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[COLOR deeppink][SIZE 2][I]"I Prefer Mature Experienced and Hot to Young, Inexperienced and Stupid"[/I][/SIZE].
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I'm JoEllen, a T-Girl, a pre-op transgender female (m-f), born with boy parts where my girl parts should have been. My mind, soul, personality and all other non-physical attributes are, and have always been female. I'm simply correcting what can only be described as a serious birth defect. I understand from other wiser, more experienced kinksters that I would be considered a submissive. Apparently, due to my likes and certain fantasies, I am also a little girl. I have begun to realize that I have a good many BDSM fantasies. For the longest of times I was pretty convinced I was one sick kitty . . . that is, until recently when I found that so many of the thoughts and feelings I've kept hidden for so long are, in fact, pretty vanilla. I had no idea I was so ordinary. I was both relieved and disappointed, at the same time. You can't have everything, right? Currently and for the past couple of years I have been on massive doses of hormones and powerful androgen blockers. It is my full intention to follow through with all transition surgeries, including the big one where they swap out my boy parts, which seem to be steadily getting smaller as things progress. A fair trade, as I see it. I've discovered too, that these changes do not necessarily exclude me from playing with girls, if they're open-minded and are really sexually aware and open to different ways of approaching things. It plays out mostly just like any other girl on girl scenario. So, I'm cautiously stumbling forward, toward the unknown (at least, unknown to me). It would be wonderful to make an 'actual' friend or two here. If you should happen to see me fall, I would appreciate you extending a hand to help me up.
[I][SIZE 2][COLOR deeppink]"INTELLIGENCE IS THE MOST POWERFUL APHRODISIAC . . . AND WHEN COMBINED WITH A SENSE OF HUMOR, IT'S ABSOLUTELY IRRESISTIBLE"[/COLOR][/SIZE][/I]
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My Ideal Person:
is Open-minded, Gentle, Kind, Loving and non-judge-mental . . . and able to have a conversation with me that has structure and substance and which does not necessarily have a sexual component. Not saying sex isn't possible, it is but, it shouldn't be the only song you can sing. Please, no blind dates - you must have face pictures and also - please, no one-night stands and no quickies. I have long believed that I have outgrown the transient and the temporary, meaning that I would prefer something with a future. Relationship-wise, I have much to offer the right man, if he exists. If you believe that it is you and you're out there and also longing for something tangible and real, please, come and find me!
Addendum: I do realize that due to the nature of the site, most will not be interested in that long term vision. Still, as a woman I DO continue to have needs and those needs must be met and satisfied, and since they must, I am still looking for a good clean skilled man of passion to regularly see to them while of course, having his own needs met to his satisfaction. Ideally, he should be both open to and desirable of a friendship. After all, caring breeds passion and passion makes for better and more intense orgasms, does it not?
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