About me? This is like an interview. Its hard to talk about ones self.
I am a dom male. I have dabbled lightly in switching, and can see myself allowing the right person that play occasionally. But I am Dom. I am looking to expand my knowledge here. To try new things. To push at my and my partner's boundaries. I like ropes but granny knots are my go to. Bondage interests me. To have someone willing to be bound and at my mercy, and to have someone who wants to be bound and at my mercy. I am not here because I want a fuck toy. Sex is usually an important part of D/s, but it is not always essential. And I need to know you before I will move on to the next step. How long that takes depends on if and how we connect.
I believe that trust and honesty are the most important parts to this equation. And both parties must have both. It must be understood that the giving of submissiveness is a gift, given to the dominant and that gift must be earned and respected. In return, the submissive must also understand that they are also receiving a gift, and must earn and respect what it takes to give that. I have tried being the submissive for those exact reasons. To understand both sides, to experience both sides, and to learn about myself. I believe D/s is not just sex and pain, it is about both mind and body being in the same place. This was long. If you made it this far hopefully it is because I have piqued your interest. If so, I look forward to hearing from you.
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My Ideal Person:
You must be female. Able to be both a lady and a slut, as appropriate. You should be interested in exploring your fetishes and fantasies, and in exploring mine as well.
You will want to submit with your mind as well as your body. One of my favorite moments is when you stand in front of me and I hand you your blindfold. The last thing I see before you slide it in place is the look in your eyes. It is not fear. It is trust and anticipation.
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