I'm a 48 year old, 510, size 14/16, divorced, black, educated, spiritual, female, sub. Friends would describe me as being witty, strong willed, sincere, a little bratty, caring and honest. I am seeking a committed, real, monogamous, Domestic Discipline/BDSM relationship. I have no need for just BDSM play activities. I crave the total control of a dominant man in a caring, protective and loving relationship
I have been aware of my submissive side for about 8 years. In this time, I have discovered that my pleasure is derived from pleasing, serving and being guided by him; however, I have also discovered that I am NOT a mainstream submissive. I do not go weak at the knees solely on the basis of someone presenting himself as a Dom/Master/Disciplinarian/Daddy. In fact, I usually end up dominating the so-called Dom!! While I am usually submissive to a very strict yet affectionate, honest, straightforward, intelligent and self-confidant partner, I am NOT the *I command you..you obey* type.
Without his guidance, I feel lost and out of control have a tendency to be sassy, stubborn, and act out at times a little more than I should. My future partner will need to see my potential and be capable and secure enough in his own right to allow me to keep my willful and sassy nature as long as I do not cross the boundaries he has set for me and able to take corrective measures when needed.
If you can imagine a sub, slave and little girl all rolled up into one.. well.. that's me. No, Im not confused.. I just do not nicely fit into any one category. Im willing to begin on line to obtain that mental connection and to get to know each other but I do grow tired of long periods of just e-mailing back and forth.
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My Ideal Person:
My Daddy/Dom/Master
I crave to be owned, controlled, molded, protected and cherished by a firm, yet gentle Daddy/Dom/Master who is a professional, non-poly, intelligent, authoritative, protective, loyal, very strict, with old fashion gentlemanly manners. I believe that I will not give my all to anyone other than a full time partner.
Your being long distance or local matters not to me as long as you are able to put forth the effort and time to get to make the relationship work.. Im not into phone sex, cyber masters nor am I the type of sub that can be trained on line. I am partial to taller, larger, and men around my age or older. Please be a non-smoker. I have NO intentions of sharing, so if you are married, otherwise attached, a weekend 'player' or just interested in sex, then I would not be the one to meet your needs. `` He listens to my concerns and wishes and doesnt discount them.. although we both know that any final decisions will be his to make and me to obey.
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