This is the first time I've been on the site in months, and it is mainly as an explanation to those I was holding ongoing conversations with. I have recently gotten back into the swing of things at school, and while I am still learning about my preferences, this has taken a back seat to my so-called 'real life.' I expect I'll be back when I have the time to commit to the scene, but considering my age, it probably won't be for a while. My apologies (and condolences), and thank you for checking in.
Hazel
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I'm 18 years old, and I've known about my unique proclivities for a few years now, but I've never enacted any scenarios. I'm signing up here in hopes of learning about my own preferences, others like me, and this specific community.
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My Ideal Person:
Considering my age, I'm not even entirely certain I'm looking for a partner at all. However, should I change my mind, I would be looking for a submissive male, preferably within five years of my age, though I can adapt- no one old enough to be my father. Contradicting as this sounds, I should probably also pair with someone with some experience, to ensure I don't do any damage with any beginning errs.
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Just to clarify- I've filled out the ALT fetish checklist, and I wasn't certain just how it would be used to select partners, so I will explain how I chose to answer the questions.
I am entirely unexperienced, so no 'experience' responses are entered.
Anything I currently desire to be a part of a relationship has been marked 'a lot.' When I take part in a relationship, I will expect these things to happen- and I had better hear a damn good reason if someone should think otherwise.
Items marked 'yes' I would probably wish to negotiate over the occasional use of, or I want it but suppose I could go without.
Those with a 'a little' response I may consider bringing up myself, but I'm indifferent to; however, should a partner request, I will likely agree without much needed negotiation.
If I've responded 'No!', I'm likely to mean just that. Unless the activity/item is a large part of my partner's needs, I am unlikely to agree to it.
The items unmarked under the 'desire' (rather than 'experience' category differ, as I left some for different reasons.
Anything under 'watching' is usually unmarked. I am actually interested in watching any activities (except for those marked 'no' on the list. I hope to take my first steps into the BDSM world by watching others and learning by example rather than experience. Especially with many of the more sensitive experiences, given their potential consequences if improperly conducted.
Each category usually mentioned something like 'giving' and then 'recieving.' If the activity seems to represent dominant or submissive behaviors, assume that I'm not interested in the sub half of it.
Everything else, I have no strong feelings for one way or the other. As I delve further into the community, I may grow to desire some. Until then, assume that I'm open to the activity, but only after some serious conversation and negotiation.
In other words, if I haven't responded with a 'a lot!', 'yes', 'a little', or 'no!', I'm unlikely to bring these things up myself in a relationship, but should a partner desire them, I would be open to experimenting.
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