I am looking to explore and nurture my sensual, erotic and kinky nature. I am adventurous and open to most anything. I practice GREAT safe sex. I have an incredibly active libido for a woman!
I love being aroused by men and of course I love the pleasure in arousing men. The mind is a very powerful organ capable of stimulation and delivering incredible pleasures. and I love the mental stimulation and pleasure and challenges almost as much as the physical, but nothing is a substitute for real time. Real time is what brings me to this site.
Let's go to forbidden places, and push the limits progressively. For myself, I work hard and want to play hard. I need to let go, release, feel the magic, and be transported. I can and will enjoy doing that for you if it is on your wish list. I love to give and to receive.
I enjoy being dominated most of all but I do get a great deal of pleasure dominating, albeit, less experienced at doing so, am not green I love giving pleasure to a special man who is comfortable in his own skin and with his sexuality. If he wishes to experience domination he must be masculine enough to let go and trust me to dominate him and take on his fantasies and make it come true, or to follow my script, and add input too. No matter who is dominating, trust, respect, sensitivity, safety, and common sense are essential. Safe words are a must.
A Dom or a true male switch would be most appealing. I do not want simply a sub or a slave. I have given it a good deal of thought after about a year plu on this site, acquiring knowledge and experience, I do not want to be entirely dominant - I have fantasies that require active rather than passive behaviour from my partner. So very many men have asked me to dominate them and or have offered me their services, or to worship me. I refer to successful outstanding accomplished remarkable persons, many of whom are leaders, senior executives, CEO's, professionals or creative professionals, who have chosen or by virtue of their work are aggressive or active in their day to day lives and just want to let go - and be used - to have an outlet - oh and what a terrific outlet this site is no matter its faults, drawbacks and the frustrations from some of its quirks and rules and malfunctions, for us to have this outlet to find one another is a gift of modern technology - so my beautiful gentlemen who are interested enough to keep reading, it is so much easier for us each to realize our fantasies if we share - just like when we were kids. No subs. Only a Dom or a switch. Take turns. If you need it more than I do then it will be my turn to dominate, use or abuse you and make you my sub or slave, and when I need it, do it for me please. Understand, I want to be the sub more than not whether it is 90/10 or 51/49. Let's just find one another and take a journey together and enhance both of our lives.
I want to be bad, be naughty, slutty, and even a bit nasty. I love dirty talk in the spirit of the experience.
I love high heels and stockings, light bondage, blindfolds, other sensory deprivation, sensory stimulation, slapping, rimming, ass play, sucking from head to toe, sucking cock, having my breasts and nipples played with and sucked, bitten, squeezed, and slapped a bit, my clit eaten, sucked and bitten, my pussy and ass slapped, 69, and I love being flogged and spanked and more (no lasting marks please I am attached in the real world), and would love to do it for you, whatever turns on you, whatever you want to me to experiment with on you, whatever mountain you want to climb, clips, clamps, ropes, suspension, spanking, whipping, hot wax, humiliation, foot fetishes and much much more - just look at AlT's list and put me down for 85% of it. I am not interested in kids ever, and not blood or scat. My breasts are far too sensitive for other than moderate nipple torture, although they do bring me a great deal of pleasure. Not interested in breath play if it involves asphxiation - although I do enjoy some breath play. i imThere are a few other things out there I am not interested in that are yet beyond my comprehension but that is always subject change, I know that because I already have changed my disposition about since joining and experiencing this site. The activities I find great pleasure in have really surprised me, to my joy or pain. Oh and a really good massage is always appreciated, and it will be reciprocated. I want to be in good hands.
I take good care of myself, I work out, and I am very fit and limber. I am not slim or slender, but I am beautifuly curvy, and proportionate and carry myself well. I love to dress. I am very classy and tend to be a classic (not preppie) dresser, but then sometimes I like to play and have a very esoteric fun collection of clothes and shoes, which for a girl is like her toys -but if you want to be my boy toy or make me yours I might wear something less than classic for you if you press the right buttons in my brain and release the right chemicals before we meet. It's that good girl bad girl dichotomy. The playful bad girl is just itching to come out and play.
I have enjoyed some very special mfm and would love to experience two men again (and again, lol) or several passionate hot men, and I would be pleased to reciprocate and treat one or more very specially together or separately. If there are several men participating, I would not mind a woman (women) in the mix, I am bi-curious, but I do really prefer the company of men, especially one on one or in a threesome. I especially like hot fit kinky men.
