I often play pretty extreme. I am into impact play and can make pain wash over your soul, like a warm wave of luscious sensations. But that doesn't mean I only play at the extreme level. I have been swinging paddles into girls behinds for well over three decades. During that time I have learned a little about adjusting my technique, for the particular bottom I am reddening. I am far from perfect, but I usually get it right, or close enough so folks want to play with me again. In my mind it's all about mutual satisfaction and well negotiated limits. I tend to start out pretty mild, because one persons definition of "extreme beating" is often different than somebody else's. I will add, blood is one of my hard limits I do not mess with blood unless I am doing first aid. I should add I am a first aid instructor (Red Cross). So I know what to do when things go wrong.
I've been doing bondage for a little over thirty years. Occasionally I get it right. Sometimes I just wander around endlessly, with a rope in my hands, wondering what to do next. I have just undertaken the task of learning Japanese style (kinbaku) bondage. I believe a person should never stop learning, so what the heck. It is kind of fun and more than a little kinky, which pretty much describes my personality. So I seem to be fitting right in.
I usually measure my relationships in years or at least months, not weeks or should I say weekends. If you are looking for a one night stand or someone with a Velcro collar I am not the guy you want. That doesn't mean I don't do casual relationships. My life is pretty hectic at the moment. I fit in play time when I can. I just believe two people should care about each other if they are going to do intimate things together.
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My Ideal Person:
Currently I am seeking new play partners. Ultimately I would like to find a submissive. We all dream of that one person, where the bonds is so deep, there is no question ,we will spend the rest of our lives together. But until that person comes along, I plan on enjoying myself. So drop me a line, here, or on that other site. Who knows what might happen. A life long commitment usually begins with a simple conversation, so let's get it started.
I am not looking for a door mat, or some simplistic parasite, incapable of thinking for herself. I am seeking an intelligent woman. I do not have time to waste on mindless dogma. If everything you say is based on platitudes, in an attempt to appear deep, please do not waste my time.
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