I am writing this ...to share some insight into something that I
believe
everyone goes through eventually. The manifest of broken love. For just
as
you enjoy the euphoria of love that captures your heart and makes you
feel
that magical presence of someone special in your life...there is an
extreme
evolution one must go through when that love is broken. I believe
Charles
Dickens said it best "It was the best of times...it was the worst of
times"...oh how those words have meaning now. For you see, love in all
it's
splender gives meaning to your life...it exalts the heart with passion
and
if your very lucky...it makes you well again.
We all know that feeling of love...but it's how we deal with broken
love
that teaches us about our inner soul and helps us learn what's really
there.
You will find that broken love makes you feel lonely, sad and empty.
There
is a certain coldness that occupies the heart, a desolate barren
wasteland
of nothingness that gives you that isolated feeling you experience when
feel alone in the world. You go through the motions of life...but that
feeling
holds on...and pulls your spirit into that lifeless civilization. You
seek
answers to questions that even if you find them...suddenly they have no
meaning...your heart weeps in despair...you pray for that feeling to
leave...only to have it intensify.
Some try to put their best foot forward and move on...while others
wallow
in self-pity harboring destructive thoughts of lost love...but through
it all
the heart aches, the spirit laments and the soul suffocates. We begin
to
doubt love's intent...why would we ever want to put our soul through
such
torment, such vexation...to risk our ego, our character, our passion.
And
yet through the ashes of sorrow...we find hope...to build again...to
reclaim
what is rightfully ours...the joy and happiness of life. For we will
never
truly know love and all it's glorious mysteries...until we experience
the
sorrow of all it's frailties. And so when life's journey takes you to
this
moment in time, hopefully you will have a deeper appreciation for how
sacred love can be.
Therefore, I say to those who have found love...embrace it...for those
who
have lost love...pursue it...for those who have personified
love...cherish
it...it is a gift from God that belongs to the ages. For those who have
hearts that are mending...be strong and know that the spirit of life is
with
you...understand that the pain will one day subside and that tomorrow
begins
the dawn of new hopes, new adventures, and new dreams. Do not give up
on
love...for it is like music and sunshine to the heart. One day when
love
comes calling it will hear your music...and follow the light that will
make
you whole again.
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