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After stepping away from BDSM for a couple of years for personal reasons, I’m ready to resume my place as a Domme in the community. I have over ten years of experience, and I was a member of alt.com for several years until I found the right submissive to offer my collar.
I’ve Topped a wide range of submissives. I owned a collared submissive for several years, but regretfully she decided to leave the community and requested release.
I’m honest, respectful, careful, smart, have a good sense of humor when things don’t go according to plan, patient and caring. I’m also determined, strict, expect obedience, and despise constant SAMs.
First, the annoying but necessary physical requirements. No one who is overly skinny or truly obese should bother applying. In simplistic terms, too skinny is when ribs and shoulder blades stick out and stomach sinks in, and too obese is a "fat apron" (not just some sag). Impeccable cleanliness is a must. Age doesn’t matter as long as you are older than at least 23 - and I prefer upper 20s or older. Other than that, general looks don’t matter if you meet my needs.
I’m looking for a FEMALE submissive.
I will never find the “perfect” submissive, of course! There’s no such thing, either Dominant or submissive. There are no “true” Dominants or submissives, either.
I respect privacy. However, there is a difference between privacy and secrecy. I’m not interested in meeting with you if you must hide your involvement in BDSM by avoiding having even mild bruises, welts or other marks. If you'll never want more than to have your ass cheeks pink, we're not a match.
You must be honest, respect privacy, keep your word, be respectful, and be very submissive. Note again: I despise constant SAMs. Being high spirited at times is fine, but if you disobey, insult or struggle against a Dominate in the name of being a "challenge," you aren't the submissive for me.
You're already at least a somewhat heavy player. Better yet, you're a submissive who is not but wants to be slowly pushed to explore how deep into pain she can go. I won’t rush into anything, no matter what is your level of experience. I’ll start slowly with you since I am developing your trust in me and my abilities. There is a breaking in period for both of us, getting to know one another. I need to test and judge your reactions to various implements and activities. I want to know what happens at lighter levels to judge what will be most effective at deeper levels. I need to know how your mind reacts as much as I need to know how your body reacts.
I don’t do blood, urine, scat, breath control, or anything that would have a risk of significant injury. I do expect, once we've developed the appropriate level of trust, that I’ll leave some marks on you such as bruises and/or welts.
Health issues always matter. Some may preclude a match, others may simply require awareness and adaptability. A submissive with bad knees may not be able to kneel before me, but she can sit on a stool lower than than my chair.
Although I expect obedience, any general service from you is negotiable and depends a great deal on your individual desire to serve.
FEMALE submissives are welcome to contact me via email, or, if you're shy, winks. I don't consider it inappropriate for you to express an interest in me or what I've said in my profile. However, if it's porn or a request for porn or cyber, that IS very inappropriate and frankly, low class.
I know it does no good to say this, but NO MALE NEED APPLY. It doesn’t matter how you plead your case. You are no exception. It’s wasted time. I don’t cyber, and I’ll never scene with you.
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