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I am a man with excellent manners and social skills. I was raised to be a gentleman; open doors, pull out chairs, offer her my jacket when shes cold and send her flowers to work. Im considered very attractive, intelligent, witty, caring and c_r_e_a_t_i_v_e by all who know me. Im well groomed, clean, DDF, financially, emotionally, and mentally stable gentleman. I'm adventurous, humorous, and compassionate and dedicated to my slave. I have a strong sense of who I am and I know what I want and were I'm going with my life. Good conversation, willingness to play and act silly, being romantic are extremely important to me. After all the kinky sex; after all the paddling and whipping; after all the ropes and chains we need to be able to talk and enjoy each other in the vanilla world. Be it playing Scrabble or spending time on the porch swing watching the sunset. I understand the nuances of the dance between Master and his submissive. I understand the difference between domination and domineering, sexual power and sexual abuse. I know that BDSM and sex are not the same and don't always have to go together. I love being flirtatious, charming and moderately sadistic at home and in public. I like D/s to be infused into everyday activities, as it is part of the joy in my life. I believe trust, respect, admiration are the building blocks to a strong relationship. But it's the honesty and communication that are the cement that holds them together. If I have to lie, deceive or refuse to discuss then trust goes followed by admiration and finally respect for me is gone. I enjoy a stimulating conversation with my slave, making her laugh, smile and cum; as well as beg and cry. I am not a deep masochist, but giving my slave a little pain gets me hard. I have no problem exerting control over whatever situation we are involved in despite the mood you might be in. I guide your training with patients and compassion. Im consistent in my orders, needs and actions, not wishy-washy. Over the years Ive learn to be in control of my emotions and I take pride in the fact I dont lose my temper and I dont punish my slave when Im angry or upset. The only time Im not in a DOMINATE mode is when Im sick. The only time you will be allowed not in a totally submissive mode is when youre sick or family is over. When you are sick you will know that you are loved by the caring and nurtured way I tend to you. From the onset of our relationship I will keep in mind your real needs and pace, while I push you to the edge of your levels both mentally & physically. I will learn to read your body/reactions, (and see into your soul), and knows when to push and when Ive pushed enough for that play time. I know there will be levels you will need more training for to get past but past you will achieve. I will go as slow as you need and spend lots of time getting to know each other. Learning what makes you tick and teaching you what makes me tick. Im patient and genuinely affectionate but Im not into being lovers, I want a slave not a girl friend. I will love you, be in love with you, romance you and be very affectionate with you. The last word will always be mine. If I say we are going out to Mexican restaurant then thats were we are going. If I ask you were you would like to eat its not me being less dominate just seeing to your needs. If you were my girl friend and you said I dont know, then I say how about Mexican and you say no not Mexican, then I say well how about Chinese and you say no not that. See that shit sucks; if I ask you will pick some places or I will. If we go some were and you want to dance and I dont; as a Master I can say no as a boy friend I would have to say yes. If I wanted to dance and you didnt; as a Master I would say to bad your dancing with me as a boy friend I would just have to suck it up and not get to dance. Once we are established I rule by micro management; Im very explicit with my instructions and control. Artful humiliation and discreet public exposure of my slave excite me. Micro management is nothing more then being very clear on what I want and dont want from what you wear to how you act and interact. As you learn what is pleasing and pleasurable to me less and less management is needed. Rather than define myself by saying what I like and don't like, it is more whatever works best between my slave and I. I love lots of thing and I dont expect my slave to love them all, so I like to incorporate the ones she enjoys with the ones I enjoy so we both are satisfied at the end of the day. I only have a handful of needs that I have to have and even some of them can be learned over time by my slave.
My sexual drive is such a big part of me and I love controlling and using my slave's body. It's a rare event that I'm soft and gentle in the bedroom. I want and need to use my slave any time, any place and in any way I choose. Sometimes I like another women, couple or group of men involved with my slave. I'm a fan of things oral and anal, with a bit of role playing/spanking/correction when necessary.
In the vanilla world my interest and experiences cover a large range as my BDSM. I love the outdoors; camping, hiking, canoeing, boating, ATVs, hunting and I love horses. In the arts I enjoy museums, art galleries, exhibitions, plays, dinner theaters, and zoos. Im very active in my local community helping organizations that make life better for (4-H, Boy scouts, Boys&Girls Club and coaching baseball). I love going on drawn carriages rides through the down town water fountains. Im always up for a rode trip be it to Arizona for the hot air balloons rides or S. Carolinas pumpkin chucking fair. I like to visit an amusement park several times a year if possible. Time at home in each others arms watching TV works great for me. Board games, card games or watching the fire flys at night works for me.
