Seeking a relationship-minded respectful gentleman within my local area (hour drive max) I am a sensualist, hedonist, submissive with a strong mind and smarts. Come with respect while communicating with me. A shame I must state this. We all have our kinks, but, I expect to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation, too. *Updated 3-15-16*
I do not fit into a cookie cutter mold. I have a life long interest in BDSM, but seek more of a sensual/mind connection. I do not relish markings on my body and 3 weeks worth of pain. I adore sensation play, impact play & bondage. Although I am open to a man that is also open to me being with him and another man I would want an established secure relationship first. And, yes, with the right connection/partner I can be very much monogamous. Communication is paramount.
Please be well spoken, have smarts, a nice voice, professional, well-mannered & within the approximate age range of 38-52. If you are well below or well above that age range I would not be comfortable with that.
I crave good chemistry & attraction. I love anticipation. I love the build of it. I adore the long slow process that leads to one revelation after another; physical, mental and emotional. Willing to try new things & explore. I don't just 'hook up'. There must be intimacy.
For me, the mind is sexy, but there must be chemistry. I am not typically attracted to a very thin guy nor one whom is extremely obese...so somewhere in between.
I am considered an attractive,girl next door type of look, sensual SWF, 5'5", very fair skin, pretty feet/hands & killer smile, no tattoos/piercings, dark brown shoulder length hair, blue eyes, have curves/thick...definitely not Barbie material...lol (about a size 12), have hips, thighs, not married, no (do not want any, but ok if you do), independent, great conversationalist...bonus if you're witty and can banter well.
\\\\\\***I will notsend more photos to you, but, I am sincere in my efforts and will meet in person after a mutually established connection. Yes, I have met others on here before and yes, I have made friends on here. Again, I do not 'hook up'.
My ideal match knows how to touch softly/gently/tease, but combine that with some spanking, bondage, edging, impact, sensation play. I love a lot of nipple & clit play (have pencil eraser nipples & enjoy clit pumping) I am very much open to exploring & he is, too.
Be respectful. I am more than just my kinks. I have a mind and also enjoy good conversation and communication outside of that.
If you do not have a profile filled out I more than likely will not respond...unless you email your profile to me that isn't posted on here.
Best to you on your search and I hope each person finds what they are seeking. :)
\\\\\\*** while here, I am also open to creating new friendships with either men or women, especially in my surrounding local area. So, even if we aren't a match, maybe we can have a friendship with a common interest.
...connect with my mind and the rest will follow
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Updated Profile. Please see my about me section on here.
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