I've always toyed around with the thought of having a 24/7 Dom/sub relationship ... but having it be a relationship, to be owned, but to also be part of all the "un-domly" mundane things in his life.
Being able to go out on a day trip ... maybe hinting at things to come that night ... go home and play heavily ... sleep in a cuddle ... then wake up and cooking a nice breakfast (or lunch) for the both of us.
Most "Doms" I have met want only the extreme, with no regard to other aspects of life, work, family, social life. ...One of the reasons I have not settled down or gotten serious about anyone yet. I have a very romantic ideal of what type of relationship I'm looking for, and to most, it just doesn't make sense.
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My Ideal Person:
As with many women with strong senses of self-control, I like being able to give it up. This is, however, a tricky procedure, because it requires someone as self-possessed as I am to insist upon my losing control. It is a delicate balance, as I can be rather cocky and averse to being bossed around or given orders. You should not only be very confident, as is required to feel as though you could give me orders, but also able to persuade me that it's in my best interests to hand the reins over to you. Once that challenging boundary is overcome, I'm rather easy to dominate--but I promise to make it fun.
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