Sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me. So, push me down and tie me up, and show me that you like me. lol - this rhyme was lovingly stolen from Ms Ruby, because it's easier to ask forgiveness than for permission.
BBW, DWF, 2 (1 grown/launched, 1 mostly grown/on the cusp of launching), no pets (but if I HAD to, it would be a cat). Full-time employed professional, live in an apartment with youngest . Easy going, reserved but friendly disposition, engaging personality. Honest, sarcastic, clever, intelligent, courteous, slightly awkward in social situations. Loyal to a fault, eternally optimistic, but occasionally prone to somber bouts of introspection. Physically, my best features are my long, curly, mostly dark brown, mane of hair, my deep green eyes, and a lovely large behind.
Vanilla interests include, but not limited to:
Reading, museums, zoos, gardens, amusement parks, exploring quirky, interesting neighborhoods (Heights, Montrose, Memorial, Upper Kirby, River Oaks and the like), book stores, antique shops, vintage and thrift shops, and flea markets. I also enjoy playing pool, listening to live bands, and singing karaoke.
Musically, I prefer classic rock (aka cock-rock, mullet-rock, power ballads, arena-rock) – if it’s from the 70-80’s, I’m all about it; but I have been known to enjoy jazz, blues, some classical (Tchaikovsky, Chopin, Mozart), current pop and older folk music. Strongly dislike country, , musicals and most opera.
I wish I knew how to dance (the cupid-shuffle doesn’t count, right?). I’m also interested in learning how to shoot and maintain a gun, defend myself, scuba dive, skydive, sew, make candy, knit, do basic carpentry, do basic car repairs, camp without dying in the wilderness, and play a guitar.
I lead a reasonably quiet life. I’m just as happy chillin’ with Netflix as I am with having a full itinerary of events for any given weekend. My tastes lean toward sci-fi, dystopian, action, the occasional chick-flick, social-conscious/awareness, dramas, and cult-classics. I enjoy dining out and consider myself an amateur foodie, always up for trying something new and interesting. Spicy food is welcome, no matter what ethnicity of fare it is.
I’m something of a reformed recluse, having spent most of the past decade going to work-home, finishing my degree, raising my , rinse-repeat, and not much else. Since moving to Houston April 2015, I decided to do something about that…and found myself on Fet, with friends, a social life, attending classes, munches, parties, etc., broadening my horizons, learning, growing, reaching out and connecting with the best people I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing.
I am always up for a great conversation, debate and true friendships. Please feel free to reach out. I get along best with people who have a positive attitude, and easy smile, a good sense of humor, and have at least one thing in their lives that they totally geek-out over. I am a massive geek. I love Harry Potter, LOTR, American Horror Story, Supernatural (brownie points if you do too), Firefly, Star Wars, Star Trek, The Chronicles of Thomas Covenant…the list goes on.
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My Ideal Person:
I am attracted to highly intelligent men who, like me, are ambitious, successful and very much an Alpha Dom between the ages of 40 and 60-ish. He will not be intimidated by a submissive who is very strong-willed in nature. Someone with a sense of humor is a must, as is someone discerning enough to know that my sarcasm is never mean spirited and that the more I employ it, the more I like you. I am not looking for some casual hookup or one-night stand.
On the other side of the coin, the quickest way to shut me down or set me off is to barge into my inbox with your dick or your fetish in hand. Kindly remember, I'm a human being just like you, and if you wouldn't say it to my face in a public venue, or want someone speaking that way to your mother, sister, daughter, (you get my point), it's likely that it's not the right thing to say to me in a message. Show some self control, have self respect, and get to know me if you want to stand even the slightest chance of seeing a positive outcome.
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