My Ideal Person:
I do have to admit I have a soft spot for tall men, I'm petite, I like feeling little in comparison to my man even with heels on. I'm not interested in anybody over 43 but don't want someone who is 22, not interested in male subs, adult babies, or transvestites either (yes they hit on women too). My ideal person would also post an accurate depiction of themselves as well. I like to think I'm physically fit, all of my pictures are from the last 10 months, and my weight is pretty consistent, I'd prefer someone who is the same. Please do not send me pictures that are 4 years old where you are 50 lbs lighter than what you actually are currently, you will be disappointed and so will I. Also, don't put "Long and Thick" where it asks for endowment if you're really rocking a cocktail weenie, that's just frustrating.

Other than physical qualities, I want someone that is rugged, adventurous, fun, but reliable as well and laughter is crucial, you must have a sense of humor otherwise we won't get along. I'm looking for someone interested in being my dom, who can teach me things I've never even thought of trying before and challenge me both inside and outside the bedroom. I want someone who is a gentleman when he takes me out, but a savage in the sack. What I really need though, is a connection, a feeling of magnetism when I'm around them, a sensation that pulls me to this person on a completely different level. Someone that I can trust absolutely, who can be tender as well as rough and passionate, so I can be comfortable enough to really explore some of my (and their) more dark and hedonistic fantasies.

This might be scary for some men on this site, but hey, "married to a nilla", want me to be "part of their stable", those dudes need not apply. This is my ideal, I have to stress this, I'm not looking for anything serious right away because just like any person I'm not willing to give up the option of dating others unless the other person proves they're worth it. But I want someone that's at least willing to date me, if something deeper comes from that than great.

I'm also not looking for a 24/7 dom/sub relationship, I don't want to have to call you sir in the middle of a restaurant or in front of family or friends, it's awkward. And, give me time please, I'm a novice and I'm still discovering what I am and am not willing to do. For example, it would take time for me to call you sir, master or any such title as it takes time to develop the respect needed to call someone that. When I submit to someone I want it to be honest, it has to happen naturally and can't be forced (at least on an emotional level) otherwise you could make me say whatever you want but I won't feel it. Also, kinky doesn't mean slutty, I'm not big into sending naked pictures of myself until I meet you in person, I don't mind seeing ones of you but it won't be reciprocated until I meet you.

To Combat The Fake Profiles On Here (because I'm actually looking for someone I can meet at some point) And To Avoid Wasting My Time And Yours:
1. You must send at least 3 photographs of yourself taken with the last year before I'll be willing to give you my number. Dick picks don't count unless they include your face.
2. You must be willing to talk to me at least twice on the phone before I meet you, it would also be nice to via video chat as well but not a requirement.
3. If you live within 50 miles of me you must be able to meet me within 2-3 weeks max of first contact. Reason being, if you don't have time for me now, you won't have time for me later.
If you have any other suggestions as to how I can avoid getting catfished (again), please let me know.