I'm a Dominant but not in the classical sense. I like to enjoy a woman's body in a different way. I can sometimes be content with just looking at or watching the female form. But, I get the most enjoyment from touching in various ways whether it leads to sex and orgasm or not.
I believe that one should never stop seeking to learn and that applies to relationships and sexual encounters just as much as it does in professional life. I know there are things out there that my partner may find exciting and that I have never considered, so I am open to the ideas a sub may bring to my attention. I also like to think that I am adaptable, and although I may have a particular plan in mind, I am willing to make changes based on the flow.
[B][/B][U][/U]UPDATE:[B][/B][U][/U] I have been made aware of an interesting adjunct to the lifestyle that has me quite eager to learn more and to possibly try out. I have already read extensively on the subject of Relyfe programming (erotic hypnosis) and I believe it could be a wonderful addition in a trusting relationship.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a woman who is sexually adventurous. Not only should she be interested in the things I find enjoyable, but she can interest me in things that she likes.
As a Dom, I expect to be the lead in any activity, including sexual, but a sub can influence my intentions with her reactions or enticements. There may be times that I just want to be serviced, though, and a sub will be able to do little or nothing to change my mind.
I expect to be obeyed and I am fully capable of punishing misbehavior, though that punishment will fit the crime. It could be anything from verbal humiliation, to time-out, to spanking and it may or may not involve restraint.
Even in a D/s relationship there must be give and take and honest communication. I do not want a doormat for a sub. She should be willing to participate and will have input to all aspects of our relationship.
If you enjoy being touched and teased, and occasionally sexually tormented, email. Or, at least send a wink and I will respond.
And, by the way, to all of the West African Scammers out there. Stop sending me winks and hotlisting me. Your profiles are easy to spot and I will NOT send you money to help pay your rent, your internet connection, your medications or the adorable orphans you help take care of.
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