La mia persona ideale:
I'm straight... but have now had a couple of experiences exploring sex with another woman. I was very ambivalent about it, but must confess that it wasn't the horrible as I feared it would be and I even enjoyed it a bit.

I am looking to learn more, to explore the lifestyle and discover if I am really the true submissive that I feel in my soul. I would like to meet/communicate with others: subs who are willing to share their feelings about BDSM as well as the benefit of their knowledge and experiences; Doms and/or Masters who are also willing to share their knowledge and experiences with someone eager to learn, helping me to discover (or uncover) the sub buried within.

I would like to try many of the things that I've read about, but admit a good bit of ambivalence. I need someone who will respect my limits - but help be expand my boundaries at the same time. My limited experience has convinced me that I am not into extreme pain, but WANT to give total control to another... and will do almost anything to please that person.

Even though i enjoy giving up control, sensuality - like touching and candles and massage is still very important and foreplay (in whatever form it may take) is a definite requirement!