, but I may be open to a monogamous relationship for a period.

Till I find the one, I enjoy dating and playing in many types of BDSM sessions.
From toping , to dominating and humiliating to negotiating almost any type of session. I have my 'twins', a pair of beautiful thuddy floggers, and I love to use them and to occasionally bring a girl to sub-space.
I also like to participate in play parties and of course munches.
I'm learning the ropes safely (shibari) and I have some gear.

I play safe, sane and consensual, but I will also do consensual non-consent.

My other side, also comes out occasionally and likes to bottom, in a foot fetish or body worship session with an adorable leggy lady for example.

A BASIC thing I expect from you is sincerity and openness. If you are married or have a boyfriend I may be willing to give it a try, if there is sincere potential for becoming mine in the future. On the other hand, if you intend to lie to me there is no reason to start anything. I am decent and open and I do not tolerate drama, games and secret agendas.

ATTENTION: If you are lying about your country and you are actually from Africa, especially Nigeria and Ghana, DO NOT contact me, or DO NOT answer my message. You will be reported as a scammer and a gold-digger. STAY AWAY

DISCLAIMER: I DO NOT LIVE IN HERE. Alt is a way for initial communication. After a few messages for both of us to weed out the obvious bad apples, I expect to take our talk out of here, to get to know each other.
I may get involved in an online thing if that's what we can have TILL we meet each other. But the only meaningful goal is to meet and physically enjoy what BDSM is.