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My Ideal Person:
What I seek may take a very long time to find. I need a woman that can function in the real world as well as ours. She must want to be dominated, humiliated, degraded, used and controlled. She must understand for me I must balance the relationship; so I mix love, passion, laughter, flirtation, kisses and hugs with the rest of it. Just like the point of your orgasm I love mixing pain with pleasure at the right levels for both of us. She is strong in spirit which is also part of my attraction to her. You remember the Movie "Moonlighting" that tit for tat and the banter that went on between them. I love a slave that keeps me on my toes and trys to tease me as much as I do her. She will know when enough is enough and its time to lower her head in submission and then only speak when talked too. She might sneak up behind me and use the paddle on my butt and order me to submit while trying to keep a straight face. She knows I'm going to grab her and been her over my lap and use the paddle on her. The fun part is she doesn't know if I will paddle her hard, soft or some where in between. I might throw her over my shoulder and carry her to the bedroom. I might pen her down on the floor and spend the next 5 minutes kissing her neck, ears and lips getting her all hot and bothered. Then leave her on the floor wet and horny not knowing when or if Ill give her relief. She can think for herself, carry a conversation or change a flat if she needs too. At heart she is a slave who offers her deep submission only after I have proven my worth. She's happiest when she's control by her special Master. Joy in life for her comes from obeying, pleasuring and spoiling the man she loves and trust, in all ways possible. She takes pride in her appearance, dressing and acting in any form or fashion her Master asks of her. She loves to grace his side and have him look at her with pride. She understands our relationship is deeper then most and is founded on symbiosis. You feed off my control and I feed off your submission. You must meet my needs and wants and I must see that your needs and wants are met as well. The bondage, Ds and kink we experience together is just some of the things we share to deepen our bond. You want to be my property and I must strive to show you how much I value you over anything or anybody.
Ok enough with the words what am I really looking for? Age, height, weight and breast size, hair length or hair color are not major biggies. Neither is eye or skin color or education level. Age for me is your maturity level, height if you tall we dance eye to eye and if youre short its easy for me to throw you over my shoulder and carry you off. I havent been having sex on a daily basis so I'm not at my ideal weight either. I can promise you we will lose weight together and while our bodies wont grace any magazines we will still turn each others head. I prefer hair length down to your nipples; just long enough to pull and play with and not so much that you spend all day caring for it. I love all colors of hair from raven black to fiery red to platinum blonde. I love tan lines, manicured nails and expensive perfume. If your breast isnt D cup or better we can always get them enhance to make you look more seductive in a low cut dress. Speaking of dresses, I love having you spend most of the time in dress and heels. Thus your legs and ankles should be sexy to me. Hats, gloves, silk and lace oh my, stocking, heels and garters oh my my. While I cant afford the clothes and jewelry like in the movie Pretty Woman I still love seeing you dressed well and looking sexy. She doesnt have to be multi-orgasmic but its a plus. She doesnt have to be bisexual but she must at least be bi-curious for I love the time spent with two women from time to time. She doesnt have to enjoy being used by couples or groups of men but must understand from time to time she will be. She has to be able to wear many different hats. To night it might be to a concert or dinner theater. She would be expected to dress and act like a million; a doctors trophy wife. Next weekend might be a trip in the back woods on our ATV's camping and canoeing. Even in her shorts and hiking boots I can't keep my hands off her and when camp is setup then we have time to play; I can't wait to tie you to a tree. When we do things with vanilla friends or family we come across as the perfect couple; either as host or visitors we are well dressed and well mannered. They never caught me fingering you off when we where behind the counter carrying on a normal conversation with them. They didn't see us sneak into the bathroom or the back of the house were we took a few minutes to ourselves so you could suck me off. I need a woman who is a slave or a sub who can become my slave for the right Master. As my slave she knows that being a pleasure slave, sex toy slut is what makes me happy. She is someone who loves sex as much as I do. I'm not saying every weekend is going to involve other people; be a gang bang, swing parties or time at adult book stores and glory holes. I love time with just me and my slave; there are a ton of activities and adventures I want to do with just my slave. Be it wine by the fire place or bubble baths by candle light; in each others arms watching a chick flick all work for me. I look at it as me and my slave against the world, us working together to crave out the life and experience that are important to us.
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