Mi persona ideal:
Someone who is open and wants to explore what turns them (and me) on. Even as sub/Domme there is a symbiosis that requires cooperation from both parties.
I'm seeking a dominant, switch, or sub. Ideally, we would chat a little online (as much as you're comfortable with) then meet somewhere public before meeting in private. At the moment I cannot host due to construction. If you can't host then hopefully we can agree on a nuetral place like a hotel (I am willing to foot the bill).
I am disease and drug free, drink ocassionally, and have been cigarette free for 2+ months. I would prefer my partner be as well but I can bend on the smoking and drinking (drugs if it is MJ only) but beleive a level of sobriety where you understand what is going on is necessary for safe play.
One night stands, no strings attached, and friends with benefits are OK with me. A LTR could be possible down the road but it all depends on the chemistry we would have.