My Ideal Person:
Extramarital affairs are of no interest.Not interested in online submission either

Please...if married...do NOT contact me if your wife does not know you are here. (not looking to be a poly household either)

Capture the mind, the body will follow.

Strong and confident Dominant, desiring a submissive who will give of herself completely and willingly, and Someone willing to "slow dance" during T/their journey together.

i am a strong willed submissive, and i do have a mind of my own...i am also quick witted, and will protect myself. But i am looking to feel safe, secure and most of all...loved.

i understand the amount of possibilities on this site and the fear of rejection, but don't take it personally (something i am learning myself)...there is someone out there for all of us....

Be real, and be yourself...if you are not true to yourself, how can you be true to someone else. Be realistic also, if you are looking for online only, then say that, if its real one on one, then say that also. i am quite firm on the online relationships, it is a great tool for an established relationship, or a starting point, but i do need the physical connection, the chemistry. So distance is an issue as i am greedy for your presence.

i understand that this a being forward but i do know what i want, and you should too, when the "connection" happens i believe we will both know. i also know that it does not happen overnight, nor should it, but going with the first instinct often does help....

i wrote this in my blog, but would like to share it here also:

Submissive "training" and what it means to me. To be trained in the proper positions, shows my respect for Whom i serve, and shows that i am an eager and willing slut, not a doormat that follows directions. An experienced Dom will see and appreciate the nuances of these postures and hopefully find me worthy of serving Him. Being a submissive is not just an act, to me it is an art form in a sense, a slow dance lets say. To reach the deepest recesses of our unconscious selves, mentally and physically for both the submissive and Dominant. To bring forth what We have only dreamed of, a sense of "freedom" to express W/who W/we really are inside. This dance first starting in our minds, and once established there, the body and soul follow freely. With any new dance comes practice, trial and error, plenty of patience, and of course discipline, to get the moves right. This is what i need. From Someone willing to take the time to guide me along and learn the proper steps, to correct me when i am wrong, to also let me know when i am doing it right. When Both partners are on the same "page" a wonderful experience and beautiful dance occurs for B/both."