i'm twice divorced, no kids, 1 kitty cat named Sophie Alexandra, and one puppy named Maximillian. i love to read, watch TV, watch movies- at home or at theater, ballroom dancing, listening to music, moving to music, shopping, healthy cooking, cooking for more than myself, having coffee or tea with friends, spending time with my friends- alone or with several at one time. i'm getting back to exercising for at least 3 times a week. i love playing games: cards scrabble, monopoly, pictionary, etc. i love doing stuff outside as long as the temperature outside is 75 F or lower (or the incentive is high enough). Any higher, i prefer air conditioning. *lol*
i'm a life-time learner. i'm an explorer and adventurer on a ongoing journey of life. At the end of each year, i will not be at the same spot of my life- i will have learned more about myself- my mind, body, and soul. Right now, i'm exploring my submissive side.
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My Ideal Person:
Update: I HAVE BEEN GIVEN PERMISSION TO MAINTAIN MY PAGE HERE FOR FRIENDS TO CONTACT ME. ONLY WITH HIS PERMISSION WILL I RESPOND TO NEW REQUESTS.
i'm looking for a Dominant. i've been in the lifestyle just over 3 years now, but still consider myself new to the lifestyle [since October 2006]. i've spent those years exploring what i like and what i don't. (Not that i have found many things that i don't like.) Now i want to also explore the dynamics of a D/s relationship- the service, the communication, the commitment, the power exchange, etc.
i'd prefer college educated and physically healthy (doesn't mean 6-pack abs). i'd also prefer that he is humorous and adventurous. i am not interested in a smoker, user of drugs, nor a drinker to excess. i'm okay with occasional use of alcohol. At this point of time, i would like to find a Dominant who can be a gentle, yet, firm leader and mentor who will patiently guide me through my journey toward submission. He would push me to expand my horizons.
I've discovered any potential Dom needs to be a man of his word. Follow through is very important. i need accountability. i also need a Dom who has time for me. i'm not interested in work-a-holics. i need a Dom who can make me a priority in his life.
If your profile says "prefers not to answer" for most of your answers, if your "introduction text" is blank, if your "my ideal person" is also blank, or if your "fetish checklist" is also empty, i will not take the time to explore. If that offends any Doms, then i am not the sub for you. i spent the time to fill out most of my profile to give you a beginning glimpse of who i am. Please do the same for me. How else will i be intrigued or interested enough to respond? How else will i see if we are initially compatible?
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