For the purposes of BDSM, I ID as a Lesbian and a Sadist, but first and foremost I am person.. I spend most of my spare time within the fetish scene, also love Goth/Rock/alt music, pubs and clubs, cinema and theatre.|
Enjoy a nice restaurant with good food and stimulating conversation,
My Ideal Person:
Please note I have a wonderful Female who is my partner. We are monogamous, but do BDSM with others if we choose.
We are always happy to meet new friends socially. ( and by socially, i mean munches, clubs, drink, dinner etc. I do not mean for sex)
I am not looking for any new play partners / subs / slaves. I use this site only to socialise.
Few things to be aware of before contacting me:
My BDSM is Sadism / Control based. It is not about sex.
I am not a swinger. I am not looking for kinky sex/ vanilla sex or any other type of sex and i am not interested in hearing about your sex life / sexual play or lack or it.
If you are looking to meet socially i'd expect you to be within reasonable traveling distance of London and be willing and able to meet me at a munch or club. If you cannot make at least that commitment, there is little point contacting me as i am sure we can both agree it wouldn't go anywhere. Better to be aware of this now, than both of us waste our time.
Please note, I personally, have no interest in online/cyber play, so if this is what you seek,look elsewhere Also if you seek someone to serve for a few days whilst "in the area", again, I am not the person you want to be talking to.
I have many years experience within the BDSM scene,
and if you feel the need to send me a photo or a cam, please make sure you are clothed and i can see your face. i have zero interest in seeing pictures of your genitals.