Too many people have a misconception about BDSM - more specifically, dominance & submission. It is NOT about kinky sex. And it isn't about gratifying one's ego. And it isn't about making someone do what you want them to do. My views of D/s are more medieval in nature - I believe that it is the role of the Dominant to ensure the well being (both mental and physical) of the submissive under His care. He serves as her guide, her protector. The submissive's role is to ensure that both her Dominant and herself are happy. The submissive ultimately has the most power because she cedes control to her Dominant - He does not take it. This is a key concept that is lost on many people.
Who am I? Just an ordinary man with an extraordinary mindset. I am 5'9", brown hair and eyes, 185 lbs. I am sane and sometimes a bit silly. I believe that, despite the harshness of days to day reality, life remains for me half full, full of simple joys that are enjoyed. I am experienced, extremely patient and drug/disease free. I am looking for more than a fling. I am looking for someone who understand this mindset or is willing to learn. More on this "ideal" person below.
I hope to hear from you soon....
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My "ideal" person? Ha. Someone who is giving, patient, passionate, caring, open minded, optimistic. Someone who enjoys communicating. Someone who knows how to smile and who can make me smile. Someone who understands this lifestyle or is willing to learn. If this sounds like you, please do not hide from me any longer.
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