I do not plan to meet anyone in real life that I've only met on alt, and will not agree to phone anyone or be phoned by anyone. My interests here are going to be kept apart from my real life.
I am not a slave looking for a master. I'm not a pet looking for an owner. I do not want to be trained for anything.
I have found it enjoyable to come in to chat with friends, to get caught up on occasion with some online 'playtime', and to learn more about this lifestyle and the people who live it.
As I've been learning more about BDSM, I think the term 'bottom' probably suits me the best. I'm only submissive during sex play, and outside of that I hate the idea of being controlled or 'trained' by anyone. But during sex...
Since alt doesn't yet provide a handy list, I'll have to make my own:
My hard limits are:
Any sort of blood play, and I don't even want to see knives. Nothing on my neck that threatens to choke me. No scat. No extreme pain. No torture. No branding, tattooing, piercing, or anything else that lasts.
My not as hard limits are:
I do not crawl or beg. I don't like sitting on laps or knees.
This list will be frequently updated, as sometimes I don't know what my limits are until I experience something I'm not thinking of at the moment.
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My Ideal Person:
Intelligence, wit, warmth, courtesy, appeal, and a perverted wrinkle.
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