I am in search of a man between the ages of 45-54 who is into the BDSM lifestyle that I am into, but is not into lots of pain or torture. But into bondage and stuff that Christian Grey was.in too in the books. I am looking for an LTR and possibly more. I am not into mind games or any games at all. Serious men and local men apply.
My Ideal Person:
I have been in the lighter side of BDSM for over 12 years now, and am in search of a real dom or master who live in Northern Virginia, or in the District of Columbia and they are willing to come and be in an LTR with me and to share in my life as well as I in theirs...to have a "vanilla" relationship outside of the home, but to have "interesting, kinky and sexual relationship" inside the home.
Trust factor is the key to any relationship whatsoever and to have that when you start with someone is very crucial. Also to be able to compromise on things as well when they are called for.
Also I do not like "games" that people play, such as mind games or mental games or teasing against other people games.
If you are still interested in becoming my dom/master, please SERIOUS and REAL men need apply. Thanks so much.