This is who i am. Is my Dom waiting?
As i have grown as a submissive in this lifestyle, my ideas, desires, wants and needs have changed. my profile is still accurate, but it is not complete.
i am a professional. i love to travel. i am smart and funny. i am an avid sports fan, especially tHe NFL. i drink vodka. i can cook. i can be a bit sarcastic or even stubborn at times. But i am always respectful. Sometimes, i just want to be Heard. i want to know my Dom inside and out. i want to be so close that i can sense a change in His mood or even anticipate His needs/wants before He even speaks them. i believe that although there are protocols concerning behavior in the lifestyle, that W(w)e will decide what O(o)ur relationship will or will not be.
i am a thick bodied african american straight female submissive. i want to serve one Dominant/Daddy. An honest, intelligent, passionate, strong, assertive, loving Dominant. i don't want a part time Dom. i want to be submissive to a Dom that wants to train me. A Dom that knows i want to give him everything but i will make mistakes along the way. I want to relinquish total control to Him, knowing He has my best interest in mind. Knowing He will not only correct but teach, instruct, lead and build me into His perfect little sub/babygirl. i do not want to anticipate, second guess, doubt or scrutinize. i want to feel safe. i want him to know my only job is to please him. To give Him what he wants and needs. i want to touch his soul as i give him mine.
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My Ideal Person:
As a submissive, i realize that Dom's come in all forms. i want an intelligent, driven, well traveled, assertive Dominant that takes pride in His craft, His appearance, His life and His submissive. Can You hold a conversation about different topics, current events or the latest BDSM news? Would You be comfortable at an office party dinner, a five star restaurant, a backyard barbecue or a dive bar? Can You still be Dominant when things go wrong? Do You want to know more about Your sub than just what is her favorite position? As a Dom, do You think You would want to host parties, visit Lairs, Dens, Playhouses, host and attend munches, even open and run a successful Adult playhouse. Teach and provide workshops for new members to the lifestyle or lifers that want to learn something new or get a refresher on something old. Would You want to do it with a submissive that wants that for You? That can help You achieve it?
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