I'm not really looking for anyone right now. I'm very busy with things in my life that take priority over recreation.
It's been a while since I've updated my profile, and truth be told, I'm no longer happy with what it is. I've had more experiences that have changed and shaped me, as everyone does on the road we call life.
A few things I've learned about myself and my involvement in this lifestyle:
1. Anyone can be hurt, no matter how much they tell you they can't.
2. I can be hurt, even though I try to be tough.
3. While I'm still interested in exploring my role as a Domme, I'm becoming increasingly aware that I'm much more comfortable as a submissive or even a bottom.
4. There are a few "hard limits" for me, but beyond that I want to experience everything once.
5. This is the most important one for me. I know what I want. Of course it changes and varies, and every experience tells me something new about myself, but in general, I have a goal...a vision of what I want from a D/s relationship.
I'm not quick to judge.
I want to feel safe under the hands of who I'm playing with.
I'm naive and silly, but not to be taken for a fool.
I am not seeking to fulfill sexual desire for anyone.
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My Ideal Person:
i require, above anything else, honesty.
I'm not looking for a one night stand.
I'm not *looking* for sex, but not opposed to it.
I want to meet like minded people.
I want to learn from people who have been doing this much longer than I have.
Aside from "hard limits" or even morals, as it was recently put to me, I want to at least try everything once.
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