Ma personne idéale :
My ideal Dominant will be clear in his demands, competent in his role, and communicative with his wants, desires, and rules. He will hold me to high standards & expectations and, equally, hold himself accountable as a Dominant and a man of his word. He will attend to his submissive, with reward, punishment, and demand.

Furthermore, my ideal Dominant would find value in learning his submissive so he can properly train her. My ideal Dominant is able to clearly state what he wants so I can please and serve without confusion or doubt. He would be prepared to train a determined submissive intent on pleasing but untrained and extremely limited in her non-vanilla experience.

I am often feisty and stubborn in other aspects of my life and if I feel a Dominant lacks control or will not hold me accountable, I may challenge his authority (I tend to take leadership when sufficient leadership is not provided or others look to me as a authority figure... but with proper Dominance I am eager to submit and to please!).

I value a man who is a Dominant by nature, not because I submit. I wish to submit to Dominance, I will not submit to a the artificial role played by someone lacking that character.
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My ideal Dominant would be experienced, confident, demanding, communicative, appreciative, competent, and strong.... with a high libido

it's a wonderful, FANTASTIC bonus if he wishes to become more intimate outside the bedroom. i'm scared of it, but want that very much.... but i CAN do with out it too, with the right DOM.

NOTE: If you are married/in an open relationship/"sorta separated"... i do not seek being a +1. I've seriously considered that option (it gives me my space)... but I DO NOT wish to play second string. I'm still hoping for a chance to be the first and only to fiddle and blow (I'm good at it, from what I understand ;-P)