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Hey there! SpaceShipSUBmarine here joining the BDSM community for the first time! I am excited and nervous for such an event. Feel free to welcome me with a parade, dark chocolate, your own sense of urgency, or even a polite hello. 🙃
Update- SpaceShip no longer replies to IMs due to negligence in conduct, rudeness, and trolls.
INTERLUDE
I'm often in charge of an intensive care unit. My work is important and meaningful. I care about others. I want to have my autonomy valued and respected. Please, spare me with the noise...
Do you value your time, energy, and intelligence? As a person claiming dominance, that would be expected. I turned down an invite for Mensa years ago for this precise reason, arrogance... I WILL NOT submit to YOUR opinion being a fact or theory or even a hypotenuse... I'm really shocked at some of these folks claiming to be dominant. Who is being led in life by you? Damn am I naive!!? Please, respect yourself, and move on to find someone else upon which to hang your neglect.
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I digress but clearly, the community doesn't read profiles or doesn't understand how to not waste my time or their own. Don't y'all have careers or hobbies???
Okay, now that my own nonsense is out of the way... maybe we can make a genuine connection. I would enjoy serving on some level, while still getting my needs met... :)
Aside from a more balanced less sadistic Dom/Domme, I’m looking for
A) knowledge first
B) connection second
C) exploration within realms third
Repeat- I'm NOT looking for consistent humiliation, to agree with every opinion you have, or having to entertain bravado (seek other resources for such things.) I want intelligent discourse at times. My core value is respect, unless we have negotiated otherwise. I
I want to have conversations with either gender to learn about dominance, submission, ropeplay/Shibari, bratting, brat taming, power dynamics, and how folks go about exploring those worlds safely and with fun and respect!
My preference for a play partner is a man, but I’m open to discussing with a woman. I don’t want to get into couple stuff or group sex at this time. I’m a classically monogamous person, as my level of tantric intensity is hard to divide between multiple peoples. I’m ready to lean into my submission with a twist of a switch. Pun intended. ;) There is a dual existence within me that is waiting to be unleashed! A poetic power dynamic that I want to play with! A mix of submission and dominance that yearn to be explored!
At my core, my biggest craving is to let go completely… physically, mentally and emotionally, at the will of a man and to lose sense of time and space within those moments. But I want it chipped away or have it presented to me as a pleasantly welcomed surprise after an emotional connection is built. It takes me a bit to warm up, so the type of person who wants to get down to business in the first week would probably not want to toy with me. Aside from being a bit demisexual, much of my intrigue with Shibari is ironically erotic yet non-sexual. I want to learn to rig the right way but I also want to be tied up! Why do I want to be so greedy Damn it?! Lol
Well, because covid almost killed me, for real. After spending a lot of time with myself on medical lockdown, unable to even hold a book, I want what I want and I’m no longer afraid to ask for it with assertion and respect. Allow me to respect your needs and desires too, or even wish you a very kind farewell and good tidings. I mean that with love.
Now, are we ready????
Cheers!
To this life and what we have now. ❤️
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我的理想對象:
Pleasure/Daddy/Soft-ish Dom with some leadership skills, a decent EQ, preferably an entrepreneur or someone with some management experience
Have some patience and a sense of humor bc I can be a bit of a brat.
Ethnicity open
Height/weight proportionate
Age 30-47 Absolutely no persons over 50! I just won't be into you enough and that't not fair to you.
Gender debatable... maybe
That's it. Your political beliefs or religious affiliation do not impress me. Neither does your car, salary, or home of whatever newest Facebook post of your food you uploaded. Do you have a value system to which you adhere with the best of your ability while still claiming to be imperfect like the rest of us? Do you keep your word? Do you check on your mom or family members, those you care about?
That's it.
I can fulfill your need to have a dedicated woman submit to your control. The question is, do you deserved to be trusted or followed?
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