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MAJOR UPDATE: No longer part of a couple. It's just me. Where's the party?
A Sadistic DaddyDom (or at least this one!) is both: unspeakably cruel, and unimaginably loving. Both those may manifest as physical, sexual, emotional, mental, or psychic/spiritual. Often at the same time.
"The measure of a great mind is the ability to hold two diametrically-opposed ideas at the same time and continue to function." -- F. Scott Fitzgerald.
The door is never locked to those within, the key is always within reach of the one shackled, the safe-word is always on the tip of the tongue. And yet, we continue, relentlessly, mercilessly, remorselessly, insatiably....
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me on Instant Messenger -- I promise I'll answer!*
In case this doesn't become clear later on, I want you to cum. A lot. No, a LOT. Silly girl, that's just getting started. As in, so much and so often and so long you can't tell where one stops and the next begins, and then they don't stop.
Putting someone in any condition of restraint or control does not automatically give the restrain-er "dominance," nor does it necessarily render the restrain-ee "submissive." It may make the relationship one of slave/slave-keeper, but it does not of itself confer "mastery."
Dominance and submission are the two sides of a mutual trust in a shared erotic "greater good," and a vision of how to reach that ecstatic state. The most profound submissive is the one who will maintain the disciplined state voluntarily and with no material apparatus at all; and the most profound Dominant is the one who can obtain unconditional consent with nothing more than a glance. It is a dance requiring endless practice.
That said, the aesthetic satisfactions of ropes and chains and leather and silk and Perversion-only-knows-what-else certainly are splendid in their own rite. And the psychological catharsis and fulfillment of genuine fear, pain and surrender are valid passages within the quest for ecstasy.
All paths lead TO Universal Joy. But all paths also lead AWAY FROM it. One must understand which direction one is facing before one hurtles backward -- blindfolded, bound-and-gagged, bruised nether-parts teetering atop or dangling beneath unspeakable objects -- into the Abyss....or before one casts another thusly into that Abyss. (Casting and being cast into the Abyss are also opposite sides of the same coin, as both caster and castee make the same journey.)
"Permanent tire damage may result from approaching obstacles improperly."
Enough cosmology, for the moment.
About me:
Big bear-like creature, looking for late-night/early morning fun in Eastside, North Seattle or North 'Burbs, weekends, possibly some mornings. I can't host; living in a platonic household.
I'm a 60 yo male. I am usually Top/Dom/Daddy/Sadist with a female partner, but that is by no means the limit of my desires and talents. One-on-one, yes! Three-way, yes! Four-way, yes! More-way, yes! Mf, Fm, Mm, Mfm, Mmf, Fmm, FFm, MFMF, MMMf, FFFm, Fmmmmm....all yes. The more-complex algebras, as well: (m)Ff? Oh, yes. (M)mm. Perhaps. (m)Mf. God help me, yes. (m)MMMMMMMf. Gulp; ok? If you can even speculate on those equations meaningfully, you should contact me.
Love spanking a smooth soft bottom barehand, but also have a deep desire to be on the other end of that (paddles etc ok). Just discovered the joys of spanking titties! OMFingG! I get off on ropes and ties and blindfolds. Love toys -- pretty much all of them and everything we can do with them; stretch my, er, imagination! Tickling can be the cruelest agony of all.
Here's one you probably haven't seen before: I get off dressing or wrapping my partner in tinfoil. Yup, how weird is that? Seriously, how weird is that?
Veggies!!! Leather. Lace. Denim.
Enemas? GS? These are an interest.
NO !!!! NO POOP PLAY!!!! NO HUMAN TOILET!!!! NO GARBAGE!!!! NO VERMIN!!!!
And EVERYTHING else can/should/must be open for discussion. EVERYTHING.
Online/phone play are amusing. Real-time active partcipation is my desire.
PENETRATION. Somebody will get something in them. For sure. It will hurt....some. A lot, if needed. A good time will be had by ALL.
Not into severe (debilitating) pain, permanent injury, long-term captivity. But it IS "Sado-Masochism/Bondage&Disciple," for crying out loud! If it doesn't hurt at least a LITTLE, URdoingItWrong!
Safe Words
A master, catastrophic, scene-ending, or collar-ending, no discussion, I'm-out-the-door safe-word is the anvil against which I hammer you. Knowing you have an ultimate safety (verbal and non) actually lets me push you harder! If I do something bad enough for you to decide to end the whole relationship, then, yes, you must have a safe-word for that. But accepting my collar IS your consent in this realm of hard consensual-non-consent.
Your trust, however, is the very life-force pumping me up, and it will always be in my best interest to gain, and deserve, ever-more of your sweet trust. I, in turn, transmute your trust into our shared kinky, perverted, shocking vision of total sexual "abandon," and pour that fuming, scouring elixir upon you; and as you are consumed by the Dark Fire we have summoned, you in turn transmute that unspeakable force back into even more astonishingly innocent trust, to shower upon me....on and on and on, new worlds without end. Or at least until we collapse together in a single giggling, sobbing quivering heap.
Once upon a time, I used to sincerely believe there was ONE person for me. And, amazingly, there was! But somehow the Universe decided that was not enough. Or I blew it. Or something somewhere in between and containing both those. Then somehow "the One" came around to me again, in another incarnation. And this time she blew it, or the Universe again decreed, "not enough." So, twice incinerated, I'm not looking for that again. Maybe you can convince me I'm wrong. Not holding my breath. Not anymore.
This may be a "deal-breaker" for many of you, and I hate that. But I sincerely do not want to mislead anybody, so here it is:
I'm (probably) not monogamous.
It doesn't have anything (much) to do with who I currently may or may not be "with." It's just the way I'm wired (or re-wired). I can be incredibly happy with one person for .... an indefinite period of time.... Or, I can be incredibly happy with a whole bunch of people all at once or in succession.... Or something in between. But, I CANNOT be happy with one person requiring that I can ONLY be happy with her, ever. If that puts you and me out of the same dating pool, I am truly sorry, but I cannot change it. Any more than you can. And neither of us is "wrong," as far as I'm concerned.
And, as for "fidelity" and loyalty -- if you are a person I am "with," in whatever role, your well-being is synonymous with MY well-being. And if the well-being of one person I'm with comes into conflict with the well-being of any other person I'm with, I will insist we halt and resolve the conflict before continuing, because I can't stand that tearing ME apart. All I require of you is consistent communication (and why is that so gol-ram difficult?!?!).
Do no permanent damage. This includes of the microbial variety, whatever it takes to ensure that.
Page me on Instant Messenger -- I promise I'll answer!
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Meine ideale Person:
Insatiable appetites. Wild imagination. Total disregard for "normalcy." A true pervert, just like me.
Body size/type is a lot less significant than curiosity and communication. All I require, in terms of your physical vessel, is that you can love all of you enough to love all of me loving all of you, completely.
I'm really trying to be tolerant of bad grammar/spelling/general-illiteracy....BUT, if you can't tell the difference between "dominant" and "dominate," how can I tell what the HELL you are looking for? If you are looking for someone who "is very dominate," are you looking for someone who "will dominate" you....or do you want someone you can "dominate"???? I really really can't tell, from your statement! Please, I beg you, learn enough English to communicate the difference between those two statements! DOMINATE IS A VERB, dammit. (Note: If English is NOT your first language, I'll be a LOT more understanding of this than if it is!)
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