For the purposes of BDSM, I ID as a Gothic Lesbian Top, but first and foremost I am person.. I spend most of my spare time within the fetish scene, also love Goth/Rock/alt music, pubs and clubs, cinema and theatre.|
Enjoy a nice restaurant with good food and stimulating conversation,
My Ideal Person:
Please note I have a wonderful Female who is my partner. We are monogamous, but do BDSM with others if we choose.
We are always happy to meet new friends socially. ( and by socially, i mean munches, clubs, drink, dinner etc. I do not mean for sex)
I am not looking for any new play partners / subs / slaves. Don't ask, the answer will be NO.
Few things to be aware of before contacting me:
I am into BDSM, My BDSM is Sadism / Control based. It is not about sex.
I am not a swinger. I am not looking for kinky sex/ vanilla sex or any other type of sex.
If you are looking to meet socially i'd expect you to be within reasonable traveling distance of London and be willing and able to meet me at a munch or club. If you cannot make at least that commitment, there is little point contacting me as i am sure we can both agree it wouldn't go anywhere. Better to be aware of this now, than both of us waste our time.
Please note, I personally, have no interest in online/cyber play, so if this is what you seek, I am not the Sadist for you. Also if you seek someone to serve for a few days whilst "in the area", again, I am not the person you seek.
I have many years experience within the BDSM scene, and have been a House Domme at several London Fetish clubs.
To all who consider contacting me, please do NOT send me photos of your genitals, or you will be instantly ignored. Also please do not send me network invites unless you ask me first. all others will be declined.