I am interested in participating in and observing group sex. I love oral sex and told I am particularly talented, which is because I truly enjoy pleasuring my partners, and of course I enjoy it being reciprocated. Love ass play. Fantastic vanilla sex is great too, and touching and caressing are important. Chemistry is the bottom line, and physical attraction, emotional intimacy, affection and conversation are all important to me. I am passionate about life and passionate always during play and in the bedroom. The true passion and commitment to passion of my partners is as important to me as is chemistry. As far as my men go, I like 'em tall, with a thick cock and in good physical shape. Women, I have no preferences, yet.
I am an exhibtionist in private or small public gatherings, and I have virtually no inhibitions.
I live on the So Shore of LI and I don't mind driving modest distances or traveling to Manhattan or out east from time to time. Be prepared to travel to meet me as well, particularly the first time we meet. If we hit it off, you will find my willingness to share traveling to be very accomodating. Weekdays are best for me particularly MWF, late afternoons to early evenings or simlply early evenings usually work best on those days. Occasionally Sat afternoons work. Weekday mornings and early afternoons just don't work for me at all, but otherwise, most everything can be made to work. I do have a busy schedule but if you are special, I will make it work too!
I am married professional lady that requires discretion and wild times. Take me to a fetish club or a dungeon. I have not been to either one yet and I am really eager to go, and would love to have a companion or partner or lover with whom to enjoy the experience(s). Email me at ALT.com if you have an interest in sharing new experiences with me. If you wish to ensure a reply to your email please send a photo in which you are the main event, not your sunglasses or hat. I am interested in you, not your taste in accessories. Clothes are fine! Photos are a given for me, please don't write me without one.
If you have photos in your profile I am a standard member and I cannot see them, and likewise if you have posted a photo displays with your handle, it is so small, please attach it to your mail for me even if you think it is redundant because it makes it possible to see you. It would really be a great idea and it is appreciated.
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My Ideal Person:
My ideal person - easy to describe, difficult to find, maybe you will be him, a male(s) partner/playmate who is intelligent - can be street smart, worldly or sharp - does not have to be book smart, imaginative, passionate, erotic, sensuous, open, daring, fearless, who wants much of the same as I: to go to dark places thought to be forbidden, break taboos without worrying about what others think, and to keep pushing past it, and to continually test our limits, and to pleasure one another. It's about making connections, sharing and taking the journey together. People first, playmate second. Tenderness required. Partner must be willing to/want to step out of the role of top or bottom, D/s or otherwise, and be warm, caring and affectionate when called for, and particularly to transition. I am not seeking 24/7 or to change anyone's life, sharing a part if it is fine if that works depending on the person, but the bottom line is I am asking for no more than the opportunity to enhance my life and the life of a special partner(s). The ability to separate and enjoy one another in other than in a BDSM, sexual or play frame of reference, to be able to relate with warmth and intimacy as human beings - a sympatico of sorts and touch one another's soul or heart would be an additional special gift. If it happens great, if not let's enjoy. NSA, preferably LTR, but not necessarily or necessary. But positively not looking for one night stands. At the very least, looking for a playmate who is open to the prospect repeat meetings or an LTR if chemistry. Must be: Discrete, D & D, Safe, Sexy, Very Creative, Passionate, Compassionate, Sensual, Erotic, Oral, Tactile, Adventuresome, Uninhibited, be a Top or switch, be approachable, willing to share and connect without being guarded or having a fear intimacy. I am very much a straight shooter, and want my lover to be as well.
For men I like 'em strong, physically and mentally, and in good physical health. If you work out or exercise, even better, but please be exceptional between the sheets, I am. Tall is great but only a preference. A partner that can play both gentle and rough is desireable, as well as one who enjoys and is exceptional at giving and receiving oral sex. True talented tongues are a must. Oral important to me. Giving and receiving. Tongue willing to touch every inch of me from head to toe, front to back, and receive same in return if desired. No holdbacks.
Would love an artful and/or skillful mentor, Dom, dom, teacher or guide who will generously share and guide me through the processes but it is not required. Prefer true 30-60 years old. If you are older than your early 60's in real life, no matter how young you feel or what your profile professes, please don't write. Likewise if you are in your 20's, even 29! I appreciate your interest but I do not want to proceed in those directions at present, or spend time testing those waters, because our time is such a valuable commodity. So please don't waste your time or mine. Just have fun and look elsewhere.
I would enjoy a partner who loves mystery, intrigue, is creative and likes to talk dirty to enhance the experience. I will try most anything, be just as adventuresome and fearless as I, no "Doubting Thomas's" please... For me being adventuresome includes being courageous which means proceeding in the face of fear or other similar emotions that freeze some in their boots or raise obstacles. No obstacles please. Preference yes, obtacles no. Trust is essential.
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