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What I seek is a female sub/slave. Good humoured and good natured, she is playful and mischievous, and can experience joy and pleasure from even the simplest things.
However, she knows when a situation calls for seriousness, though she will be quick to smile again after. She is open minded, and can appreciate the opinions of others as well as contribute her own. In this sense, she is intelligent. I don't need someone who knows the entire periodic table and atomic masses, but someone who can at least carry out a conversation, I'm not looking for a doormat. She understands that even in 24/7, fantasy is more often than not, pushed aside by the intrusion of reality.
Chains and collars, all manner of erotic pleasures are good, but at some stage someone needs to go and pay the bills. Even when she isn't in a collar, even when she isn't by my side, she knows my love for her, my gentle control and can feel wanted, owned and safe, as a prized possession. She is not necessarily experienced, but there is always fun to be had in the training process.
Even with the things she has already experienced, she understands that sometimes my ways will differ, and she is able to learn and adapt. But she is an eager student and will do well, and she knows that as with any relationship, it will always be a learning process, I will be learning alongside her, I'm of the belief that there's always something new I can learn. She knows which tasks I set and expect her to achieve, and which ones I set to help her learn and grow. But she also knows which ones I create that are deliberately unachievable, simply because at that time I require something in particular from her.
These might be imaginative thinking, to explore new directions and boundaries, or simply because I'm in a playfully sadistic mood and she is set up to fail, but she goes at each with equal enthusiasm because I have asked of her. She knows the most important things are honesty, trust and communication. I value honesty very highly, and she will always be honest in all things in the relationship, no matter the consequences. Just as I will always be honest with her. With these three things comes respect, for why would I own someone I had no respect for?
Likewise, obviously, I would not wish to own someone who had no respect for me. Respect is also something earned, not something taken.
To me she is beautiful, and to hell with society's standards. She is not someone who spends every spare moment out partying. She is probably happier sitting quietly with a book or watching a movie. (or curled on her Master’s lap while her Master strokes the pretty pets hair) Kisses and cuddles feature just as well as spankings and she knows its all part of what makes our relationship.
We both also understand this will be a relationship of our own devising; with compromise and negotiations along the way. 24/7 r/l, though lovely and ideal will not necessarily happen, and things may need to be restructured along the way.
For the right girl, this can happen.
Myself, I'm considerate, imaginative, and have my own opinions (though I do love to hear those opinions of others) and could probably talk the legs off three chairs and a goat (not necessarily in that order) so value a good conversation.
I like to think I have a good sense of humour (I can laugh at myself at least) I'm a gentle, patient, loving person, I am reasonable and understanding.
I'm a Dom who would fit into the category of nurturing teacher type. I know what I want though, and find pleasure in being able to guide my sub towards these ends.
Probably one of the most important things (which goes hand in hand with honesty) I do ask a lot of questions. There are a lot of players out there, and after a while it makes you a little cynical, a little jaded. So be prepared that if we do start a "get to know you" I will ask quite a bit.
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理想の相手：
Think to yourself that you probably sound very good so I'm just making sure. If you do read what I have written here, and would still like to reply, here are some things to get you started. Tell me about yourself, obviously. You could tell me what you have read that has interested you and why.
Maybe you could tell me what you are looking for. Your experience, your age, your interests (both in fantasy and everyday reality) or none of these and just go with what you feel easiest with. Though something written that's unique and interesting, thinking outside the square for something unusual and different may get me very interested, doesn't mean I won't consider the everyday ordinary replies either.
And remember, there is loads of time to get to know each other, there is no time limit or rush here.
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