Here are my thoughts on being a Daddy.
First and foremost, I provide for and protect my little girl. I treat her well and keep her safe at all times. Above and beyond that, I provide guidance to her to help her become a better person and maximize her potential. I determine what her strengths and weaknesses are. I make her aware of her strengths and give her confidence to use those strengths appropriately. I also make her aware of her weaknesses and provide guidance about how to overcome those weaknesses and, at times, even turn those weaknesses into strengths.
So what do I get out of it? I enjoy the feeling of trust that is given to me to provide that guidance. I like the submission to my authority and wielding my authority in a gentle manner. I love providing rewards. I do have a somewhat different reward system than most, I believe. I try to learn what you like and provide that. I've never encountered a true brat. What everyone else calls a brat, I call a good girl whose needs simply aren't being met. Now, there are some brats who enjoy things that might normally be considered discipline. With me, those are rewards that can be earned through good behavior. Discipline is rare and gentle. If you need to feel like you've misbehaved to earn certain rewards, we can make that happen too. Every woman is different and I love figuring out what makes her tick and finding what makes her eyes roll back in her head.
I'm intellectual but outgoing. I can make friends with anybody. I enjoy nerdy stuff like flying drones, 3D printing, and building computers. I also like wood and soft metal working to design and build physical objects. I brew my own beer and fly airplanes.
I am married and it is ENM. She's got her own things that she likes to pursue. It was actually her idea to become poly.
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理想の相手:
I'm looking for someone with a decent head on her shoulders. I think the most important sexual organ is the one between your ears. The particular size and shape of the others is secondary. I can carry on a decent conversation about a wide variety of topics. You don't have to be Mensa-level smart, just be an interesting and fun person to hang out with outside the bedroom. Obviously, the type of relationship I'm looking forward to doesn't fit into a one night stand scenario at all.
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