A collection of the ways I want to feel, and things I find super hot
Sapiosexual, Sane, safe, consensual. GGG. Special guest stars are fun sometimes. TRYsexual ;)
[U][B]Vanilla life:[/B][/U]
You wouldn't know I was kinky, but would know that I'm very open minded and into the off beat.
After 10 years of throwing events and being my own boss, I now have a really serious finance job. Life is interesting..
I race sailboats and like opera but also the most joyfully debauched situations I can find or create.
I'm pretty great at social alchemy when I'm in the right mood.
[U]Behind closed doors:[/U]
I tend to be a bit more dominant with woman, but in a very measured way. Switch or sometimes just moderately vanilla with men but frequently fall squarely into the assertive category. I have loved subbing in situations where I know I'm in tender and expert hands of someone I trust. I can't really turn it on or off, it's just how the chips fall when we meet and size each other up. (unless you are very very clever, and you know how to subtly get me into that head space where I'm struck by surprise at wanting to defer to you? In that case, cheers to you! I'm impressed! yum)
[if254 1]
My Ideal Person:
Is not plagued with peter pan syndrome, but does like spontaneity and mischief. likes trying out all sorts of activities and toys, GGG.
Has an attention to detail that pervades all parts of life and wants to figure out how things work. Likely working on several projects with the sort of diligent patience that would baffle most people. (This may mean figuring out how to repair a clock, a company, the personality type is pretty much the same.) Understands the power of making someone feel safe and comfortable.
[B]Extra bonus points if you are any of the following: - A sailor - an awesome partner in crime - Bi - Familiar with Kraftwerk and seminal Detroit techno classics - into wine or horseback riding - Not going to expect me to pretend to be interested in sports - Someone who enjoys recreating with the fun kind of weirdos
(Pro Tip: I don't have any expectations of you, so, please don't set expectations unless you are going to follow through. That is the fastest way to make me not take you seriously. seriously.)
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